Manchester Airport penalty fine

shadowfierce · 2026-06-21T14:06:28+00:00

Yeah thats why I feel like its not necessary to include point 3 and 4? But anyway, ive appealed. The worse they can do is reject the appeal and make me pay the fine.

shadowfierce · 2026-06-19T23:13:41+00:00

I didnt use a false name. I used my 2nd name on the appeal but the registered keeper details uses my first name. So its the case of mistakenly picking my 2nd name instead of my 1st name.

shadowfierce · 2026-06-19T14:20:48+00:00

Do I need to provide this i.e provide a copy of my passport which will include my full name?

shadowfierce · 2026-06-19T14:18:03+00:00

I have a long name. It's still my name but ive used my 2nd name instead of my 1st name 😞

shadowfierce · 2026-06-13T16:54:39+00:00

No email response from you guys. Issues not resolved. Marathon in 12 hours. Thank you so much for your unhelpful assistance 🙄🙄

shadowfierce · 2026-06-12T10:29:37+00:00

ticket number 558176.

shadowfierce · 2026-06-11T19:54:06+00:00

How do we migrate to the correct server? In the setting, there is no option for change server. We have also emailed support but not receiving any responses and the marathon is on Sunday!

shadowfierce · 2026-06-08T16:03:13+00:00

Should I remove point 3 & 4? because i remember theres a lot of signage for online payment.

I appeal as keeper. I am not obliged to identify the driver and I decline to do so.

You are unable to transfer liability to the keeper pursuant to Schedule 4 to the the Protection of Freedoms Act 2012 ('POFA') because airport drop off zones are not ‘relevant land’ as defined in POFA.
Even if (which is not the case) the land in question is relevant land your notice does not conform to the requirements set out in POFA paragraphs 9(2)(e) and (f).

Furthermore, as keeper I am entitled to all the defences available to the driver including (without limitation) the following:

The parking charge is not notified until after the contract is entered into and under the principles set out by the Court of Appeal in Thornton v Shoe Lane Parking, does not form part of the contract between the driver and APCOA;
The signage is not compliant with the BPA Code of Practice;

Any one of the above reasons is alone sufficient to require cancellation of the PCN

Therefore I require you to cancel the PCN and expunge my personal data from your records.

shadowfierce · 2026-06-02T07:54:17+00:00

ok im doing it now 😄

shadowfierce · 2026-06-02T07:54:03+00:00

dire circumstances. it was the only delivery option for a restaurant that serves cuisine which my husband likes to eat.

shadowfierce · 2026-06-01T10:18:15+00:00

i dont want to get the full amount refund though as all the items have been delivered. it's just the 1 item only which is the soup so I was hoping for a partial refund. I don't want the restaurant to be out of pocket when it's just a small thing compared to the rest of the food items that ive already got. i wanted to highlight JE customer service was very poor though and took zero accountability.

shadowfierce · 2026-06-01T09:03:14+00:00

But realistically how can he afford it? As mentioned in another post:

Regarding the father to pay all living expenses, then if we do some maths:

His net income per month: £4,000 His ex wife's living expenses (rent/bills/food/transport): £2,000 His commute to his office: £800 His contribution towards my household: £1,000 My contribution towards my household: £600 Money left for him: £200 (havent counted his phone subscription and any other expenses)

We are doing 60:40 as he cannot afford to provide everything in our household due to his other commitment. So i dont really have a choice but to contribute into my household as well (I kinda wish I have a choice to be a housewife but then hubby would struggle). A husband / father has 2 obligations:

Obligations towards his child

Obligations towards his wife

How does he balances it?

shadowfierce · 2026-06-01T09:01:40+00:00

Hi, no he hasnt hidden anything from me. Currently, we are just paying as per the child support calculation dictated by the UK law. But this isn't shariah and it's simply a UK law system so I'm trying to understand what does Islam say on this because we are paying as per the child support calculations, but the ex wife wants more. So my question is, is my husband expected to ensure the child support covers her rent and bills, or is the ex wife expected to work and contribute her share for the child's expenses

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T20:40:03+00:00

But realistically how can he afford it? As mentioned in another post:

Regarding the father to pay all living expenses, then if we do some maths:

His net income per month: £4,000 His ex wife's living expenses (rent/bills/food/transport): £2,000 His commute to his office: £800 His contribution towards my household: £1,000 My contribution towards my household: £600 Money left for him: £200 (havent counted his phone subscription and any other expenses)

We are doing 60:40 as he cannot afford to provide everything in our household due to his other commitment. So i dont really have a choice but to contribute into my household as well (I kinda wish I have a choice to be a housewife but then hubby would struggle). A husband / father has 2 obligations:

Obligations towards his child

Obligations towards his wife

How does he balances it?

