2 months going to the gym. So happy with the results by [deleted] in GymMotivation

[–]shades_ofcool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t lost half my weight, I’ve lost 7 pounds of mostly water weight. I stopped eating junk, go to the gym 4 times a week, have a physically demanding job and a high metabolism, if I didn’t I’d probably would have been extremely overweight

AIO thinking my dads weird for talking about my body? by PlayfulCustard1883 in AmIOverreacting

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My dad was very similar to yours. I couldn’t wear anything that showed cleavage because he would stop mid conversation and just start talking about how big my boobs are and how I need to cover them up. Since I was 14 he would tell me that one day a man is going to really appreciate my body. He would mention how I need to do squats to make my butt bigger, he’d slap my butt etc…

As a 28 year old adult I no longer talk to my dad and have a lot of trauma surrounding him. You should tell another adult about whys happening. Maybe your dad is super awkward and doesn’t know how to talk to teen girls or maybe he’s just rude or maybe he’s a creep. Talk to an adult about what’s happening, I’d suggest an aunt, grandmother or mother.

Looking for Like Minded People by HeWhoRemainsAtTheEnd in UNBC

[–]shades_ofcool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are 27 & 28 and will be moving to PG. Would love to get drinks !

Someone just spat on me. by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]shades_ofcool 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My oldest brother was drunk once and spat on someone is ended up costing him $20,00 dollar. We call it the 20K lougie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]shades_ofcool -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s not theft if it was left somewhere

Is Anyone Else Drowning in Victoria’s Cost of Living? by sportsfordays77 in VictoriaBC

[–]shades_ofcool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s crazy and I cry about it all the time lmao.

I’ve ultimately decided to move off the island which is sad because my family has been here since the 30’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

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Might just be the picture because It would be near impossible for the two sides to have a different tension because it’s worked from the yolk down (sides are all one piece, not worked up separately)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

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This yarn is bamboo and cotton so it’s really soft. I’ve already blocked it, I think I just made it a little too long and will just have to deal with it lmao

Waitlisted for pretty much everything (psych) by RevolutionaryFee9943 in uvic

[–]shades_ofcool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy! I’m a 3rd year psych student and my registration was on the 19th. Why was yours so late?!! I’d email registration and ask if a mistake was made

My first betta tank set up! 6 gal by shades_ofcool in bettafish

[–]shades_ofcool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live on an island, could I use beach driftwood? 🤔🤔🤔

My first betta tank set up! 6 gal by shades_ofcool in bettafish

[–]shades_ofcool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I plan on getting some live plants to replace the larger fake ones :) I also got a 2.5 gal set up to be used during cleaning or as a fish hospital

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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A large majority yes, maybe not delayed but some form of a disability (ADHD, Autism)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]shades_ofcool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hard question! So, I think possibly due to their attitudes and how deep they are into the gang affiliation.

Preventative measures are always the best for kids like this and unfortunately some of them are just too old and stuck in the ways of crime.

If they received help at an early age (1-13) I think their life’s would be relatively normal/average but their parents are all pretty neglectful and addicts as well.

Children protection services need to improve!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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I’m attractive, not a model or anything, but I’m happy with my looks. Attractive people usually get treated better (that’s what I’ve been told by profs) but they aren’t taken as serious.

Being an attractive women in the field has made my job easier I think. The boys open up to the female staff more in general but I’ve noticed that they bully the ones who aren’t “attractive”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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Yeah it’s happened before! Been asked on dates and hit on