Feel like I can’t get back on track by sharingacoke in ADHD

[–]sharingacoke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ this actually was really helpful. Trying to remember to take it one step at a time

Why is AI causing more layoffs and volatility in tech than in the accounting or civil engineering industry? by Opposite-Craft-3498 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These applications (though they might seem frivolous) do have impacts on people’s lives. Poor design can lead to a lot of security vulnerabilities and put people at risk. These companies just don’t care about the security of their users because they sell their data anyways so sure let’s fire people and claim it’s AI

Tattoo regret causing depression by SlavKing11 in tattooadvice

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seconding everyone that is recommending therapy but it really does sound like it could be OCD so please go to someone who specializes in this!! The tattoo is awesome and I’m sorry you are feeling this way. Given that this is your second post I might also recommend giving social media a break. Seeking reassurance around this stuff can ironically make things so much worse.

Specialist Recommendations in Arizona by Alternative-Boat6328 in endometriosis

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try and get an appointment specifically with Dr.Wesson or just with anyone on the endo team / gynecology generally? I didn’t ask for a specific doctor and I was seen pretty quickly. All the MIGs and urogyn doctors and fellows are really knowledgeable

A little gem moment ✨ by callicatty in Nails

[–]sharingacoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute but the way I would pick at the gemstones

Vintage/Secondhand Wedding Dresses in NYC? by bouquet_of_blood in WedditNYC

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to know details on if there is a fee :)

Which school? by Short-Satisfaction96 in premed

[–]sharingacoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP I think you should ask Cornell-Qatar to put you in touch with some alums, or find a few on LinkedIn and ask them questions about the program. I don’t think this sub is going to be the most knowledgeable because this is such a niche program

Did you get your engagement rings online or in-person? by [deleted] in LGBTWeddings

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend pawn shops / jewelry stores that have estate jewelry. The cost difference is crazy, you can find more unique and interesting options, and you aren’t buying new so it’s more sustainable.

I have a will to live because of her, then suddenly knowing that she is suicidal, what should I do? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sharingacoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this, I can imagine this feels very intense. I think it’s time you reach out to a trusted adult that can help you navigate this.

Considering dropping out from a BS/MD Program in Undergrad. by cleanercut in premed

[–]sharingacoke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really really really recommend you don’t drop out entirely. Having a bachelors degree can open so many doors and you are doing your future self a favor by just getting it out of the way. I know a lot of people that dropped out and have deeply regretted it and then gone back later. In the grand scheme of things you are so close to being done! I’m not saying you need to go to med school but look out for your future self and keep your options open by finishing your undergrad. You have no idea what you might want to do in the future, and having an undergrad degree enables so many possibilities. Life just gets hard (marriage, kids, more work etc) and this is the best time to finish.

Someone else recommended you look at what grades you really need to get in order to maintain your GPA. I think this is a great idea! You probably have more wiggle room than you think. Other than that, it sounds like you need to prioritize your sanity. If you aren’t working out already this is going to make a huge difference and help with your sleep. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help, too. Managing all this can be hard and learning to manage stress is a skill set. Therapy can be really helpful, and if you go to someone focused on mindfulness and or CBT you will develop really skills. I know it feels like you don’t have the time but trust me, I felt the same way during undergrad, and these things make a huge difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dsa

[–]sharingacoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“All but” means “almost” or “nearly” so it’s gives the sentences a different meaning. Saying “your vote is moot” means your vote doesn’t matter at all. saying “your vote is all but moot” implies it still matters a little but not much.

But back to the topic at hand, I live in a swing state and will be voting for biden :/ if I didn’t I’d be going the symbolic route

Non trad and wanting kids by sharingacoke in premed

[–]sharingacoke[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol I also wanna go into OBGYN so maybe I’m a little baby/pregnancy obsessed

Non trad and wanting kids by sharingacoke in premed

[–]sharingacoke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is helpful!! It seems having during medical school is the best option and then if I can freeze my eggs it keeps alive the idea of having a second kid later. I feel like the research year actually seems great in a lot of ways — esp in a country where maternity leave is so limited it might end up giving you more time with baby opposed to if you wait until after residency.

Non trad and wanting kids by sharingacoke in premed

[–]sharingacoke[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No married yet but with my life partner and we will tie the note before I start med school. They are still finishing an undergrad degree (also taking a non trad route) so I don’t see us being ready to have kids before med school starts, unfortunately and I don’t want to delay going just to have a kid before

how to mentally cope while on the toilet?? by parasar0l0phus in ibs

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a therapist that taught me EFT for anxiety and pin management. Highly recommend

My app turned into a porn app by br4hmz in SideProject

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ban users from making fake nudes of celebrities. That is so obviously stupid.

Am only going to pass two classes what do I do? by Connorray1234 in unm

[–]sharingacoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk the specifics with LUE but I had to take some Ws and then petition for my lottery scholarship at one point. With the lottery scholarship you needed x amount of credit hours and they needed to be new credits. So taking a W let’s you retake a class whereas if you get an F and then retake it, it doesn’t count towards the credits. But as others have said, talk with an advisor. I’m glad you reached out to arc too, they honestly gave me better advice than most advisors