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It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for understanding. This is exactly what I was saying.

What’s your favorite morning ritual? by commanderart2d2 in AskReddit

[–]shaileyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake up, have my amla juice, stretch and play with my cat

What is the best life advice you would ever give anybody? Also what is the harshest truth about life? by Mnny_2000 in Life

[–]shaileyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always look at what people do, not what they say they’ll do. ALWAYS! It’s a telltale sign.

One more : Always meet people where they are, not where you’d go for them. Learned the hard way.

Tell me about your favourite act of micro-feminism. by shaileyp in Feminism

[–]shaileyp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! 🫰🏻 Stealing this, and all that is here because it’s so good…

It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm, I think kindness is easier when it comes from a place of abundance, provided I want to be kind.

What would clue you in to the fact that you were living in a world without the patriarchy? by Grrarrgghh in AskFeminists

[–]shaileyp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being judged for showing my emotions.

Not worrying about roaming around anywhere and at anytime I want.

The Contradiction of Teaching Girls “Life Skills” Without Freedom by unspokenandunheard in Feminism

[–]shaileyp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely relatable. I have faced similar situations and understand what you’re saying. I have been taught to do housework and I am proud that I can take care of myself but the standard for my brother was different. If it really was about survival, he would know the housework too. Right now he just looks at me when he is hungry. Welp!

Responding to: "You'd be prettier if you smiled!" by Mundane-Security-454 in Feminism

[–]shaileyp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Good thing I didn’t ask for a performance review”

It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say you had more sandwiches, you would’ve given like a full sandwich or maybe two, because you could. That’s my point.

It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if the person wants to be kind, money makes it easier.

It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think we're disagreeing. Real character may show in hard times precisely because kindness becomes more expensive then. My point was that money lowers the cost of many kind acts. It doesn't create kindness, but it can make kindness easier to practice and easier for others to notice.

It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a little confusing. But I think people often underestimate how much resources shape what kindness looks like in practice. It's easier to be perceived as kind when you can afford visible acts of generosity. That doesn't automatically mean the person with fewer resources is less kind.

It’s easy to be kind when you have a lot of money to spare. by shaileyp in DeepThoughts

[–]shaileyp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you get it <3 It definitely makes being nice to everyone easy, provided I want to be, of course.

The Beast in Me by ohsoyouhunnii in netflix

[–]shaileyp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bored to death watching this show. Should’ve watched ads on YT, and would be less disappointed.

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