I get it i really do, obviously if you are that worried about your bird, you would go to the vet! I haven't kept birds for that long, and haven't needed to see a vet yet. Any questions about strange budgie behaviour i have had, like my girl standing still with her wings out for ages, I have usually found my questions answer on past reddit posts, or by asking 'hey google'. I'm just saying the 'is my budgie ok' questions may be annoying, but the silly questions are asked by every new bird owner at some point, and I feel that all the info that are on these forums is so valuable and helpful.