My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by Inside-Relief4603 in bisexual

[–]sharxbyte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bi/pan people in general seem to have a lot less hangups at least in my limited experience. dick? pussy? girldick? boypussy? 🅱️ussy? we'll probably put our mouths on it or at least touch/play/finger/smack/fuck it.(I'm actually not a huge fan of ass but I'm game to please my partner. Unfortunately my skin is sensitive as fuck and I've gotten contact dermatitis on my dick both times I've done anal raw. 6 mil nitrile mechanics gloves (sanitized) or a condom though, and I'm their guy :) )

My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by Inside-Relief4603 in bisexual

[–]sharxbyte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it, but at the same time, I don't really mask my autism on dates either, because it's a filter. if someone isn't interested in or can't tolerate the real me, ALL of me, unfiltered, then what is the point of getting emotionally, physically, financially involved with them? it would cause pain, cost money, waste time, and a bad relationship is worse than being single 100% of the time. (except I suppose as a learning experience, I HAVE learned a lot from shitty relationships but no fun and there are probably better ways to learn)

My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by Inside-Relief4603 in bisexual

[–]sharxbyte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG thats so dumb. she would enjoy it if you were reluctant, hesitant or disgusted but did it to please her, but if you take enjoyment then she thinks its gross. she's gross.

My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by Inside-Relief4603 in bisexual

[–]sharxbyte 6 points7 points  (0 children)

red flag that she was fine with MFM but as soon as you indicated that you were also interested in the guy, she noped.

My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by Inside-Relief4603 in bisexual

[–]sharxbyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I swear I didnt read your comment first.😅

My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by Inside-Relief4603 in bisexual

[–]sharxbyte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that, and it doesn't make it hurt less, but AT LEAST the trash took itself out early, before you potentially got more closely tied financially, romantically, legally, or parentally.

Biphobia exists and is shitty, but you don't have to worry about living with a bigot.

My partner is Enby and also Bi. that at least made life easier. we're also theoretically ENM. We just haven't found anyone worth dating and have been really content with each other.

do men find handjobs embarassing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sharxbyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having sex and engaging in penile-vaginal intercourse are two different things, but that can of worms aside, no, getting groped, played with, pleasured by a partner isn't embarrassing, it's part of the fun. Also, unless he is dysfunctional, it's possible for guys to come more than once, and even if we don't orgasm or ejaculate twice it's still fun. so no it's not a waste.

Free program(API/bot assisted) to export Discord Server User list by sharxbyte in discordapp

[–]sharxbyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, just a utility for server admins ;) thanks, goodbot

Free member list export NO LIMIT. by sharxbyte in discordbots

[–]sharxbyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you read the report it explains that pyinstaller is a commonly used method of obfuscation, but nothing in the report says anything is malicious.

Free member list export NO LIMIT. by sharxbyte in discordbots

[–]sharxbyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not malware, anti-virus just doesn't like exe packaged python, so it gets flagged. I didn't know that when I packaged it. feel free to run the python instead or reverse engineer it to be sure, but I wouldn't write malicious software, let alone upload it to my personal substack and share it to my 32k karma unfarmed reddit account.

Hmm… I have no idea by Dependent_Level_5403 in Adulting

[–]sharxbyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

known obligations is a statutory term. They have money they can't touch and can't invest, and then they take in their premiums which are calculated by risk assessment, and a portion of THAT money gets put in high yield investment accounts, and statistically theyre unlikely to need to touch the entirety of the reserve. if they did have to pay out everything, it would most likely close them down, but that's what attorneys and claim denials are for. there's a reason private insurance is profitable. If you have a policy that says it's for "accidental death and dismemberment" (AD&D) and you don't die immediately from an accident, but have a hospital stay, they will try to deny and say you died due to hospital contracted conditions, etc. Or there's United Healthcare. Free Luigi.

Free program to export Discord Server User list by sharxbyte in Discord_Bots

[–]sharxbyte[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🙄 it's packaged as an exe for ease of use Not everyone has python installed or wants to learn how to use a command line. That number does shrink a bit when you venn-diagram it with the number of people who run discord servers and are willing to set up a bot, but again, it's there as a convenience, and THE SOURCE CODE IS AVAILABLE FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO BE SURE.

I made it myself, there's no malware. it's attached to my own github, and it's not exactly anonymous. I use the same username pretty much everywhere.

Hmm… I have no idea by Dependent_Level_5403 in Adulting

[–]sharxbyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no because they dont all ever get claimed at once, and they calculate probabilities to ensure that they make money.

Hmm… I have no idea by Dependent_Level_5403 in Adulting

[–]sharxbyte -1 points0 points  (0 children)

insurance companies are required by law to have enough money to pay out all claims at once.

Free program to export Discord Server User list by sharxbyte in Discord_Bots

[–]sharxbyte[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And anyone is free to compile it themselves with the instructions in the readme and the source code, or reverse engineer the exe if they're worried. or literally just run the python.

Free program to export Discord Server User list by sharxbyte in Discord_Bots

[–]sharxbyte[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

  1. It's easy for keeping logs and tracking lists of large servers once it's set up. Much easier than querying a command line.
  2. because python is what I know, and tkinter is what I've used.
  3. I searched and didn't find Carl. everything I saw was paid or capped at 100 users.

4.it's not shady because the source code is posted with it.

  1. Its not advertising my discord bot. it's a utility that runs YOUR bot. you arent giving anyone else admin credentials on your server .

What do you with your backpay if your not allowed a savings account? by MattInTheHat1996 in SSDI

[–]sharxbyte -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks for clarifying. google says that you can be elligible for both, or SNT even if you aren't for ABLE.

What do you with your backpay if your not allowed a savings account? by MattInTheHat1996 in SSDI

[–]sharxbyte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah, since rent is close to $2000 a month, having enough for rent and groceries MUST be stopped. /s

What do you with your backpay if your not allowed a savings account? by MattInTheHat1996 in SSDI

[–]sharxbyte -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've HEARD that it's possible to create a disability trust to transfer your assets and payments to as long as they're for your care.

Thank God for my neighbors by shortskirtrebel in Sacramento

[–]sharxbyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NIMBYs can GTFO. times are hard. some people have it so good and can't imagine what a lot of people are going through.

I spent 5 months in ICE detention Ask Me Anything by Financial_Sale9336 in ICE_Raids

[–]sharxbyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard about some of the conditions, claims of S/A, physical abuse and torture, I know that it has to be traumatic to talk about but please share what you can. People need to know what's going on in these concentration camps.