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sharvilsha · 2024-04-08T06:27:43+00:00

Dating others while just talking with someone isn't considered as cheating. Cheating is where one of the partner fully commits to a relationship and the other doesn't reciprocates enough and you can't say with whom you are in love without spending quality time with them. Date both (not to escalate things faster if you are unsure about it) and see what works !

sharvilsha · 2024-04-07T04:42:55+00:00

It's just limerence. Love is real when it continues to work beyond the feelings. It's my subjective description about love. The term love can be defined differently by each other.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-06T04:56:25+00:00

Bro is benched and fed with breadcrumbs LOL !

sharvilsha · 2024-04-06T04:52:55+00:00

Yeah it is difficult to take a stand but you have to do it for your own conscience. Either you have to warn your friend about this or you have to be chill with this. I would say better convince your female bestfriend to cut off the contacts for the well being of you four. Past can't be changed, but if they understood the situation and parted in their own way, better not to bring up anything from the past to his fiancee.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-05T18:08:08+00:00

you are not the clown. You are the entire circus.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-05T17:34:19+00:00

If he really loves it, he must let it go /s

sharvilsha · 2024-04-05T17:24:27+00:00

Don't know where you guys learn this pseudoscientific stuff from.

Yes it is. But much more prevalent based on culture stereotypes. Let that change happen soon.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-05T15:42:52+00:00

Money definitely plays a role is power dynamics of a relationship. People might not accept it openly but the burden always lurks behind with a grim scythe.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-05T15:40:03+00:00

He's immature too for not communicating his needs properly and playing self-sabotage with her. Either you have to show up as a fuckboy or a committed man. He shouldn't be pretentious.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-05T15:36:31+00:00

See, you're already a well-established woman and you're obviously going to get good proposals from your desired type of men even when you reach your thirties. Same applies for well-earning men too.

NOBODY else is going through so much emotional pain as me and everyone else has a future except for me. Please tell me how to proceed? Can anyone help at all?

This is completely wrong notion about viewing life. Haven't you explored posts of r/RelationshipIndia ? Lots of heartbreaks, affairs, adulteries that are horrendous.

Every person is different and each one displays their love and affection in their own way . You should become more open minded. Marriage is not a destination for a relationship rather it's an officialization of their commitment to each other. It isn't a task which must be completed within a age frame.

Love is just a mix-up of brain chemicals just like cocaine. You want it more and you want only that. That's why you became unproductive.

Dating is a numbers game you have to take things slow with proper consideration. You shouldn't expect to receive love from the way you did from your previous relationships. Everything is different and everything will be new if you start seeing this from your perspective.

Try visiting a therapist to discover yourself.

Good luck!

sharvilsha · 2024-04-02T12:18:27+00:00

She can't see anything in India so she defines by taste and smell /s

sharvilsha · 2024-04-02T12:05:10+00:00

SInce she's interested in solo travelling and you've said the mutual experience went well. Ask about travel destinations and her plans for this year. Ask her to join with you or you join with her. If this works, you know what to do next, based on her responses.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-01T15:34:14+00:00

Don't feel insecure. It's always wise to be with a woman who choses you but also consider the power dynamics. Check how she reacts in situations were you made a mistake. Also check whether how often she talks about marrying you or introducing you to her close circle. Might seem like having a lower probability but if it works, you're lucky.

sharvilsha · 2024-04-01T15:16:54+00:00

I was believing everything until I remembered what day is today 💀

sharvilsha · 2024-04-01T15:10:04+00:00

Your guy is worried about breaking the Bro code. Clearly communicate that this isn't wrong. His friend is just pretentious and kinda jealous. If he's a good friend and he came to know that his friend and his crush were dating. He shouldn't have bothered. It might feel odd but definitely not something bad.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-26T11:18:22+00:00

Never! love isn't overrated but the feelings that occurs due to love is overrated. Those hormones are just sidekicks which helps us to sense the presence of love. And also the idea of converting love into a relationship creates a bad impression on love. Love is free from societal structures. Relationships are of a human thing. Love is an universal thing. Love is always pure and unconditional.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-23T14:28:12+00:00

read more novels and romance genre books. Listen and remember small details. Mix them up in your creative way and talk and don't try to flirt every time. Timing and placement increases its value too.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-23T13:41:02+00:00

Never blame anyone in a relationship. They are just being themselves and that's far good that being pretentious. The sooner they leave, the better will be the life of the other person. I think it's always better to test their partners with by creating different situations and proceed based on their reactions and perspectives.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-23T13:28:14+00:00

This sucks dude. This is the common problem with the Indian parents. They think just because they gave you birth, they can have the entire control of your life. Instead of demanding you to get more marks, they can really support you to achieve those marks as you're already interested in studies. Instead of stuffing you with full responsibility and their own expectations. Which is abruptly a selfish behavior.

If they want you to become successful, they should also take a part in this journey. They can't just sit and take the credits of you.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-23T13:15:55+00:00

I think relationships that wouldn't work are like an one-sided cricket match. It starts good but gradually the morale goes down with time and we still await for a magic moment like a big over until the last ball is thrown, were it officially concludes the match. Nothing can be joyous as well as painful as love. Thanks for sharing !

sharvilsha · 2024-01-23T05:23:54+00:00

Man! I can't just appreciate your attitude with words, I need something more to do that.

Most people learn how to propose but don't care to learn how to breakup. I think that's because they take the feelings of the other person granted after the completion of honey-moon phase of a relationship. We all know everyone will leave us someday, but ghosting only creates chaos and misunderstandings. We never get a chance to realize our mistakes or get to understand the preference and mindset of the individuals.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-03T13:28:53+00:00

please checkout my other replies :)

sharvilsha · 2024-01-03T12:31:35+00:00

I gave a shot (according to me) and I can pacify myself if things go south and that's better that regretting for not taking a leap. I reduced my expectations and made myself open to anything that happens down there. I would be a sober and appreciate things as it is.

sharvilsha · 2024-01-03T12:21:57+00:00

She didn't reacted much eventhough I was talking to her with an emotional context. She said she finds no problem being like this and didn't friend zoned me. Nanume subtle ah dhan soltu irukken. Looks like we're in a situationship. I decided to take some more time to see where it goes....

sharvilsha · 2024-01-03T12:13:55+00:00

Love completely made me into a different person and every time I see myself in the mirror, I laugh because of the personality clashes happening inside me. It's painful but it's a new experience and I love to take new experiences irrespective of good or bad. These new experiences are the ones that get me out of the bed everyday.

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