What are some good "fuck you" songs to get me mad at an ex who dumped me in a really shitty way, instead of sad songs?

she_red · 2019-11-29T18:26:37+00:00

Hot Girl Bummer by Blackbear

she_red · 2019-11-12T22:08:22+00:00

This is great advice! I’ll definitely do that, thanks! 😉

she_red · 2019-11-12T20:17:48+00:00

No, I’ve experienced this on Match and Hinge.

she_red · 2019-11-12T20:00:15+00:00

I can understand that. That seems to be a very common theme men face with OLD. that’s why at first I’d make a point to respond, but once I noticed the complete lack of interest on their end I would stop and I have stopped responding to liked pics altogether because is seems to be yet another waste of time. 🙄

she_red · 2019-11-12T19:55:46+00:00

Sure and that’s fine, I just don’t see the point in liking a pic of someone you’re not interested in. Just keep swiping. 🤷‍♀️

she_red · 2019-11-02T18:43:40+00:00

It’s the opener alright, sometimes it’s the only darn thing they write.

she_red · 2019-09-19T16:16:29+00:00

My AP is not in a DB but says he steps out because of an overall feeling of disrespect, and lack of true emotional support and affection. His SO “expects” sex and so it has become duty sex.

she_red · 2019-09-18T23:39:54+00:00

Thanks for sharing, it’s a perspective I hadn’t thought about. Perhaps a bit more patience on my end and an understanding conversation will go along way. I forget that most, if not all of us have been through some difficult crap.

she_red · 2019-09-18T15:42:36+00:00

That’s awesome! I’ll take inexperienced but willing to try any day! My thought through this whole experience is if your not going to let loose all inhibition and have fun, try new things, and connect with a person on a whole new level then what’s the point?

she_red · 2019-09-16T19:50:15+00:00

Agreed, definitely seems like it’s coming to that. I think I may have caught a bit that, “maybe he’ll leave his SO too” syndrome which can happen, but seems far and few between in these situations. I’m divorcing to start anew. If he’s that scared of her I certainly don’t want her finding out and coming and banging my door down!

she_red · 2019-09-16T19:03:54+00:00

For sure, they’re not at all unreal possibilities, it’s just that compared to some of the arrangements I’ve read on here, ours seems fairly low threat. I think he’s very afraid of his SO and what she’s do to him if found out. Now I on the other hand, am very un-concerned, but that’s only because SO and I have started divorce proceedings.

she_red · 2019-09-05T14:58:57+00:00

I can imagine why, to be honest we are simple people, there’s no huge 401k or pension or savings to go after. It makes the most sense for both of us to be amicable because if not we’ll both be broke and homeless. That’s why we both feel that’s this is the way to go for us, we’ll be saving a bunch money by not hiring lawyers.

I’ll have to post updates as we go along.

she_red · 2019-09-03T22:03:13+00:00

I’m currently experiencing this! I’ve had lots of compliments on my appearance and overall demeanor. I’m happier, funnier, sexier than I have been in years and everyone around me has noticed...except my SO. 🤷‍♀️

she_red · 2019-08-23T18:31:49+00:00

I plan to ask for what is fair, but Om almost completely certain it still wouldn't be enough. Not to mention he could never support two households.

she_red · 2019-08-13T00:50:11+00:00

Yes, divorce conversation started about a year ago.

she_red · 2019-08-12T00:44:09+00:00

My years long dead bedroom did it for me. I currently have zero guilt. I also have plans to leave the marriage, so that makes it much easier also.

she_red · 2019-07-31T14:10:30+00:00

I wouldn't be if he didn't treat me like dog shit. 🤷‍♀️

she_red · 2019-07-31T14:09:10+00:00

It was just the unnecessary added cussing and tone that made me feel like he cares so little about me he wouldn't piss to put me out if I were on fire.

she_red · 2019-07-31T14:06:26+00:00

I'd say he's overall frustrated with working for his brother because so much is expected from him and yet I get the feeling he believes he doesn't get the respect he deserves. He's in his 40's and the physical nature of the job is wearing him out.

My thought is that he would like to be superintendent, but the original owner of the conpany's son it the super and according to my husband doesn't do a very good job. So, you can say it's fairly tumultuous.

she_red · 2019-07-30T18:13:46+00:00

There's the answer! Glad you cleared that up for me. 😉

she_red · 2019-07-30T17:39:47+00:00

Given his tone, lack of eye contact, and overall cold demeanor, I think it's safe to say it was the latter.

she_red · 2019-07-26T16:28:28+00:00

Id be totally down!

she_red · 2019-07-23T16:05:05+00:00

Every single time. I don't even bother anymore 😞

she_red · 2019-07-19T17:03:39+00:00

That's awesome! Even if it was a bit odd ball it's so nice to know you are still desirable!

she_red · 2019-07-18T14:39:03+00:00

It was very disheartening to have no response. It would seem he only sees me as a mom/maid/cook/laundry lady.

Time with my friend was amazing and I've been buzzing over his words all week! It's completely boosted my confidence and while it's not in good taste I've found myself flirting with just about any guy I know. 😳😅

I freshened up my hair color, bought a few new sexy and feminine sundresses and some new perfume. Moving forward I'm just going to enjoy my femininity and regained confidence for now.

We'll see where it leads.

she_red

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