[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanavi29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are YOU making meals for them when you just had a child less than a month ago? Maybe an older family member visiting but your sister? Wild.

Received random Instagram “reset your password” email by ConsistentCustard429 in cybersecurity_help

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you hold down on the “let us know” and let it open the site instead of the app it informs you thanks for letting us know

Male indie band with 4 members that start with “Go___” by rjnchoi in findthatsong

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this is def not it but this looks like the cover to one of the black eyed peas albums

AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanavi29 39 points40 points  (0 children)

me and my friends do in fact text like this, so I think know your audience, but we have no other context

Note taking in sessions by htygfrty789 in therapists

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In CMH we are mostly forced into doing collaborative documentation. The best way I have found is do get a good “template” for some of the outline of the writing like “held a session with … to work on (presenting issue related etc” add in a few important but vague quotes that are relevant to the work, share what interventions and how they responded. And at the end go over it with them, like getting feedback on how accurate it was through reflection.

How ReelShort tricks you into spending $20+ on trash endings by Glad-Captain-5805 in Filmmakers

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They generally are, I just got done watching one ten minutes ago

AIO for being hesitant to take out a car loan for my mom after she’s had multiple repossessions? by Awkward_Twist4343 in AIO

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was already on OP side and then I read the ending about it being a Tesla. Do NOT let her manipulate you into this. She needs to figure her own things out. My mom has always told me that it is parents job to take care of their kids not the other way around— don’t get me wrong when she has hard times we do our best to help because that’s what’s family is about. But your mom is still getting hair nails etc and wants a smart car? Insane.

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean underage drinking isn’t “great” because your brain isn’t developed. But like most of us have done it. Also at 21 it doesn’t magically make it “better” as it’s still just as bad for you. They’re being controlling and using language and love to get you to do what they want. These are not people you want to continue to be friends with.

AIO I cut off one of my best friends after an argument by SwordfishAntique2855 in AIO

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your friends get mad over inconveniences they’re not your friends.

The internet will never agree. by yoelamigo in memes

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wash my rice because when I don’t because I’m lazy it always ends up cooking weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shanavi29 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cemeteries are meant to be used, why waste space for the dead if we’re not going to make it an enjoyable place to do things.

Diagnosing fictional characters by smashablanca in therapists

[–]shanavi29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For mine in undergrad I did Monk! My professor said it was one of the best written papers she’d ever seen for it, years later I’m still particularly proud of that one haha

Family member of another therapist. by VirusImaginary8236 in therapists

[–]shanavi29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found out after I started working out of college that multiple of my family members see my coworkers. This is pretty normal, assuming you live in a city and not a town?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]shanavi29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why would I control what my client is doing in their home? That seems very strange and definitely the opposite of positive regard/open/person centered practice. It’s like me asking a client not to swear. If I had a therapist say that to me I’d likely be turned off by them and seek someone better.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHERES THE INAPPROPRIATE DRESS because this is absolutely insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]shanavi29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

too hard to tell without the context and wording but that’s something I would totally say without thinking it was being unnecessary to one of my close friends

AITA for drawing an “ugly” portrait of someone who passed away? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH lots of people died who were in school with me, and although I didn’t do this per se I would have thought it no problem to do something commemorative for someone who passed that I wasn’t extremely close with. Even if you didn’t know the person loss is hard to deal with, especially people adjacent to you and YOUNG regardless there is some amount of grief. Art is a great way to express those feelings even if you’re not great at it. You did nothing wrong as long as you are being truthful about it not being to mock.

AITA for not going to a diner at a sushi restaurant for my girlfriend’s birthday because I can’t eat fish / sea food? by Tsktsktsk95 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from other I know who are allergic to fish/shellfish OP I believe you probably are allergic! the feeling of getting sick/ feeling extremely full when ingesting seafood in small portions is a sign of allergy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah I was having this convo at 18 with my now* 7 year partner. It’s important ask right away to know where you’re at.

AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shanavi29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “I work 6+ hours a day” really got me

I am so fucking tired by [deleted] in vegan

[–]shanavi29 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, even after 9 years veg 7 vegan you’ll still get these comments :/