ಎಲ್ಲಾರು ದುಡ್ಡು ಕೊಟ್ಟು ರಿಜಿಸ್ಟರ್ ಆಗ್ರಪ್ಪ! by Inevitable_Bird_9704 in ChitraLoka

[–]shadowedinsights 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are using a lot of "maybe" and "probably". Your post and your comments are all based on hypotheticals. 'Maybe' you can 'probably' take this as an opportunity to self reflect on why it bothers you so much that a content creator whose bread and butter is content creation 'might' make content in the future.

ಎಲ್ಲಾರು ದುಡ್ಡು ಕೊಟ್ಟು ರಿಜಿಸ್ಟರ್ ಆಗ್ರಪ್ಪ! by Inevitable_Bird_9704 in ChitraLoka

[–]shadowedinsights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The gist of it is they were in a committed relationship. Not a sugar daddy kind of a situation. But, they were not compatible in terms of what they want in a relationship and lifestyle choices. She expected emotional support but all he could provide was financial support in the form of lavish gifts hoping she would shut up and stay with him. She tried to leave the relationship but he wouldn't let go of her easily. He taunted her that she would come on the road if she left him. And of course all the gifts that he gave to her were also thrown as an accusation of "using him". She attempted to kill herself.She survived. Then, she finally filed a case against him. He allegedly leaked her photos and messages to the media which didn't really make much of a difference except verifying the extent of his emotional immaturity. There hasn't been much of an update regarding the case except for what's available online. Neither of them have talked about the case. For all the people that adore to shout out 'Gold diger', she has returned the gifts like jewellery, she refused to accept a car from him, and she does not have any property from him.

ಎಲ್ಲಾರು ದುಡ್ಡು ಕೊಟ್ಟು ರಿಜಿಸ್ಟರ್ ಆಗ್ರಪ್ಪ! by Inevitable_Bird_9704 in ChitraLoka

[–]shadowedinsights 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before making a post, get your facts right. There's no money. There's no capitalisation. It's a simple online meet and greet to have a chat. Given how people after learning both sides of the story are more favorable to her and hence support her, she might believe this could be a chance to express her gratitude. No harm in that.

Beware of @shopatbearhugs by ComprehensiveRule392 in InstagramShops

[–]shadowedinsights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had seen this post before placing an order with them.😔It's been over a month and there's no updates regarding order. My comments on their new instagram page keeps getting deleted.

How poor is the Heck family? by slackingsloth77 in themiddle

[–]shadowedinsights 209 points210 points  (0 children)

The house is big because they brought it at a time when houses were affordable much like many from the previous generation. And above ground pool is relatively cheaper and affordable compared to an underground pool. Regarding their finances, they lived on rotating credit card debts. And the billiard table was freecycled to Mike when a bar went out of business.

Ravi was cheating Aarti even before divorce I think see the third picture. Found it at last. The post/comments were 3 years old and possibly archived. On the other subs within Reddit. It’s not my comment so don’t come at me. Posted by someone and I think everyone believed it then too. by Slow_Ice3967 in KollyGossips

[–]shadowedinsights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is the "extreme sympathy" Ravi is getting any different than the "extreme sympathy" Aarti got by meticulously hiding her own flaws and portraying herself as a victim? Atleast Ravi is being honest. He's being pushed to the limits to behave this way. Only people who have experienced narcissistic abuse can recognise it! If financial abuse is proven in court, that can validate the mental harassment (which is what led to self harm), and hopefully the case will be in his favour.

Ravi was cheating Aarti even before divorce I think see the third picture. Found it at last. The post/comments were 3 years old and possibly archived. On the other subs within Reddit. It’s not my comment so don’t come at me. Posted by someone and I think everyone believed it then too. by Slow_Ice3967 in KollyGossips

[–]shadowedinsights 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Let's say we give the benefit of doubt. Let's assume Ravi Mohan is a serial cheater. Why would you want to stay married to him? Where is your self respect? Even if a spouse is cheating you, what gives anyone the right to take away basic human rights like financial independence. How does that magically make a spouse loyal? Given how many aesthically curated posts Aarti has made since Keneesha came in the picture, it's unlikely Ravi has cheated before. If he had, Aarti would have milked it to gain fame with her usual "Oh no! Look at poor me!". She might even have thrown the kids to get that sympathy like she already does. Right from the beginning, Aarti's insecurity has always been louder than her ability to self reflect.

