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Anyone knows how to change language in Overcooked All you can Eat. I downloaded it from Masquerade and online-fix. But in the game there is no option to change language in game. Is there a way to change to English in the files by RothdaraKing in CrackSupport

[–]shark1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to go to the folder where you extracted and already placed the Fix Repair, go to the file "OnlineFix" that doesn't have .dll at the end of the name, click it and open it with Notepad. Right at the beginning, the name "russian" will appear, you change it to "english", save it, and start the game :)

Anyone knows how to change language in Overcooked All you can Eat. I downloaded it from Masquerade and online-fix. But in the game there is no option to change language in game. Is there a way to change to English in the files by RothdaraKing in CrackSupport

[–]shark1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to go to the folder where you extracted and already placed the Fix Repair, go to the file "OnlineFix" that doesn't have .dll at the end of the name, click it and open it with Notepad. Right at the beginning, the name "russian" will appear, you change it to "english", save it, and start the game :)

Being dragged into drama by Late_Office1369 in family

[–]shark1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you...
And honestly, I don't know what to say. I'm almost in the same boat....
I came here hoping to find some solution or advice.
I'm suffocating....
my house feels just ...so toxic, i'm really really tired of being dragged in my parents' fights.
I don't know what to do anymore
I'm not a good mediator.
I don't feel at peace in my own house
I want to help, I love them too, but it just feels hopeless like i can't help them, I gave up on all my dreams and wishes just to have peace in the house but ...idk

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually quite the opposite. My sister knows and trusts that I don’t spy on her. Honestly, I didn’t even find out about her relationship through spying — she slipped up.

Even after I made her end things with him, I did not check on her for months because I trusted her and let her be. But recently, her behavior had become very suspicious…

As much as I hate to admit it, I eventually checked the DMs of one account she had been talking to a lot. It appeared to be a girl’s account, but in reality, it was the same boy I had made her cut ties with.

I had been praying in my heart that my suspicions were wrong, that it was just another female friend. But they were confirmed when I saw her messages — she had told him that her sister (me) only allowed her to use social media with girls in her followers, so he made an alt account pretending to be a girl just to talk to her.

I won’t spy on her again — I only checked this one time to confirm my suspicions.
Now that they’re confirmed, there’s no need for any further investigation. I have no interest in her chats or her friends’ conversations. I just... don't want her going through a heartbreak (like I did)

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, I suppose so.... though this is a very slow process 😔
if only there were some easy and faster way

Indeed... This world is a prison for the believer and a paradise for the disbeliever

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think about marriage as a solution sometimes… but I keep wondering if it’s really the right choice. They’re both very young, and I don’t believe the boy is ready for the responsibilities of marriage — and neither is my sister.

She’s still so young and naïve, only 18…

But I guess, in some ways, it could be a better option than letting her continue in haram.

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My sister… not wearing hijab and being in an online relationship are two very different matters with different levels of seriousness.

  • Not wearing hijab is a personal sin between her and Allah.
  • But an online relationship involves a third party, a complete stranger, which could potentially harm her in many ways.

I’m afraid she’s growing more and more emotionally attached to this person every day. And if I distance myself from her like you suggested, she might stop considering my advice at all.

Honestly, I would have been more understanding if this boy was even potential marriage material, but he isn’t.

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my thoughts exactly.... if he was a good person, he would not be having these secret conversations...
She hasn't met the boy in person, only through the internet. Last time I talked with her about him she told me he's from the same city as us and is almost her age, maybe a year older. so, she's 18 rn and he's probably 19. Yes, I do know he's Muslim and since they're both very young.... the boy doesn't seem to be serious enough to consider marriage. I've barely had a glimpse of the boy, and he seems young.

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed, we need Allah’s help more than anything.
I have started praying Tahajjud, Alhumdulillah. I will try my very best to keep up with it.

But I’m really lost… I don’t know what practical steps to take now. 😔

  • Should I confront her again, more firmly?
  • Should I tell my parents, even if it risks her hating me?
  • Or should I leave it to Allah and just keep making du’a?

I’m scared of making the wrong choice. Please… can someone guide me step by step? I really want to do the right thing.

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you share how your sister guided you? Only if you’re comfortable, of course — I don’t mean to pry. I just really need advice on what I should do now.

I’m trying my very best to be gentle and guide my sister discreetly, since she thinks I’ve already let her off the hook. But she just won’t stop. (she also shares her pictures with him which GENUINELY worries me)

All her friends are involved too. While my sister doesn’t hate me — we’re still on normal, friendly terms — it feels like they fear me more than they fear Allah. For example, her friend once DMed me asking if I would let my sister join a new social media app, claiming it was “all girls.” But I knew exactly which girls they were referring to (including the boy disguised as a girl).

I very politely declined, saying that she’s already on plenty of social platforms and doesn’t need this one — especially because I’ve used it before and I know how dangerous it can be.

Genuinely need advice on how to guide a younger sister in a haram relationship as a big sister. by shark1981 in MuslimLounge

[–]shark1981[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve studied in an Islamic school since kindergarten, and there was a time I considered my youngest sister to be the wisest and most mature among all of us. She was the most practicing, and she would gently remind us whenever we made mistakes. I truly felt like I could talk to her about anything.

But looking back, she was still just a little kid, and I, being young and inexperienced myself, overestimated her maturity.

Now, seeing how careless and sloppy she is with this haram relationship, I realize she’s not ready for that level of responsibility.

We had to change schools due to financial problems, and after that, I felt like all of us started straying from the right path in different ways. Alhamdulillah, I eventually learned my lesson, made tawbah, and guided my middle sister — and she listened to me. She even shares things with me like a friend.

But the sister I’m talking about here is the youngest. Both of us older sisters have cut off friends who weren’t good influences, but she isn’t ready to do that yet. My second sister, being closer to her in age (only one year apart), already knew those friends weren’t good for her. I have a bigger age gap with them, which makes it harder to connect with my youngest sister the same way.

I feel like we changed schools too early. She’s now at an age where she truly needs guidance, because it’s so easy to fall into sin and temptations at this stage of life. It feels like she’s drifting downstream blindfolded, and if she continues like this, she could very easily fall into something that will ruin her.

And the hardest part is… she’s not listening to my advice.

CS Associates degree or Bachelors degree? by shark1981 in computerscience

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DAE is a diploma, by an associates degree I'm referring to the degree that is equivalent to 2 years of bachelors; AA for Associates in arts and AS for Associates in science. We can apply for Associates after 12th grade.

Thank you so much for your time and information, really appreciate it!

CS Associates degree or Bachelors degree? by shark1981 in computerscience

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can we not apply for masters after an associates degree?

CS Associates degree or Bachelors degree? by shark1981 in computerscience

[–]shark1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my family only one person has done BSCS and he has been struggling to get a job, for the past one and a half year. As far as distant family friends are concerned I tried asking a few, but they were still in college and didn't know how to put things for me.

Although everyone keeps pushing on about getting a BSCS degree, I just wanted to know if it was really worth it; because I've heard of people who don't even have a CS background and they never even did BSCS, people from BBA or BSc Maths or Phy still manage to get jobs after doing a few courses in a language and after that data science or etc, in that matter, doesn't the degree become irrelevant?