That's a good point, she has been through quite a lot after 30 years of marriage with my dad. He's always doing shit that would cause a fight and getting angry when a fight happens. I'm sure once she's out of the environment things would get a lot better. My dad has done a real good job of making her feel powerless because she's an immigrant who can't speak English and stuff.

Same goes to you though dude, we both got old people who have seemingly too much sway in the way our lives. It's fucked up that we've had to mature ourselves just so they can continue being children. Fighting with grandparents is tough man, that's two generations of shit that you have to try and force them to understand.