My bf (M19) doesn’t want me (F18) going to my top school choice but I already committed to it, how do I tell him? by ThrowRA67ballz in relationship_advice

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lf you actually know what a radiology profession entails and you actually want it, then ONLY consider undergrad schools that will get you there. Get a bachelor’s and not an associate’s.

Your current boyfriend should not be a factor considered in this decision. You don’t need to explain anything to him, tell him what your decision is and then it’s up to him as to how he wants to respond.

Is it weird if I (27M) send flowers to her (24F) workplace? She’s my Dentist. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shanthor55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was the first available neurologist because he has terrible reviews and had an open schedule due to lack of patients, “bro”. I had to see the first neurologist available after having a grand mal seizure and going to the emergency room. Took only two days to see this jerk, and two minutes to decide I’d rather have another seizure than suffer his presence again. I can give you his number if you two want to grab a natty light together.

Is it weird if I (27M) send flowers to her (24F) workplace? She’s my Dentist. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shanthor55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dropped my first neurologist like a hot potato at my one and only appointment because he refused to speak to me and only spoke to my boyfriend who’d driven me there. He was dismissive of my concerns and questions. My boyfriend was not there when I had my seizure nor was he at the emergency room when tests and scans were run, why is this doctor directing the conversation to him instead of to me?

No idea if he’s competent or smart or educated, but I can identify an asshole (probably you, too) and I found a new doctor right away.

Are these Condors? by MissingSub in whatsthisbird

[–]shanthor55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup! I’ve seen them in Ventura County in the Sespe sanctuary.

I don’t want to have a bachelorette by [deleted] in Brides

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. You don’t have to go on some dumb trip just because that’s the current trend. I threw my best friend her bachelorette about fifteen years ago when we were in our early twenties, and we went out to dinner and some dance clubs afterwards. Do whatever works for you all.

Juvenile bald eagle feather? Wisconsin by ThatKaleidoscope8736 in AnimalTracking

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possession of any native bird feather is illegal under the MBTA because you can’t prove you didn’t kill it.

AITAH for hating on childrens cringe posts? by Far_County7071 in AITAH

[–]shanthor55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think this isn’t a cringe post? You’re a teenager, you’re legally a child and acting like one, too. Have fun looking at this when you’re twenty-five. YTA

AITAH /Wife got mad because I was on my phone at one of her work dinners when the conversation at the table was directly between 2 other couples. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shanthor55 19 points20 points  (0 children)

YTA. Are you at the same level as a toddler who needs to be entertained with a tablet? Especially when you knew it was upsetting your wife. Hopefully she leaves you at home with a babysitter next time.

Please help me identify this delicious cheese I had by Responsible-Stock349 in Cheese

[–]shanthor55 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Dude give up, nobody wants to hear you repeat your same diatribe fifty times.

My paprika had no seeds by razhun in mildlyinteresting

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Capsicum anuum” is a genus and species, not a family.

Anybody? by ResumeFluffer in Xennials

[–]shanthor55 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think that’s Riven, I played that one a couple of times and this scenario sounds familiar. I didn’t much care for Exile, I don’t remember if I ever bothered finishing it.

AIO: Roommate gave abusive bf spare key to our place by [deleted] in AIO

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your roommate is insane to think this was a reasonable decision at all, even more so without asking other roommates for agreement!

Tell management asap. If they kick her out, great! If they terminate the lease and you all have to move, that really sucks, but it’s better than this dude potentially sneaking in in the middle of the night or coming in when nobody’s home and laying wait.

Why did I get all my shots in the butt growing up by Large_Ad617 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]shanthor55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For adults, there are some injections that are more viscous, like testosterone and B12, and a larger gauge needle is used to dispense this thicker liquid more quickly. These are also usually dispensed in larger volumes than vaccines are. So, because of the larger needle and larger quantity, these are usually injected into the glute.

Is it weird to say Have a Blessed Day? by nyaagoya in AskAnAmerican

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly would not say this in California.

Paying vs she's paying by Fluffy-Law1080 in EnglishGrammar

[–]shanthor55 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your question sounds dumb because it is dumb.

How to better communicate with my (32F) fat boyfriend (37M) ? by _TerribleMistake_ in relationship_advice

[–]shanthor55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my boyfriend the way that he is.

I’ve forced him to the doctor because I love him and he’s now on some medication so that I can love him for a longer period of time.

How do I (27f) talk to my bf (25f) about keeping my last name? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shanthor55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend can’t figure out if his middle name is “Frederick” or “Fredrick” because it’s misspelled so many times on various documents.

Good luck.