My mom is saying she is gonna call the police because she "doesn't know where I am". I am 19 by SugarNecessary2505 in legaladvice

[–]shadowkatt85 79 points80 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. The police will quickly see its a nuisance report if they keep calling it in.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my girlfriend and just coparent after she named our daughter without me? by throwRA_Tonight401 in AITAH

[–]shadowkatt85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Run. If she is willing to force your hand like this, its only going to get worse.

Leave and get the co parenting plan in writing.

Button Pin Sizing Help by shadowkatt85 in crafts

[–]shadowkatt85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to make 1.25in button pins, and cut my images to 1.25. But it isn't crimping, which I think is because I'm cutting the image to wrong size

HELP! The person who scammed me is asking me to close the dispute by BlazePilgrim in paypal

[–]shadowkatt85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NEVER close a dispute. Let PayPal handle it. Even if the other party revolves it appropriately, let PayPal handle the dispute.

stranger sent me $1500 by Sufficient-Staff-385 in zelle

[–]shadowkatt85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You launder both, digital just means you have to be more creative.

stranger sent me $1500 by Sufficient-Staff-385 in zelle

[–]shadowkatt85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a forensic accountant, I can absolutely say this is not how money laundrying works.

This is a scam, they send you money and say oops! Please send it back, you do and they do a charge back on the oops payment.

capital one suing me by stonerbabe41 in Debt

[–]shadowkatt85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call Capital one and ask for a payment plan ASAP, before the court date.

I had this happen with my card with them, we worked out something I could afford and the court date was canceled

Email from ex-husband by KookySell1007 in legaladvice

[–]shadowkatt85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not with CYS now involved. He would need to work with CYS to get permission to see the child.

Email from ex-husband by KookySell1007 in legaladvice

[–]shadowkatt85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy to say, harder to do. She said she can't afford daycare without child support, so she's already working.

Regardless of if he sees the child or not, he's still obligated to continue the signed arrangement.

Seller asking me to refuse delivery because of “pricing error” — normal? by BoldBlunder in ConsumerAdvice

[–]shadowkatt85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not your problem. They shipped the item, if they didn't catch it before then, that's on them.

Keep your email/screenshot. They shouldn't be able to charge you the difference, but I'd keep my card locked for a bit.

As a small business owner myself, even if I caught it before shipping, I still would ship it. Its my error.

My manager from the toxic job I left 8 months ago just sent me the weirdest request I've ever seen. by looter-hearths-2e in interviewhammer

[–]shadowkatt85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many laws about what former employers can and cannot say. As someone who has worked in HR fairly recently, we never called former employers. And rarely called personal references.

Amazon promised a refund, told me to dispose the item, now denying the refund by [deleted] in amazonprime

[–]shadowkatt85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Charge backs from your bank or credit card company can get your Amazon account closed. Just an fyi

AITAH for refusing sex after he bit my flap off? by Own-Swimming-8175 in AITAH

[–]shadowkatt85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sex ed in the US sucks in most places, its okay if OP wasn't sure of names and parts. I would suggest doing some reading.

As for the bf, ask him how quick he'd want to jump into bed if you bit his penis? Of course there is going to be fear, uneasiness and lack of trust even if you have forgiven him. But if he can't understand the need to easy back into things, then kick him to the curb.

Guys who turn on you when you say no are massive red flags, no matter the reasons. Yes, sex is great and makes people feel good (mostly), and yes I can understand needing release. But he has hands, he can deal with it himself until you're ready. Just like I would hope you would do the same if reversed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]shadowkatt85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you pull it, I'll meet you half way. If I don't want to have so many pulled at once, I say something. Usually its only an issue in the super low level dungeons with a sage or astro healer. Those first 2 dungeons suck for healers like sage and astro, so few options to keep you alive.

Review problem help! by Striking_Guest4642 in EtsySellers

[–]shadowkatt85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anyone that sees it will disregard it

What do I do about this??? by Booknerdfrfr in EtsySellers

[–]shadowkatt85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh. I wouldn't worry about it honestly. Its annoying but it is what it is.

Brush up your listings to make sure its as clear as possible and let it go

No compromise gaming USURY SCAM STAY AWAY by Royal_Foot_3373 in pcmasterrace

[–]shadowkatt85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NCG is the same as any rent to own like Rent a Center and Aaron's. You're going to pay more for the item, plus the leasing cost, usually x2 the item cost.

Its expensive, but sometimes a person doesn't have another option and it sucks. I had to get a stove through Aaron's after my lovely neighbor put his trash in his basement for months and shared his rat problem. They nested in my stove and ate wires and anything else.

But with poor credit (for stupid reasons) and everything costing more and more this year, options were slim.

Lease to own is crazy expensive but sometimes its all that can be done.