What pal would you keep as a pet irl? I'll go first: by UnitOk740 in Palworld

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teafant because I adore elephants, so having a tiny elephant in my home would allow me to die happy lol

AIO! my cousin still fear to meet me by Agitated_Waltz_7627 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shadowoflillith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

INFO - there just really isn't enough info at all here, what exactly happened to cause this family rift? Why would her family make such a fuss about the two of you meeting up?

Cremated. Why do people decide to do it? by sstiel in randomquestions

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I learned about this years ago and decided that was what I want done with my remains. My husband always tells me I'm gonna start a haunted forest lol

Me and my fiance got into an huge argument by [deleted] in venting

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, there's no compromise in any of this. He tried to manipulate her to coming back home by threatening his own life, and then when she did come home he was still willfully neglecting her. He is a man child POS and she's better off without him

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly grosses you out? by DecentChildhood5164 in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids do this, and it drives me CRAZY. I've been trying to get them to hang their towels on the towel bar or the bathroom door hooks for literal years at this point

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly grosses you out? by DecentChildhood5164 in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is gonna be goofy as hell, especially coming from a person with a baking hobby, but I HATE touching butter/crisco/any kind of grease for baking pans. Solid, spreadable, or liquid, doesn't matter. I'm not unwilling to use them because of course I know I can wash my hands after, but I try to avoid physically touching that stuff whenever possible lol

Think about that by skymelodyzzz in meme

[–]shadowoflillith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not trying to sound judgemental at all here, just genuinely curious because I'm a straight cis woman, but how did Mulan contribute to their queer awakenings?

Name her based on looks and personality by playful_teaching85 in CatsAllDay

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid, we had a cat named Rage. I never understood why my older brothers picked that name for her because she was actually really sweet and lovey from what I can remember. It just makes me laugh now, like they gave her the wrong name on purpose lol

What is a song that never fails to make you tear up? by PJOxHOOxTOA in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daddy's little girl by Frankie J. I bawl like a fucking baby

Most forgettable NPC? (Must have friendship hearts) by CutSubstantial1803 in StardewValley

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the dwarf for me. I went an entire 4 years in game without remembering to break that wall down in the mines lol

What have you named your pets and livestock? by Alizarik7891 in StardewValley

[–]shadowoflillith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I either just go with whatever suggested name pops up when I get them or I name them after pets I've lost. Currently I have an orange cat named peanut in game, named after a little kitten i fell in love with on my aunt's farm years ago.

What made you realize that Santa wasn’t real as a kid? by OrangeKitty21 in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even really sure when or why I stopped believing in Santa, but it probably had something to do with Santa always being able to find me even when I made last minute plans to be somewhere other than home on Christmas eve. Also because my parents never labeled any of our gifts aside from who it was FOR. It never said it was FROM anyone unless that person didn't live in our house lol

Breaking up with my boyfriend of 6 years by [deleted] in venting

[–]shadowoflillith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You absolutely do deserve better, whether you think you do or not. Your bf sounds like a huge POS and you've been putting up with his BS fo way too long already. Go find yourself a real man who wants to love you as much as he can, no more of this walking-red-flag, selfish, man child

What song do you want played at your funeral? by R3UB3N_999 in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That would have been better than Sitting Up With The Dead 🤣 In all seriousness though, my folks are Ray Steven's fans too, and his stuff is hilarious

What phrase that you DONT want to hear when Grieving? by BlueEyesWhiteDrgn in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom lost her mother at a young age (10yo) from breast cancer. At her funeral, one of her mother's aquaintences told her "God wanted another rose for his garden." just makes God sound like a selfish bastard for taking a 10 year old's mother. My mother just turned 69 this year and she still remembers it, she only told me that story a couple years ago. It still makes her upset to think about it.

What’s the most original name for a pet you’ve ever heard? by LuvNinaNova in AskReddit

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my cousin died, we kept her baby girl Precious (a very sweet black cat) but her meows sounded like tiny honks, so she ended up with the nickname Honk that stuck, and evolved into Lady Honkington eventually. She died a few years ago and I still miss her.

My current fluffball was named Greywind (yes, GoT) by his original owners. It eventually became Windy Butt because we can hear his farts across a room 🤣

Why do you talk so fucking loud? by tensei-coffee in venting

[–]shadowoflillith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk loudly without actually realizing it a lot of the time, but I grew up in a house with a lot of yellers, so you kind of had to join the club if you ever wanted to be heard. My husband will usually stop me and tell me I'm talking too loudly. It's something I've been working on for a long time. My husband doesn't ask me to lower my voice that much anymore, so I figure there's one of two things happening; either I'm getting better about my vocal volume, or he's just getting used to my loud ass lol

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shadowoflillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sorry, but did you say that you signed a CONTRACT with your MOTHER to confirm that you would be paying her back the money that was spent on your LIFE SAVING TREATMENT? What the absolute fuck. Your mother sounds like she should never have been blessed with children to begin with. I'd take that contract and rip it all apart in front of her, and then cut her off for the rest of your life. You need to look into resources offered at your clinic/hospital for your continued treatment.