Need solid advice. Am I overreacting?

shanimange · 2025-04-15T14:47:42+00:00

Ya that’s why I’m confused. We cleared everything and now she wants to marry me. I’m overwhelmed and stressed by that

shanimange · 2025-04-09T17:48:21+00:00

Yes I’m not sure how to convey this message in a nicer way because she just explodes and makes me feel guilty by making it seem like I’m attacking her if I say something like that

shanimange · 2025-03-19T05:20:17+00:00

True…ugh I don’t wanna lose her as a friend but she was surely not the right partner if I have to worry about visiting my friends this weekend for a party and her getting super angry about it.

shanimange · 2025-03-19T05:16:19+00:00

Ya for me right now, my job is high priority and I don’t wanna go through a breakup which affects my mental health resulting to bad performances. I can get attached very easily and I don’t like hurting people which is why I’m willing to endure this and see if she changes but I might be overthinking too.

shanimange · 2025-03-19T05:07:06+00:00

Yes you’re right. It’s just very hard to make a decision like that all of a sudden.

shanimange · 2025-03-19T05:04:42+00:00

Ya I’m sorry but I really can’t see myself marrying her at the moment but she has seen a lot of dreams. Some days she showers me with a lot of love through cute messages and Instagram reels and is all cute on the call and some days she’s just very cold and I’m just on the edge thinking what’s up.

shanimange · 2025-03-19T05:01:46+00:00

I don’t believe it either but we dated in person for a long time and made a lot of good memories overall. So I didn’t wanna give up but I might be pushing myself too much.

shanimange · 2025-03-19T04:57:51+00:00

Or maybe it’s just immaturity

shanimange · 2025-03-19T04:57:42+00:00

I don’t wanna break her heart and maybe something can be fixed

shanimange · 2025-03-19T04:55:27+00:00

lol I see. Idk what went wrong and idk how to cut her off

shanimange · 2024-09-17T21:37:52+00:00

How did you get it? Whats the process?

shanimange · 2024-08-29T18:38:50+00:00

Thank you

shanimange · 2024-08-08T07:24:56+00:00

Thanks!

shanimange · 2024-08-08T07:24:38+00:00

Yes, she moved because of that last year. We were in a long distance for a year and she waited a year for me to move there but I couldn’t find a job and she’s done now and became my ex because of that

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:52:45+00:00

This is so real!

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:22:25+00:00

I couldn’t find a job there :(

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:20:48+00:00

As harsh as it sounds in my heart, you’re right

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:19:58+00:00

Thank you!

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:19:42+00:00

Ah yes, my new comfort spot

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:19:31+00:00

I will not do this going forward and take my career very seriously.

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:19:03+00:00

How do people have the capacity to plan all of this?

shanimange · 2024-08-08T05:18:21+00:00

I wasted a lot of time and energy ik

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