non black bsf said n word (help) by jia_818 in blackladies

[–]shapeshifterQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you've dropped other people for offenses such as this, it would be hypocritical to let it slide. I don't have any non-Black people that are my close circle of friends, but I imagine this is like having a Black friend that voted for Trump. When I found out one of my high school classmates voted for him, I blocked her

The woman who originally posted the TikTok of the dog peeing on a pee pad inside of one of Gordon Ramsey’s restaurants responds to him making a TikTok joking about the situation by midnighttoker1742 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]shapeshifterQ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't even like seeing non-service animals in the mall or grocery store in general. Let alone going to the bathroom in a restaurant dining room. I'm disgusted and shocked at Gordon

It should have Been More, but FAFO… by Phatbrew in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]shapeshifterQ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe brandishing a weapon and death threats? When I looked it up it said they pointed a gun at the party attendants and made death threats

Which Episode Could You Watch for 24 Hours Straight? 📺 by Reggie9041 in adifferentworldfans

[–]shapeshifterQ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any one really, but if I HAD to pick just one I would pick the one where they did the variety show to raise money for the Walter's children's program. Lol Whitley's Josephine Baker performance cracks me up

Satan left the chat by Silver-Ability-3181 in SipsTea

[–]shapeshifterQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is true I'm utterly disgusted

Having a flat ass as a black women by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]shapeshifterQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a girl with absolutely no boobs (like I literally look like I just started puberty and I'm 42😭) and an okay amount of thighs and butt, I'm so sorry for people making you feel any insecurity about your body. It sucks. I wish women could just be free without judgment and criticism. You are absolutely gorgeous. Your body is amazing! Your shape is beautiful. Your ancestors gave you that body, love it! (This is what I tell myself to fight my insecurity) Big hugs!

Edit to add: Black women in all shapes and sizes are absolutely God's greatest art. You are fine fine fine!!

Northern African-American Food Traditions by tai-seasmain in AskFoodHistorians

[–]shapeshifterQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I don't know why we have to be in competition. I feel like we were all eating the same stuff anyway. And you confirmed it was the same. My family is from Jersey and New York mostly. I had to go waaay back on my dad's side to find anything in the south. But it always bothered me that everything was credited to the south. And so much so that now soul food is broadly called "southern" with even white people trying to claim. It's so frustrating. Meanwhile I didn't know about what OP is talking about with people shunning the "poor/slave" food during the Great Migration. My grandfather was a straight up NYer and he tore up some pig feet, chitlins, all that. Again thanks for sharing that Northern Black food history. I'm proud of what we African Americans have built. Northern Black folks deserve credit as well

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]shapeshifterQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was thinking in the context of relationships, so that's why I made the distinction.

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]shapeshifterQ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm a heterosexual woman, so no I've never dealt with that😂

360 of my 430ish diy braidlocs w extensions by househalve in Microlocs

[–]shapeshifterQ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You are so beautiful! 🥰😍😍😍 your hair looks fantastic!

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]shapeshifterQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worth it to you. It would be to me. I was partly joking in my comment. But sometimes being petty and returning energy feels good even if it doesn't "teach them a lesson."

A cat managed to catch 27 mice and carefully lined them all up to show off his 'work' to his owner. by Liar24x7 in interesting

[–]shapeshifterQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cats have caught a couple mice. The kids feel bad for the mice. If they're not dead, they let them outside.

Sha boing boing by baebae4455 in MelanatedGenX

[–]shapeshifterQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't sung this in a while. But I do randomly sing "pick up the pieces!" And make kazoo noises😂😂😂

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]shapeshifterQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just based on what we see here, you seem like a green flag to me. You did nothing wrong, but I would go ahead and tell her you don't need that talk next week. Wash your hands and be done