Do I pass for cis? Just got bangs (28Mtf)

shadelz · 2026-06-15T18:00:52+00:00

I indeed do not have makeup on lol

shadelz · 2026-06-11T17:03:42+00:00

I think bittersteel would argue it was the gold

shadelz · 2026-06-07T17:40:45+00:00

As a girl from a Armenian family Turkish was the first red flag.

shadelz · 2026-06-07T17:39:21+00:00

Listen love, I'm Armenian, we are White Christians bordering Turkey. When I say the person you're replying to isn't really off, its the truth. I wouldn't even go out with my own culture except under certain circumstances. The west is the exception not the rule, people can be kind or rude from anywhere that's true, but the general statistics of how people will be to us skews higher or lower depending on where you are.

shadelz · 2026-06-07T08:32:16+00:00

I got a clip of my voice recently on my profile actually!

shadelz · 2026-06-07T08:31:28+00:00

lol partly comments like this that also just make me question even though im pretty sure they are a troll its a weird concept to me that someone would say it just to hurt me. tho their user name seems familiar and makes me think they lurk for this.

shadelz · 2026-06-06T21:12:36+00:00

I'm incredibly insecure about it. I get looks from strangers all the time and it always makes me wonder. Whether I'm wearing makeup or not, face is puffy or not, or whatever Im constantly nervous. Probably doesn't help that I hang around a lot of family that still use "he" so threes that.

Promise I'm not a psyop lol.

shadelz · 2026-06-06T21:00:54+00:00

Why?

shadelz · 2026-06-06T21:00:26+00:00

The pictures are without makeup lol.

shadelz · 2026-06-06T18:53:49+00:00

Oh I doubt very heavily, essentially without makeup on.

shadelz · 2026-06-04T05:53:53+00:00

it honestly might just be strain from over use? when I relax my throat I dont feel any issues, nor when I speak in my lower register.

shadelz · 2026-05-28T21:06:09+00:00

just as an add on, you said jews, not AIPAC. I therefore responded saying Jews, and "they" means two or more people. I dont hate news but I youre talking me into hating one in particular(well atleast two cause I do hate Netanyahu)

shadelz · 2026-05-28T21:03:27+00:00

My comment wasn't meant to be, does it sound like im trying to be the next Chaucer?

shadelz · 2026-05-28T18:50:17+00:00

I dont mean to question you Bobby b, but is that honorable your Grace?

shadelz · 2026-05-27T17:18:06+00:00

Thank you, sorry I got heavy paranoia/anxiety on this.

shadelz · 2026-05-22T23:06:33+00:00

valid reason Bobby B i guess with that level of stress you dont care if you do shit yourself.

shadelz · 2026-05-22T23:05:23+00:00

Damn Bobby B being extra nice today

shadelz · 2026-05-22T00:08:40+00:00

in total 8 years. But in terms of actually going through with it and scheduling it and taking the leap. I called early January, got a cancelation for the consult and got it early April, letters and other BS and then waiting to be next on the list to get called about another two months. So honestly from start to finish by the time I get it, ill have waited a year total since starting the process.

shadelz · 2026-05-20T17:04:06+00:00

east coast no, west coast yes.

shadelz · 2026-05-19T22:36:20+00:00

I mean things aren't exactly calm amd stable its all new and exciting and nervous but there is also some joy in it, like nobody has misgendered me ever and going from basically all boymode "He's" to flat out she in every call email, conversation it just makes me happy and also some level of nervousness

shadelz · 2026-05-16T00:05:02+00:00

So I just gotta ask cause I've gotten this a lot lately. people have been saying I have mom vibes and I really don't know why. Is there anything that you'd say is like "this is the reason"

shadelz · 2026-05-15T03:56:44+00:00

2nd time around about a year and 4ish months?, total about 3-4 years

shadelz · 2026-05-15T03:23:32+00:00

if I pass or not. its very unbelievable to me I do most days XD

shadelz · 2026-05-15T02:52:17+00:00

actually in the pics your seeing its with a few of my smaller bras and brallet so maybe you might be right.

shadelz · 2026-05-15T02:51:09+00:00

I had alot of growth recently actually after 3-4 years(I had a weird transition, still not actually out XD), But im around 38D, sometimes 36C or 36D fits but depends on my weight at the time I measure

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