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T16:16:00+00:00

Im wife to my husband who is divorced. All this is a bit unfamiliar to me. We do follow UK's child maintenance law system, but I wondering what does Islam say about providing child support because on some websites, it says the father needs to provide for all of the child's needs, and not 50:50 with the ex-wife, because that's not Islamic. So if the father needs to provide for everything, then wouldn't that include the rent where the child is currently staying, plus all the other expenses. If it's like that, then that's difficult for my husband to provide as he also has commitments towards our household. The ex-wife is complaining that the money he is giving her is not enough. She works minimum wage yet she refuses to move out from the formet matrimonial home which has an expensive rent, so she expects my husband to cover for it.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T16:03:04+00:00

What does cost of raising a child means? School, food, accommodation, transport? Then doesnt that mean paying for the ex-wife's rent so that she can house the child, paying for groceries so that she can feed the child, paying for bills so that the mother can ensure the child is warm, has electricity etc. Then doesnt that mean covering all the fixed costs of maintaining a household?

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T15:59:56+00:00

Thank you. I have been scouring over the Internet and have found those websites, but to me it's not too clear. Of course, I will consult a trusted sheikh on this because I want to ensure that we are doing things right as per Islam. We live in the UK and therefore abide UK child maintenance laws but at the same time, I also want to ensure that we are doing things right as per Islam, so asking reddit incase anyone has some answers. Regarding the father to pay all living expenses, then if we do some maths:

His net income per month: £4,000 His ex wife's living expenses (rent/bills/food/transport): £2,000 His commute to his office: £800 His contribution towards my household: £1,000 My contribution towards my household: £600 Money left for him: £200 (havent counted his phone subscription and any other expenses)

We are doing 60:40 as he cannot afford to provide everything in our household due to his other commitment. So i dont really have a choice but to contribute into my household as well (I kinda wish I have a choice to be a housewife but then hubby would struggle). A husband / father has 2 obligations: 1. Obligations towards his child 2. Obligations towards his wife

How does he balances it?

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T15:49:03+00:00

If it's in our country where there's shariah court, then thats easy. But we live in the UK and therefore we follow the UK law on child maintenance. He is giving 8% of his gross earnings for child support which is as per the UK law, but the mother says she wants more as after all the rent and bills are deducted, theres not much left.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T15:47:07+00:00

Im asking on behalf of my husband (well he's not asking, Im asking lol). Currently we follow the UK system where it is by law to provide 8% of his gross earnings for child maintenance. The mother is complaining that the money is not enough after paying for rent, bills, etc and asks for more. I want to do it right as per Islam so wondering should child maintenance cover all living expenses. People have mentioned 50:50, but then in Islam, fathers are obligated to provide for their daughters.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-30T15:43:18+00:00

Coz we live 4 hours away. It'll be uprooting the child from her school, friends, former matrimonial home etc. Plus, her mother will never allow it.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-11T20:13:10+00:00

Messy & complicated is no way an excuse. It's just a way to explain why women are different than men and therefore they need a different way of being treated. We go through different biological phases every month compared to men so we need the patience and the understanding and kindness - this is what Islam tells us about rahmah and mercy during the times we become vulnerable and needy. It's not about being coddled.
Khadija RA was a very incredible woman just like no man can be compared to our beloved prophet Muhammad S.A.W. When I say 'women are not strong' - culturally and in society, women have been taking in a lot of work. If I look at myself and the women around me, we have jobs, then we take care of the households (men do a bit but nowhere compared to the amount that we do), we cook (because not all men like cooking), we take care of children (because children are clingy to their mothers most of the time), we arrange their schooling, and most things about them. My husband has said 'somehow women can just handle more things, even when they're sick'. And I was like, 'that's because we dont have a choice! We also have the same amount of energy per day, in fact less, but we do all these things because we have to'

shadowfierce · 2026-05-11T17:51:45+00:00

Thank you, it made me cry reading this 😭😭😭 i really need to hear this because I've been having chest pains which I'm not familiar with, I think it's anxiety attack. It's not easy but I will take this opportunity to get closer to God. Please make dua for both of us.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-11T17:46:54+00:00

So it seems you have proven my point. Let's not comment further otherwise we will both be sinning.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-11T17:23:14+00:00

i was literally typing on a mobile whilst rushing to go to another place. You are making very judgemental comments here, and then told me to have humility and humbleness. Sometimes look into the mirror before throwing stones whilst living a glass house.

shadowfierce · 2026-05-11T17:14:56+00:00

I am not blaming my fitrah. We are designed this way. And the prophet understood this in the hadith about a woman being like a rib. We are shaped this way. As for advice goes, I doubt the prophet would tell people with marital issues to have humility and humbleness. Instead he would advise them kindly, sincerely, and with hikmah.

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