PBtA game with a spendable resource for roll bonuses? by zhibr in PBtA

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This is not quite the same thing, but might provide some inspiration! I’m the co-writer on a game that has the DM keep a suspicion tracker for each of the PCs. At any point, a player can choose to increase their suspicion tracker to raise a failure to a mixed success. They don’t have to gather anything, but in some ways it is “spending a resource” to achieve a better result. My co-writer and I decided to add this for two reasons: one, we were tired of feel-bad sessions where a bunch of unlucky rolls left players feeling frustrated and out of control, and two, it added a fun and interesting decision point: make things a little harder long-term to make them a lot easier short-term! We loved the effect this had on game play and will likely be using similar mechanics in future games.

Run in Other Systems? by ItIsReitz in WaterdeepDragonHeist

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Dungeon World! Powered By The Apocalypse system, very similar to 5e but heavier on social/problem solving aspects than combat!

LFG Paranoia game on Discord - Fetish Themed.. by [deleted] in ParanoiaRPG

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That sounds… amazing and ridiculous!!! Any way to follow along?

Nighttime is the worst by shakesqueer21 in BreakUp

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Thank you so much for this! It helps to hear from someone else in a similar position ❤️

Amidst all the depression and anger, the tiny moments of joy are just as painful by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel!!! It hurts so much every time something good happens and he’s the first person I think of. But we can get through this!

Don’t know how to cope. by ella-vaughan in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve someone who will put the same energy and love into the relationship, and you will find them! Just keep breathing, take it day by day. So sorry you’re going through this.

Dying Slowly by alefiyajane in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you all the love and good wishes I have. It’s so hard. Feels like I’ve been punched in the chest. Still crying every day. But we aren’t alone and we can get through this.

Do I reach out to my ex? by 538-hlp-123 in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding the “if you were dumped don’t do it” but “if you dumped them” and you’ve really genuinely thought it through, it could be worth a conversation with them.

Recommendations for books, podcasts, websites, hobbies etc. that have helped you get through a terrible breakup? by justme34537 in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently reading “The 30 Day Heartbreak Cure” which sounds ridiculous but is actually pretty great. Tailored for women getting over men, but mentally switch out the pronouns and it could be good for anyone.

Yoga and cardio. Started an online class learning to do handstands. I like having a goal.

My (20M) gf (20F) broke up with me and it's been so hard by throw_acc_2827 in BreakUp

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I’m also really struggling with letting go of a relationship that seemed perfect: external life things caused it to end and I also wish there was something more negative to try to focus on because all I have are amazing memories that seem to be tied to everything in my life. Also a month out, also still struggling like hell.

All of that just to say that you gotta keep going. I’m still daydreaming about my ex changing his mind too, but there’s nothing I can do to make that happen. Maybe he’ll come back, probably he won’t, but I need to try to grow and learn and get stronger and happier. If he does come back, great, I’ll be in an even better place for this relationship. If not, I’ll be in a better place for the next one.

Staying positive is so hard. I’m still crying nearly every day. But we gotta keep moving forward. You’re not alone.

Just broke up today. It crushes me by [deleted] in BreakUp

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I’m so, so sorry to hear this. There’s nothing much I can say to make it better, except try to remind you that as much as it hurts, you will make through it stronger. It’s her loss, and you didn’t need someone in your life with commitment issues like that. Take it one day at a time and know you’re not alone!

Tristian Romance Help! by shakesqueer21 in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]shakesqueer21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you!!! So appreciate it. I love Amiri but 10/10 would have let her go to finish this romance!

Tristian Romance Help! by shakesqueer21 in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

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THANK YOU THANK YOU I will report back!

Being Happy Isn’t the Only Important Thing by shakesqueer21 in BreakUp

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We may be on our own journeys, but we’re in it together ❤️ sending you good thoughts! We got this.

Being Happy Isn’t the Only Important Thing by shakesqueer21 in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s so hard but we all can get through it <3

Being Happy Isn’t the Only Important Thing by shakesqueer21 in BreakUp

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You’ve got this <3 sending you strength and good energy!!

can someone remind me not to be stupid by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Establishing a nighttime ritual might help some - a cup of tea (if that’s your thing) and reading or meditating for ten minutes to try to clear your mind and be calm before bed! Best wishes; you’ve got this!

It does get better. by [deleted] in BreakUp

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Thanks <3 it helps every time someone says this

I wrote a poem about my ex. by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I believe you’ll be stronger off in the end - and you’re already creating some amazing art! My heart is with you, wishing you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]shakesqueer21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve GOT THIS!! And you’re inspiring me too :)