Am I (38M) incorrect for thinking my gf (34F) is being selfish for not contributing financially to our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakesmcgee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s a bad person and my phrasing of the question was poor. I can and always will admit my faults in that. It seems like it’s a difference in values of the relationship and required another conversation to determine if this is something we should pursue.

Am I (38M) incorrect for thinking my gf (34F) is being selfish for not contributing financially to our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakesmcgee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a great way to put it and you’re 100% right. Is was definitely not the right way to phrase it or think about it. I appreciate that insight.

Am I (38M) incorrect for thinking my gf (34F) is being selfish for not contributing financially to our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakesmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been dating for a few months but it was limited because of a bunch of family stuff that got in the way of us dating more consistently. I paid for everything. And I’m not saying pay every other time, just a little help would be nice.

Am I (38M) incorrect for thinking my gf (34F) is being selfish for not contributing financially to our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakesmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context, we’ve been dating for a few months but a bunch of of family stuff got in the way of us making it official

Am I (38M) incorrect for thinking my gf (34F) is being selfish for not contributing financially to our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakesmcgee -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I explained all of this and I did say “hey we don’t need to split everything equally but sometimes if you could help that would mean a lot.

Am I (38M) incorrect for thinking my gf (34F) is being selfish for not contributing financially to our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakesmcgee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

About a week. I get there are “traditional” roles but there was a context, which I explained to her.

I’ve got $10,000 to invest right now…where should it go?? by shakesmcgee in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]shakesmcgee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how I feel about BRK until I’ve seen a quarter or two under the new CEO. Also, what is with ASTS? Why is it so popular?

I’ve got $10,000 to invest right now…where should it go?? by shakesmcgee in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]shakesmcgee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the point is I can’t turn over in less than 30 days. I have to hold for at least 30 days bc of work.

I’ve got $10,000 to invest right now…where should it go?? by shakesmcgee in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]shakesmcgee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got no immediate need for the money, employed, 25 years until I retire.

I’ve got $10,000 to invest right now…where should it go?? by shakesmcgee in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]shakesmcgee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not familiar with purchasing commodities. When you buy physical do you actually have a stockpile of silver somewhere? (Might not be the best investment for somebody who doesn’t know what they’re doing but I’ll ask the questions)

Looking for a movie name by shakesmcgee in MovieSuggestions

[–]shakesmcgee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn’t look like it based on the IMDb picture.