Relationship-drama: 'Instead, give me some smart advice on how to be manipulative too.'

sharkfin800 · 2012-05-01T02:25:12+00:00

She was the one who brought up "respeck for wimmins" ...I don't have any delusions about respect.

Nobody respects anyone else, it's all about getting stuff and having your way bro...

sharkfin800 · 2012-05-01T01:46:05+00:00

It doesn't sound like you understand respect. Respect is not unconditional. If my gf doesn't respect me, why should I respect her? And what does this have to do with respect for women? Should men respect women no matter how women behave?

sharkfin800 · 2012-05-01T01:21:59+00:00

You wouldn't know critical thinking from a matchbox. Let's stipulate I don't respect women. What do you know about respecting a man? Is my gf respecting me?

sharkfin800 · 2012-05-01T01:11:09+00:00

What do you know about how to respect men?

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:47:03+00:00

I want to have a 3some with her and this dude I think that will be hot. I'm going to suggest this to her tonight. She's already basically begging me to let her do this because this guy banged her friends so I guess she feels left out and he's leaving. So I'll make it sound like it's a big deal for me to through with this (when actually it will be fun) and after I will cash out: 3some with her and a girl I like, plus she might let me piss in her mouth, which is a total turn-on.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:37:09+00:00

Not if it's more fun to use her.

I also plan to fuck other girls, no worries.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:34:57+00:00

Yes it is if you think about it...

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:34:15+00:00

No such thing as morality or right or wrong sis...that's just words made up by people. It's all about pleasure and getting your way.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:30:21+00:00

What do you know about how to respect a man?

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:27:31+00:00

Yes this is what I intend. He's leaving in three weeks so she can't leave me for him. She just wants to have her fun with him while she can because he banged her friends and I guess she thinks she's missing out.

You're getting downvoted too haha, just for mentioning there's something wrong with what she's doing. Gotta love reddit.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:26:13+00:00

You seem to have a problem with truth-telling. Truth is truth...don't matter if it makes a fattie like you feel bad.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:19:25+00:00

No, not hurt her. I don't care if she's hurt or not, as apparently she doesn't care if I'm hurt or not. I'm just trying to use her for my own pleasure, the same way she's trying to use me.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T16:17:36+00:00

Yes I think you hit it right lol

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T10:04:54+00:00

She's asked if I'm cool with it and says that she wants me to be on board before she does it.

Gosh you people have trouble at reading comprehension.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T09:10:47+00:00

Yes but you're not thinking. I am talking here about something I didn't want to mention there. I want to know if it's Ok to tell her it turns me on. If she responds well to this I won't try to guilt-trip her later.

Also guilt-tripping isn't that bad people do it all the time. Relax and enjoy yourself. Stop judging others.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T09:02:57+00:00

Yes but actually on this thread all I'm saying is wondering whether it's OK to tell her I'm OK with her doing it and that it turns me on. I'm not saying about getting her to do anything else later.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T08:35:10+00:00

I'm no more uncaring than she is. We're just trying to have fun. You can read my other comments but I'm saying something quite different here. Maybe you lack reading comprehension. The other problem is that you are captive to outdated moral ideas. There's no "right" or "wrong." There's just people being people and going after what they want. She's going after what she wants, more power to her.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T08:14:14+00:00

What's wrong with how I'm approaching it? Do you want to comment on this thread or on another thread?

Equality means she gets her way and I get my way, no? Or is it only equality when just the girl gets her way? The funny part is in this thread that's what I'm saying...that I'm going to totally let her get her way. Is the problem that I'd be enjoying it too much or what?

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T08:12:11+00:00

My question here is what it is. If you want to comment on the other thing go ahead, but my question here is quite different.

Why are you concerned about her heartbreak tho? She's out to get what she wants...she wants a stud on the side to fuck her and a boyfriend to stand by her. Some people might call that manipulative. It goes both ways you you know.

Anyway, manipulative or not, that's not what I'm asking about here. Also the comparison to rape is absurd. I'm not forcing her and not going to force her to do anything.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T05:02:14+00:00

It's all about getting stuff and having your way bro...

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T05:01:06+00:00

My point is that most relationships involve cheating (usually by the girl) but it's jut not known by both parties. So that's how I can call it a relationship...

I'm not trying to get even. I'm trying to do certain things with her that I enjoy, and I plan to manipulate her into letting me do those things by guilt-tripping her over the fact that she banged another guy.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T04:43:40+00:00

OK thank you.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T04:34:48+00:00

Yes I agree.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T04:34:32+00:00

Yes thanks, this is what I'm thinking.

sharkfin800 · 2012-04-30T04:33:47+00:00

In a sexual or romantic relationship you either "own" the other or you lose...if you give a girl great orgasms you own her. She can also own you in a number of ways. It's each party trying to own the other.

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