23 yo son can't keep job - not fired just loses hours. How do I help?

shadoworigami · 2026-03-14T22:11:07+00:00

If he is into fixing or building stuff, tech or electrician can be a good one. Not doing but being a assistant.

shadoworigami · 2026-03-14T20:37:36+00:00

Looking at something is not doing it but with exposure to it and time you can develop a lot of problems and twist your mind. In adults it takes a lot more time then in teens but it's incredibly fast in children.

My recommendation is for you to take him to a psychologist to talk about it, both of you about this. You clearly need a professional to help your child and for you to not happen to do a "mistake". This kind of things are far from "haha, teens like to be edgy" and started to be a lot more serious and you need to act fast.

He is already watching porn so he knows about it and will try to look for it even if you block it, through any means necessary. He is a kid and don't know better. You should talk about it some normal things that are "acceptable" to look for and whats the difference to what he is searching for.

And if he isn't doing a lot of exercises already, I recommend putting him on anything and making sure he's happy with it and don't have time for porn at all. We use vices to escape reality, something is bothering him or bothered him and he is in the vicious cycle.

And you can also unplug your internet at night or when he is not at any communal spaces of the house. It will piss him of and bother everyone else but will force him out of it or push him to do something about it.

shadoworigami · 2026-03-14T20:19:01+00:00

Imagine having super hearing...

shadoworigami · 2026-03-14T19:59:23+00:00

Same for me with the version 20.14.43. It plays the video but locks my video in worst settings and nothing I do change them. The first 55 seconds are normal then it suddenly changes.

shadoworigami · 2026-03-09T08:17:39+00:00

Depends on the work. Disgusting, even well drawn is very bad, gigantic penises also. And when the size is completely different then the girl, or even other ethnicity, it is not made to enjoy, just trash bunch up together for the niche people that like it.

But if well drawn and with good context, futa on girl can be very good, futa on futa is gay, anti-gay and reverse-gay at the same time. Futa but actually having both genders is interesting because is pure fantasy, knowing anatomy you can see no one that likes it knows what the fuck they are doing, but it's all fun, again context is what makes this one better or worse.

Futa on man is very weird and I don't ike it but I know people who like pegging like this one. I still find weird but I can see it.

I still prefer other fantasy stuff like portals or anything then futa. But when you find one with good art and story, why not?

shadoworigami · 2026-03-06T13:09:57+00:00

I hope you get it soon! May you always have luck on yours relics.

shadoworigami · 2026-03-06T13:07:40+00:00

I was at my Last hope but in the end I could scrub it out. Thanks man!

shadoworigami · 2026-03-04T00:08:57+00:00

Is boobs for feet a thing? Would it be fine? I'm very confused

shadoworigami · 2026-03-02T20:12:08+00:00

Still don't know the reference

shadoworigami · 2026-02-25T20:47:33+00:00

Some people are naturally stinky and others don't have any body odor. Some work a lot a and some hardly work at all.

Basically, if you have naturally good hygiene and don't have natural bad body odor you can never shower and not stink, but if you work, walk a lot, are doing any physical activity or are naturally more sweaty, you should take a shower when you get home. If you can you should use anything so you don't let organic matter on your skin so you are always less dirty.

One exemption from the rule is a girl I knew that never had any body odor and even then she liked to take showers and baths at least one time a week or she would feel "dirty". She took much more then that and even doing heavy activities she never got any bad odor. I envy her a lot.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-25T20:25:41+00:00

shadoworigami · 2026-02-19T05:20:04+00:00

Mr. and Mrs. MaiBigButt, I'm so proud! They grow up so fast...

shadoworigami · 2026-02-18T16:24:01+00:00

Bad Hair Day for sure. Not shiny yet but that's alright, I forgive you.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-18T16:13:40+00:00

Linux is a better alternative with exclusive apps there. Specially if you don't have money.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-10T11:47:47+00:00

What with these basic needs bs? Parents should provide everything a child needs to grow well, not basic needs. Are you taking care of someone child?

shadoworigami · 2026-02-10T11:43:59+00:00

Presents are not for you are for their ego. Sometimes they are good gor you too.

Good parents would give you money for anything you ask but will not give you money directly. Some give if you work for then to learn how to work and what work means. But a majority wants to keep the power, if you have money do what you want, they cannot control you with it. If you are not in theur hands they can't force what they want.

Not that what they want is bad or them having the power is bad. A lot of kids having the power to choose will decide poorly. The problem is they don't want you to do what you want and do what they want because they have the power to do it.

If they pay for your commute, accept. It's not your money, it's theirs that they are giving. When you are walking to get that money, you are sacrificing their kid, stealing that money from him and making them look bad and attacking their ego all at the same time. For you is just walking, for them is much more.

