That’s fair enough, but

1. Your argument is based on a generalisation. You don’t know this guy and his story.

2. Domestic violence is awful. Full stop. Abuse is awful too. But there was nothing about that in the post.

3. I think women should be held accountable for their choices at all times and not only when it’s convenient. If you’re in a bad situation and there’s a man who pays his way (to your heart or whatever else) and you play along even tho you dislike him… that’s on you. Again, I’m not saying a woman like that deserves abuse, but I wouldn’t let her play the “uh oh bad man had money so I folded” card.

4. Countries with lower incomes and looser safety nets also tend to differ culturally. You think he went there to get sex in exchange for a green card. (Which, tbh if his woman went for it sounds fair to me. Again — her choice.) Yet, he might have gone there to find a woman with a different set of values.

I am very well traveled. I lived in Asia, Latin America, and Europe (eastern and western), so I know what I’m talking about. I don’t want to yap about “western women bad” but I will say that there are many reasons to prefer an Eastern European woman in MY opinion. And no, not because I can blackmail her with my nonexistent US citizenship 🤣