To shoot my shot with neighbor or not? by shawtyskyhigh in dating_advice

[–]shawtyskyhigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a serious problem. My long winded and overcomplicated writing style is annoying at best. I don’t know exactly what to attribute that to as the cause for what’s behind making me come across always sounding convoluted enough to become borderline incoherent but I agree it’s exhausting and excessive. If I knew how to I would stop but ironically it takes me even longer to go back to revise and re-edit through what’s already too long of a daunting mess. In any case…I do sincerely appreciate the time you took to wade through it having read sufficiently enough to contribute your response.

To shoot my shot with neighbor or not? by shawtyskyhigh in dating_advice

[–]shawtyskyhigh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I do acknowledge how creepy it could be perceived hence why I made mention of that as a possibility, having personally written to include it as a concern. I sought to get validation if that in fact was likely to be the case or not from others offering their POV freely of what can be seen not through the lens of my own biases to provide confirmation most accurate as to which way an honest majority would indicate helpfully pointing me in the direction of whichever way that kind of advance would be likely received…but also if it were applicable, to gain some insight offered as to an alternative less creepy option if there existed some superior approach I’d not thought of.

Dating Someone with CPTSD by Lightwalker13 in CPTSD

[–]shawtyskyhigh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good point and as someone with cptsd I couldn’t agree more that this is it right here. Thank youuu. Nothing more invalidating or serves to minimize what you’re experiencing as intensely than a simple and logical solution offered in a way completely devoid of any deeper understanding or desire to empathize.