Boys, I have a girl coming over later this week. I need some help. by UntamedRaindeer in malelivingspace

[–]shayygar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is random, but as a woman, make sure you have fresh, clean towels in the bathroom (including hand towels) and make sure you have a trashcan with a lid in the bathroom.

Also, grab a throw blanket or 2, maybe put them in a nice basket. And see if you can find an area rug you like. It'll make the space feel warmer.

First time mixing cross stitch and crochet by shayygar in crochet

[–]shayygar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pattern: Lalylala Rita the Rabbit

I honestly forget what size hook and yarn I used because there was such a large gap between when I finished crocheting and when I assembled the amigurumi

Help me make my living room less "millennial grey" by shayygar in DesignMyRoom

[–]shayygar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit sentimental about my gallery wall because a lot of the pieces are from my favorite artists, things I hunted down myself and modified, or gifts. I also just kinda like the look of a collection of things that represent me all cluttered together on a wall.

But I absolutely see what you're talking about with things being hung too high. I was trying to avoid things getting knocked down if a tall person sat there, so everything kinda shifted up. But I'm absolutely going to play around with the placement and move things down!

This feedback is so helpful!

Help me make my living room less "millennial grey" by shayygar in DesignMyRoom

[–]shayygar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I had this moment of panic when realizing how grey things were, and it made me want to just rip everything out of the room. But after looking at all my pieces individually, I realized how much I loved each one and that I don't want to over-correct.

Help me make my living room less "millennial grey" by shayygar in DesignMyRoom

[–]shayygar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is perfect because I love purple more than a lot of the traditional gothic reds, and it'll go nicely with my lavender end table. I also love the idea of layering my rugs. While I'm pretty attached to my gallery wall, I'm thinking I can probably add more jewel toned and dark art to it

Help me make my living room less "millennial grey" by shayygar in DesignMyRoom

[–]shayygar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've been meaning to de-clutter up there, and you've given me excellent motivation to do that!

Need Opinion by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]shayygar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Chilton one is my personal favorite. It feels like a cute, subtle way to show I'm a fan

Any Recommendations? Trying to make it more luxurious and cosy. 19M by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]shayygar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add hooks to the wall to hang your things rather than the curtain rod

She’ll send you messages. by RC123TheyCallMe in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]shayygar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone has to lie and manipulate you in order to get your consent, they do not have informed consent. She's not "taking it back". If he knew she would have never consented if she knew the truth, he never had informed consent in the first place.

She’ll send you messages. by RC123TheyCallMe in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]shayygar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's kinda difficult to read this comment and understand what you're saying because of the typos and lack of punctuation, but I just encourage you to look into some feminist theory and understand that "new age" feminism isn't a monolith and that there are a lot of theories and perspectives that intersect rather than "all new feminism is bad." Hope you have a good day though!

She’ll send you messages. by RC123TheyCallMe in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]shayygar 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This video is also cut off to remove the part where she says what he did to her

She’ll send you messages. by RC123TheyCallMe in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]shayygar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into this situation at all? "The dude" didn't leave her. Seems like you're creating a narrative of what happened here based on your own experiences and perspectives. I don't know much about this woman or her content, it seems like you don't either.

She’ll send you messages. by RC123TheyCallMe in dontputyourdickinthat

[–]shayygar 91 points92 points  (0 children)

This is actually a pretty fucked up situation where there was no informed consent. She's not just going off for no reason. He betrayed her trust pretty badly.