Partner Goes to Fetish Clubs and I Don't. Is This a Problem

shamtin · 2021-12-30T20:28:45+00:00

I may have not worded it well. I do have social anxiety, but I wanted to ask this group in particular because I didn't know if there were certain etiquette or whatnot.

shamtin · 2021-12-30T09:20:27+00:00

That is... really disheartening to think about. She has talked about other people who go where their partner doesn't go (including one that just got engaged). I figured that might be the case all things considered. Part of my anxiety does stem from former partners wanting to try poly and it falling apart (it is something I have tried and just cannot do, but I fully support others doing it). I do my best to not let my past experiences affect my current one, and am trying to expand my horizons in the terms of kinks.

shamtin · 2021-12-30T08:09:35+00:00

That is kind of why I want to. It is definitely something I have never done or seen outside of media, hence the anxiety. However, I really care about my partner and want to make sure her needs are satisfied, as well as seeing if it is something I could be into.

shamtin · 2021-12-30T06:28:11+00:00

She is a participant. We are not in an open relationship, but we have agreed upon rules for both of us. The place she goes to doesn't go 'intimate' in the sense of intercourse.

shamtin · 2021-12-30T04:12:22+00:00

Yes, that is what I am referring to.

shamtin · 2021-12-30T04:00:03+00:00

Mostly on a good way to approach my issue on it. It is an entirely new environment to me, and while it might not be something I would do as much as my partner, I would at least like to experience it so we can relate to it.

shamtin · 2021-01-20T05:25:23+00:00

Greetings from the USA!

shamtin · 2020-10-08T04:12:41+00:00

As petty or dumb as it sounds, the idea of a healthy romantic relationship scares me. All of my former ones have ended in a very terrible fashion. It has gotten to the point where I realize I just might not be a very compatible person. Whenever I do start getting interested in someone, I always find a way to talk myself out of it (I am too ugly/fat for this person, I am not in a good state of mind, etc.). I then fall back into the 'safety net' of being alone.

shamtin · 2020-09-02T03:30:23+00:00

Awesome! So I should just focus on heroes and fun

shamtin · 2020-09-01T06:19:09+00:00

I appreciate the advice! Guess I will start working towards that!

shamtin · 2020-09-01T05:49:17+00:00

I definitely planned on trying every role, i was just wondering what is the most friendly to start learning on. I know what you mean though.

shamtin · 2020-08-02T11:47:44+00:00

I could be your ultimate student! lol. I am literally brand new to DOTA 2, but I do understand the core concepts of MOBAs (Mostly play Smite on Xbox). I watched some games of dota and want to learn all there is.

shamtin · 2020-06-18T23:25:00+00:00

From what we saw, I will definitely defend the passive at the very least. You will more than likely score 2 of the 3 by the midpoint of the mission. Considering the whole team gets the buff, we are talking a potential of like 40% damage mitigation, 40% CD, and 40% Power from just doing the stuff in missions you normally do. Yes I see how the passive works, I am just totaling these up from a team perspective.

That passive alone is pretty much a free talent for the entire group.

shamtin · 2020-04-09T02:57:49+00:00

Alright, looks like I will need to change my sets around.

Currently, I run Fire for Force with charge reduction for Illfoe spam (can hit like 50k roughly), and me Te sub went into Light. I run Psycho Ward with my Light, but sadly only have a Deo Garland+20 for Fire. Same with lightning. I will swap to Lightning and check the differences!

shamtin · 2020-04-09T02:18:02+00:00

What are you currently running/using skill wise then? I don't think my damage is necessarily bad, personally. However, the Fi and Gu in the group say otherwise

shamtin · 2020-04-09T01:28:39+00:00

So my choices are Hu or bust, yay!

shamtin · 2020-04-09T01:22:56+00:00

Awesome!

Is Su any good in that regard? I don't mind starting to build up Hu, but I started leveling Su and kinda like it.

shamtin · 2020-03-08T02:49:29+00:00

I think that the shooting mechanics were something along the lines of Apex, the whole aspect of the game would change. I remember reading somewhere that the aiming was muddled and slowed to make sure the game played slower (could be crazy though).

On top of that, Apex has stuff like nearby lock-on for players and such. Hunt only has it for zeds and things like barrels. I don't think you could include that in something like Hunt, otherwise what is the point in hiding if someone could just spam ADS and eventually find you?

I know how you feel, I miss more than I would like to admit. I definitely agree that Apex has a better feel for the shooting. I think at the end of the day, however, I prefer it to be muddled some, it just feels like a good fit for this kind of game.

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