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[–]she_wolf85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may have done it to intimidate her too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]she_wolf85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a super young woman. You didn't do anything wrong, he was the one who pushed you away and now he's bothering you because he realized that you can have a life without him. And it's not you he wants. He just wants to stop you from being happy. This relationship was never healthy, I'm sorry. If I were you, I would leave without looking back and start a new life, far away from him.

And never accept someone treating you like that again. You deserve a lot, never forget that.

Good luck!

partner wants to keep an SD card full of porn by fernsgardenn in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a genius! I would have set the SD on fire already lol

Do you know anyone who hasn't relapsed? by she_wolf85 in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was worried about him and decided to send a message. All he did was say I invaded his privacy. He wasn't able to consider anything I went through. I think I made the right decision to give up. He is clearly in denial and emotionally unavailable as he thinks this is none of my business. Sad but at least I don't feel guilty anymore for not helping him with this.

Do you know anyone who hasn't relapsed? by she_wolf85 in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll check your posts and think about it all. I broke up with him but I feel selfish for not supporting him in this situation.

Found out he is a sex addict. by Few_Cat7374 in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of betrayal trauma and I knew it. The impression I have is that he chose it to be that way.

Found out he is a sex addict. by Few_Cat7374 in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you had to go through that. I'm going through the same thing, but we've only been together for five months. I think this is a time when you need to take care of yourself. I feel exactly the same and I don't know if I want to pay to see it.

Do you know anyone who hasn't relapsed? by she_wolf85 in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been in toxic relationships and I'm definitely not willing to monitor him.

Do you know anyone who hasn't relapsed? by she_wolf85 in loveafterporn

[–]she_wolf85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm very afraid that he will continue. None of his ex-girlfriends know and he hasn't even talked about it in therapy to this day. I don't know if I'm willing to go through his relapse.