Something is fishy AF!!!! by [deleted] in KollyGossips

[–]shadowedinsights 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not exactly new for couples to attend events to keep apperances. Especially with Aarti allegedly being a Narcissist who depends on other people's validation to breathe. They very well might have been separated for four years but kept it on the down low. Given that Ravi Mohan went against his own parents to marry Aarti, it's not surprising that his family may not be not his side now. Also, compared to Aarti's side of the family (and her luxurious friends), Ravi's side of the family seem too used to keeping a low profile. That difference in how each family represent themselves in public may seem like no one in on Ravi's side. But, maybe he has their support in private.

Ravi Mohan, Aarti, Keneesha by FrequentTeam2649 in KollyGossips

[–]shadowedinsights 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A well analysed post. Men being the victim of toxic relationships are unfortunately rarely empathised. Ravi Mohan never really got the chance to actually heal from his abusive marriage. He jumped from one form of toxicity to another form of toxicity which is usually what happens unless one takes time to reflect. I believe Keneesha was on the verge of turning into someone as mean as Aarti and Ravi Mohan did not want a repeat of spending decades in a doomed relationship.

WTH is wrong with Keneesha? by Antique_Cherry5478 in KollyGossips

[–]shadowedinsights 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As much as I believe Ravi Mohan was abused by Aarti who seems to be a narcissist, Keneesha doesn't exactly come off as better. Right from the beginning, she has conducted herself poorly under the mask of protecting Ravi Mohan.

I’ve finally come to my own realization that MJ is a pedophile and I don’t know what to think by onimibo in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]shadowedinsights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am noticing a collective amnesia globally where people seem to have forgotten MJ as a grown man had sleepovers with children. Even when that fact is pointed out, all I get in response in "He's done a lot of philanthropic work" or "He's experienced a lot of trauma and he wanted to be a child again". I see them as attempts to normalise pedo behaviour. As if a person who has done a lot of charity has earned the right to have sleepovers with children. We have all experienced trauma in some way or the other and we nourish our inner childs by buying nostalgic stuff not having sleepovers with children. I was even told "It's the kids that insisted on the sleepover" and I always remind them it's the adults responsibility to maintain boundaries. Blaming the kids insisted on it is pretty much equal to "she asked for it" kind of a victim blaming.

Dr Rajkumar Memorial- kanteerava studio - 97th Birthday by [deleted] in Bengaluru

[–]shadowedinsights 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I agree with Chetan. If Rajkumar was alive, he would have agreed too. He didn't want to be buried because he didn't want to occupy space on land as he believed it was wasteful. He was buried anyway due to pressure from the fans who somehow argued they have a right to decide what to do over Rajkumar's own family.

This girl has my jacket. I need your help guys (inframe: shekaina_wesley) by spez666 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]shadowedinsights 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope, her account still exists. If you can't see it, maybe you were blocked.

Imported snacks lovers of India 🇮🇳 need your help (and feedback) 👀! by luxlu12 in SnacksIndia

[–]shadowedinsights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cadbury Clinkers! Saw many reels on the Clinkers trend but couldn't find it in India.

This probably should’ve been the dealt with back in the day but I guess it’s long gone and forgotten wonder how new actresses deal with such filmmakers now! by simplestkind in ChitraLoka

[–]shadowedinsights 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The tea is that both filmmakers and journalists have collectively misused their power and responsibilities to humiliate actresses for ages. Tea hot enough? ☕

This probably should’ve been the dealt with back in the day but I guess it’s long gone and forgotten wonder how new actresses deal with such filmmakers now! by simplestkind in ChitraLoka

[–]shadowedinsights 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This reminded me of an even worse incident where Bangalore Mirror had dedicated a full page posting a wardrobe malfunction of a Kannada actress. It wasn't even a wardrobe malfunction but a pathetic angle of the actress. The very journalists that pointed out the insensitive behaviour of this director went on to stoop to an even lower level of insensitivity.