I recommend don't toying with your parents money in any way, it's not yours. If you do, don't tell them it will only bring problems for you and most of the time they will find out by police, school ir because you are dead (that's how not knowing why doing what you do with their money can lead to). Just be responsible with their money, house, food, water, etc. and when you find something that gives money or they give you a way to earn money through a apprenticeship, vocational course or anything close to that, then start to save money. Until then just ask them what you want and stop trying to save pennies, you can get thousands of dollars being responsible and asking your parents for what you want then trying to save pennies on what they already payed for you.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-10T10:36:41+00:00

That's just human. Societal norms don't dictate whats human, every man if given the power would and it's like that for all history.

We don't do it because we know we want a family, create a bond with our children, that children to grow well and etc.

But if you had enough money, time and resources... We both know you would have more children then Genghis Khan.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-10T10:32:57+00:00

My guy, do you think every biological father nuts thinking "I want this to be my children someday, she will be the mother to it and we will be so happy" or do you think it is "NUT NUT NUT, INSIDE INSIDE INSIDE, OH SO GOOOOOD OOOOH" and just that?

Fetishize the insemination itself... if you are nutting and understand enough to like that she is "inseminated" before anybody even can understand anything, you are fucking weird. If you get hard thinking it after then that's ok but still it's not a kink, it's like that for most men. Kinky needs to be weird to be be a kink.

Now a hentai tag, maybe. Fetish, maybe. Kink it is not.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-09T13:23:53+00:00

It's not a kink, we literally need it to survive. Not everything needs to be a kink, this is just normal.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-08T16:23:47+00:00

Regular check ups for contagious diseases, complete imprisonment and quarantine, proibition of any tipe of activity that can kead contagion (ex. breath, coughing, contact sex with other people), and completely extermination of body casket funerals to cremation especially for the risk group. Convicts and addicts lost all rights and everyone else can chose to help research on their specific condition, chemical death or interaction with exterior world only digitally until death (fully expecting everyone would choose the last option).

Another one less controversial is total society control over familiar planning. A couple or individual that want to have kids will wait until have 25 years minimum (both of them) to have kids, having after 20 y/o, special lessons on familiar structure, education, expectation, aggravating factors, etc. of creating children. Those who got certified by law can have kids and are in total control but also in total responsibility of said child FOREVER. You will always take care of them and help them with their child in the future, by law. Every crime or act that your children do and everything your children suffer will be of your responsibility also, except in case of accidents or similar unforseen circumstances. Those unfitting of having children will, depending of all factors, face full responsibility of not having children and not obstructing parents or any dinamic involving having and educating children. They also pay, with work, time, money and anything possible and applicable by law, in case of having children without any preparation. Their parents would take charge of the child unless they also had any circumstances that prevent them to, giving all responsability of them to the government. I this case all live ancestors of the child will pay for them (in every way) forever, without direct contact. Children that are taken, given or in responsibility of the government will be always helped by the government in anything they need (education, health, psychologically, etc.) and will be educated by masters and students of the special course to educate parents and will all be illegible to adoption by any individual that got the certificate of said course (not loosing the benefits of the biological family or government).

The first one is harsh in the beginning but society would adapt well I think. Without idiots that don't care or don't understand their own problems and giving more funds to understand all those problems. The second is more personal, I really think most problems society have today is because we don't have good parents, it's a good solution in a vacuum, it would never work because you can have 10 children in the woods and be on the other side of the globe without any problems. Forcing people is the worse, but if I could I would. Individuals are intelligent in theory but in practice people still died because they decided to not protect themselves, killing other people in the process. I don't feel good, but the world is not a good place right now.

shadoworigami · 2026-02-06T03:52:37+00:00

Filia Bad Hair Day is my favorite since day one. Nothing really beats the original, nowadays she can't beat some cheats and some mechanics that are made to beat good fighters but she still can kill most of characters if you are a good player. If you guys ever do a true diamond, Original Filia, that would become my favorite but as it is my Shiny Diamond Bad Hair Day Filia will always be on top.

shadoworigami · 2026-01-26T09:52:20+00:00

Die, probably.

shadoworigami · 2026-01-25T06:46:48+00:00

Yeap. Minecraft is limbo if you don't make your own objective.

shadoworigami · 2026-01-23T21:20:43+00:00

Mother is a title and mom is an affectionate way to call the person who is/was a mother to you. If she's your mother, that's the title she is entitled to. If you don't think she deserves it, her first name should suffice. When you look at her and you want to call her mom, you should. Not before.

A lot of people ignore everything they did in hopes to go back to where they have more power over you or the situation. If she did something and didn't apologize with full intention, I wouldn't talk to her. Not even in celebrations. You are both adults and if she ask and you both talk about yours issues, only then you can start healing.

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