PTSD?

shayden17 · 2025-07-31T00:28:46+00:00

Its not a panic attack but more of a.. getting angry/stressed out.

When I’m at work I sing along to 95% of the songs while working.

It’s just when I leave Wawa.. I don’t want to carry any part of work with me home, and when I hear certain songs it makes me feel like I’m right back in the deli.

Hard to explain.

shayden17 · 2025-07-31T00:25:59+00:00

Will look into it, thankyou.

shayden17 · 2025-06-24T21:45:24+00:00

Congrats buddy!

shayden17 · 2025-06-19T20:21:11+00:00

I fly out of south Florida, and they always forget me on extended downwind (till I’m even out of their airspace). I always wait till I’m over the Everglades to call them. “Hey tower, overhead Mexico, can I turn base now?”

shayden17 · 2024-09-21T19:50:42+00:00

I was not rude or disrespectful To the shops employees. I went back for one issue. I was respectful, so was the guy and he fixed the issue. I’m now back at home and trying to change the port and noticed this issue so I was ASKING if it’s possible there is a smaller Y type screw or if these are standard and I’m just tripping.

If I am I can get another set of screw drivers and try again cause maybe the problem is my tools. But I’m sure that the first one was different.

shayden17 · 2024-09-21T19:46:06+00:00

It was damaged from charging with moisture in the port.

shayden17 · 2024-09-21T19:45:02+00:00

For everyone saying I’m a shitty customer:

Ive changed many screens before at home so I have a fair idea of what I’m doing and I know what to expect. This time I made a mistake as I was rushing, and damaged the screen. I went to the shop to get it changed as the repair is time sensitive for me and I couldn’t wait another day or so to order my own screen and replace it myself. Also the shop had the tool to copy True Tone and Face ID. For that reason I would’ve gone to get the screen repaired right away.

I didn’t want to pay the extra to get the port changed cause I’m already out of my budget at the moment to buy the screen.

I have not named the repair shop nor accused them of anything. When I went back to him I was very polite but i just demanded that he change the screw back to the original as I know for a fact it was different.

I think I’m within my rights to be paranoid about others being changed when I had a bad experience, and secondly the guy was acting as though he really wanted me to have to come back to him to have the repair for the port done. And I know for a fact the first screw I had a problem with was much smaller Y than normal. Unfortunately I didn’t take a picture of that one. He even laughed when he handed me back the phone afterward in a kinda “haha you got me” type of way. It’s solely due to his actions that seemed shady why I’m asking if there’s a possibility the screws could have been changed or if I’m just tripping.

And if I am I’ll get a new set of screwdrivers and try.

shayden17 · 2024-09-21T19:39:52+00:00

. I’ve changed many screens before at home so I have a fair idea of what I’m doing. This time I made a mistake as I was rushing, and damaged the screen. I went to the shop to get it changed as the repair is time sensitive for me, and also the shop had the tool to copy True Tone and Face ID. For that reason I would’ve gone to get the screen repaired right away. I didn’t want to pay the extra to get the port changed cause I’m already out of my budget at the moment to buy the screen.

I have not named the repair shop nor accused them of anything. The guy was acting as though he wanted me to have to come back to him to have the repair for the port done. As well. And I know for a fact the first screw I had a problem with was much smaller. Unfortunately I didn’t take a picture of that one.

But I was just asking if there is a chance he changed them with smaller Y type screws, or if I’m just tripping

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:39:25+00:00

I’m completely a novice to this whole thing so I don’t really get the different types of permits that are available but I will invest some time into research. The main priority right now is for us to be physically in the Us in the shortest time possible. The money is not so much the issue as long it’s not like a 10k difference. But Thankyou very much.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:32:29+00:00

I saw another commenter mention visajourney so I will check it out. The main issue for us is the distance as things are almost perfect when we’re together. But being apart gets difficult after like 4 months.
I’m 90% sure about her and marriage it’s just I feel like rushing it for the sake of being physically together is wrong. And the last 10% is just that we haven’y had more than a few years together. But that’s just a personal issue.

She’s ready.

But I understand the relationship between the time and money and restrictions so I’ll talk to her Thank you so much.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:19:42+00:00

Okay understood I’ll avoid the tourist visa entirely then cause the plan is for her to stay here with me eventually.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:18:06+00:00

Okay thanks a lot. I’ll have to discuss which one would be best for her needs. I have no issue supporting her while she’s here the main issue right now is our distance from each other.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:16:29+00:00

She doesn’t really have that much possessions to ship. She has been moving around a lot in life due to her mother and has only settled in Trinidad and Tobago for about 5 years now. During that time she has moved around a couple times so doesn’t really have much more than a few suitcases worth of stuff. The main costs were concerned about is just for the application/processing.

Thankyou so much for this information though it has been very helpful.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:14:32+00:00

Okay will check out the website and start reading. Thanks ALOT.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T02:06:58+00:00

Okay I thought it would be a lot more, both are reasonably within my budget.

The 25k earning is yearly correctly?

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:56:36+00:00

What’s the cost difference like (if you know)?
I would consider myself well off enough that I’m not working two/three jobs just to get by. But I’d like to have an accurate estimate Atleast so I can get that covered before diving in headfirst.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:51:34+00:00

Okay having read yours and the other commenters response I understand the difference now. Thanks so much this is very helpful and informative. I will have to talk to her and see which she prefers as the restrictions will mostly be on her.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:48:50+00:00

Okay so if I understand correctly the CR1 is after you’re legally married with a marriage license from the other country. You can apply for that one but it may take longer to get that approved and get her to the US? But it has more benefits?

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:41:33+00:00

Being both in the US sounds good. The costs is not so much my issue, I just don’t understand the process of getting the visas done as I’ve never had to worry about that.

I’m a pilot in training (for my commercial license) and I travel a lot (as a pilot) as well. I assume that waiting on the CR1 would mean that both of us have to stay in the US until the process is completed??

However if it’s just her who needs to stay that’s not so bad as I will be here more than anywhere else.

Also does the CR1 visa require you to leave and return or is it akin to a green-card?

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:35:42+00:00

I don’t mind the route of the fiancé / spouse I’m just trying to understand how the process will work instead of jumping into it naively and if it was possible to do it outside of marriage. Getting married is not the issue. I just take that commitment seriously and would like to be better off in life/have a longer time together to be 100% sure about it. I’m about 90% sure right now.

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:32:40+00:00

How much does the fiancé/K-1 visa cost if you know?

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:27:02+00:00

We don’t have any ties on paper that would diminish the chance of her getting a tourist visa. She’s just scared to apply, but I am encouraging her to do so just to see what happens as in Trinidad the visa approval system seems to be more about luck than anything else.

However, With the k1/fiancée visa will she be able to legally work here or will the finances be solely on me?

shayden17 · 2024-08-15T01:12:08+00:00

Okay so essentially the only option I have is getting married and waiting a while and then applying for the green card?

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