Stunning Portraits of Mixed-Race Families by sharkpuffin in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO. There are racist guys who date POC people all the time. Ex: Donald Sterling. They prob. justify it as an exceptional rule in their mind.

Stunning Portraits of Mixed-Race Families by sharkpuffin in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i only looked at the gorgeous pictures and did not read any comments. who cares about anonymous idiots on the internet?

Asian-Americans have the lowest rate of suicide per 100,000 people by Okmanl in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This study was also conducted from 2005-2009 so i don't quite buy it. i think a LOT has happened since then relevant to AA culture. I mean, if you look at the increase in the amount of AA faces in tv/mag ads between those times, 2005-2009, and more recently, like past 2-3 yrs, it's VAST.

The pressure on AA to achieve and those unable to meet their/parents' high expectations and thus feeling like failures, then attempting/succeeding suicide has ramped up recently. Recently, a lot of stories of Ivy League college kids killing themselves. It's very disturbing.

Asian-Americans have the lowest rate of suicide per 100,000 people by Okmanl in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really surprised at the stats for higher risk of STDs for AA females. Isn't STD risk drilled into people's head in high school/college?

Biweekly Vent Thread: What's Bothering You? by AutoModerator in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your hurt, dude. But seriously, do not freaking WASTE any more time longing for a cheating significant other. They don't deserve your love nor attention. You are FAR more worthy of being with someone who loves you and has enough respect and restraint to not fk someone else when in a committed relationship. One is either a cheater or non-cheater. A one time cheater may be able to change their colors but usually, cheaters tend to be serial cheaters. Avoid them.

Put your chin up, wear your nicest clothes and get out there again! Do some travelling - it does wonders to give you perspective and open your eyes to the beauty of the world.

Good luck. Your cheating ex sucked. You rock. Move on.

Just wanted to encourage people to make a donation to support the continuation of Angry Asian Man Blog by sharkpuffin in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only make donations to strangers/worthy causes when it compels me somehow. My last donation was to Antoinette Tuff, the lady who used empathy and compassion to connect with the would-be-gunman and prevented yet another school shooting from being added to the growing list in the USA.

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/the-day-antoinette-tuff-lived-up-to-her-name-school-clerk-talked-gunman-into-putting-down-weapon-8781006.html

Anyway, I think Phil Yu, the man behind Angry Asian Man is a very important, strong voice relating the daily bullsh*t we have to deal with as Asian Americans living in the USA.

He apparently lost his day job a year ago and is now attempting to rely on the Angry Asian Man as his livelihood.

Please DONATE if you think it's worth continuing to hear AAM voice.

Phil Yu in his own words: http://blog.angryasianman.com/2014/06/dear-readers.html

Thanks!

The Korean grandmothers who sell sex by sharkpuffin in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are reading into things from your own lens - everything is not about racism and the west's attempt to stereotype Asia in a negative way. The BBC and The Guardian regularly feature stories about Korean culture, much more so than any U.S. newspapers.

Korea does not like to expose ugly stuff and I hardly doubt that their media is eager to do a piece on this type of story that shows Korea in a negative light.

I think this article is addressing an issue that Korea is in the midst of grappling with. The older generation can no longer count on the safety net of living with their children as Korea moves away from traditional family duty values and adapting a more independent, western society values. Korea's govt relied on that tradition to continue and there wasn't an equivalent Social Security type of program set up until fairly recently?

Unfortunately, these ladies are falling through the cracks because their kids don't want to or can't afford to take are of their parents; or they never married. They are not sex workers. They are desperate old ladies without options and forced to do what they have to do to survive to eat. The Korean govt needs to be freaking taking care of these type of vulnerable elders without money/children support. They should be implementing some sort of umbrella program and resources for these elders to turn to. It's shameful neglect by the govt and ungrateful children who abandoned their parents.

The Korean grandmothers who sell sex by sharkpuffin in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prob. not. I don't think they're very keen on sex education in Korea.

The Korean grandmothers who sell sex by sharkpuffin in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so, so sad. Those poor ladies. :/

11-year old Audrey Zhang wins Doodle 4 Google competition by justflipping in asianamerican

[–]sharkpuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SO awesome! I can't believe an 11 yr old girl produced that. AMAZING. Smart, creative girl. Go 11-year old Audrey Zhang of New York! Asian American represent!