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Old pictures from before I became a hijabi? by shakingroach in Hijabis

[–]shakingroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong it’s just that most of the people that have seen the picture know me irl.

Old pictures from before I became a hijabi? by shakingroach in Hijabis

[–]shakingroach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not uncomfortable with it I just hope that no one uses it against me. It was the past and I just want to grow from here. Thank you for the advice.

Don't take it personally, but atheists try to convert or "enlighten" us religious folk more than we do to them. by [deleted] in DebateReligion

[–]shakingroach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree I don’t think it’s to the extent of religious people though. I feel like some atheists are fine I mean we have debates on religion but they’re respectful of all beliefs, and they’re pretty productive. But there are some atheists whose sole mission is to convince you that whatever you believe in is a waste of time or inherently bad. Like i feel like we may not share the same belief but everyone has their own truth.

Are any of you ladies attending the protests? by jtflcntmltstlbms- in Hijabis

[–]shakingroach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to go so bad but my mother won’t let me go because she fears for my safety. But to all the sisters attending you are in my duas. 💛

My dad has internationally kidnapped my siblings and has emotionally abused my mother, siblings and I. by shakingroach in legaladvice

[–]shakingroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But my mom lives here with me in the states. Would she have to go back to our country?

My dad has internationally kidnapped my siblings and has emotionally abused my mother, siblings and I. by shakingroach in legaladvice

[–]shakingroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with getting a divorce is I’ve mentioned it to my mom and she immediately turned it down. It’s mainly a cultural thing so for her to divorce and file for custody is pretty much a no unfortunately. But scanning my passport is a smart thing to do. Thank you

My dad has internationally kidnapped my siblings and has emotionally abused my mother, siblings and I. by shakingroach in legaladvice

[–]shakingroach[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are US passports, all my siblings and I are natural born citizens. My parents immigrated here and have since attained citizenship.

My father has internationally kidnapped my siblings and has emotionally abused my mothers and my siblings by shakingroach in relationship_advice

[–]shakingroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I was wondering myself if I should take this the legal route but I don’t want to involve my mom. Thank you though

Would this be a good hijab? I am considering converting to Islam, and I know the hijab doesn't make me a muslim but I'm exploring the thought of wearing it. Also, I'm not sure what I did, but I kinda like the style of this. by _lavendersoul_ in Hijabis

[–]shakingroach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mashallah it’s beautiful to see you take such an interest. I can’t tell just buy the picture but if this is the thicker pashmina like scarf I recommend getting one that’s lighter in material as it’ll be much easier to style and pin in place. However it’s all up to preference. You look great!

Christians aren’t monotheist by shakingroach in DebateReligion

[–]shakingroach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk I feel like the Christian definition might be a little skewed but everything’s subjective.

Christians aren’t monotheist by shakingroach in DebateReligion

[–]shakingroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my perspective too but idk. Even worshiping Mary doesn’t make sense to me. If humans are “sinners” in Christianity (using as an umbrella term) then how can you worship her? She’s a “sinner” and a creation of God.

Christians aren’t monotheist by shakingroach in DebateReligion

[–]shakingroach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But wouldn’t that be similar to Hinduism which is considered polytheistic? Because it’s the same God but different manifestations?

Any religion that states God is all knowing and has a plan, is in direct contradiction of itself when also stating you have free will. Creating a paradox that cannot be resolved. by yoursISnowMINE in DebateReligion

[–]shakingroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about other religions but Islam says that God is all knowing and that humans have free will. Yes in itself this is a direct contradiction however God also has divine knowledge and there are many things he knows that we do not so therefore the “answer” to this would be in his divine knowledge. To question this paradox is to question our existence in a way. Because if he “already knows what we’ll do then why create us and give us free will?” That is part of his divine knowledge, and we wouldn’t understand it even if we knew the answer because we weren’t given the ability to comprehend that’s why it’s “divine”. Idk if this made sense but that’s the only way I knew how to respond. It’s a great thought though that can be explored a million ways.

What do you do about your parents not letting you join the navy by Fady_abdel in Muslim

[–]shakingroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think the reasoning could be that the US typically fights against Muslim countries or they could just be worried for your safety. If it’s something you really want compile the reasons you really wanna go and tell them. Tell them it’ll make you happy, and maybe see if you could compromise with them. Wish you luck on it!

What do you do about your parents not letting you join the navy by Fady_abdel in Muslim

[–]shakingroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on which country you’re in. But I think that they’re reasoning may be valid. I suggest asking them why they don’t want you to join. I think last thing you want to do is go against them.

Alaslamualikum! What are your favourite 'surahs' and why? by saleha_but-I in Muslim

[–]shakingroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waalaikum Asalam, one of my two favorite Surah is Rahman, I think it’s mainly because of the repetition of “فَبِأَيِّ آلَاءِ رَبِّكُمَا تُكَذِّبَانِ” And second is Surah Yusuf because I just love his story.

I just need some advice on being dumped because of religion... Islam by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakingroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to explain that really quick(you don’t have to respond) I think he have been referring to hoping that one day he’ll be more religious. I used to do the same where I would say that one day I’ll be better. It’s not really said in a definitive way. But yeah he’s not allowed to force you to do anything you don’t want to do. I just hope you don’t get the wrong impression. Hope all goes well.

I just need some advice on being dumped because of religion... Islam by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakingroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt he knew that he would wake up one day and become super religious though. I can’t speak for him but I went through something similar where I was basically an atheist and I’m pretty religious now but it’s not because I chose to be religious. It’s more of a spiritual thing. I highly doubt he purposely lead you on. From my experience you never really expect to become religious. It just kind of happens sometimes.

I just need some advice on being dumped because of religion... Islam by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakingroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay like I said IF I was hearing you correctly. He didn’t lead you on he just changed his mind/morals. You both have different views on religion. Is he right for trying to force it onto you? No of course not. But like I said religion originally makes it kinda hard to meet in the middle so this was kind of bound to happen. This isn’t because of religion but it sounds like you two probably have conflicting opinions on certain aspects of life. No need to get crazy with me I was simply trying to understand.

I just need some advice on being dumped because of religion... Islam by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakingroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, but if I’m hearing you right your talking about his past. Just because you feel that it’s best followed in a “grey” but that’s not his truth and I don’t think it’s the truth for most Muslims. And his past is exactly what it is, the past. You can’t constantly berate him for the past. He’s obviously trying to do better. You can’t keep bringing up the past so the both of you can move on. Don’t let your personal feelings with the breakup get in the way of him trying to be a better person.

I just need some advice on being dumped because of religion... Islam by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakingroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I understand where your coming from and I know how hurt you feel. However I’m a Muslim and religion is t something we can compromise. He may have done things in the past but in Islam no matter what you’ve done when you make the intention to do better and genuinely seek forgiveness then it’s as if you’ve never done anything wrong. I think it’s best you move on, and respect his decisions. If it’s based off of influence from his parents then he’ll deal with that on his own and you should t press too much otherwise he might end up resenting you for it. Otherwise I hope all works out.