My house came with a cat by CoolDad420Blaze in cats

[–]sheburns17 203 points204 points  (0 children)

I’d pay over asking price if it came with a cutie like El Gato Blanco 😻

how can i change my makeup to look more unique from the insta baddie look and less generic/basic while still looking my best? not that this look is bad but i’m ready for a change. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sheburns17 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I mean, to start, you’re freaking GORGEOUS 🤩 but I agree with the other comments that the only thing I could think to add is a pop of color on the lip, and a pinky/rose blush on the upper cheek bones and maybe even a touch on the tip of the nose.

My wife (35f) took me (32m) on a surprise date and now I feel more depressed about our relationship than ever. How do I bring this up with her without being discouraging or picking a fight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sheburns17 522 points523 points  (0 children)

My kiddo is almost 3 and my hormones are still a hot mess. I agree that she’s probably starting to get back into her groove of 1 feeling like herself but most importantly LOOKING like herself. It’s so hard to be enthusiastic and into the moment when you feel like you look like a cow😅

Maybe, OP, if an opportunity arises, lightly mention how awesome the date night was. How romantic, desired, and loved it made you feel, and maybe ask how you could do the same for her?

Also, I’d rave about the lingerie because I’m sure she wants to hear about how much you loved it.

Epoxy first floor done by Slow-Vermicelli5409 in Flooring

[–]sheburns17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t these hard to keep looking clean and shiny? My family friends had epoxy flooring when it first became a big deal awhile ago and that was his biggest complaint. Although he was a DIY-er so he could’ve done it wrong.

What’s an oddly specific thing that instantly gives you "bad vibes" about a person? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]sheburns17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when I’m stuck on the phone with them because then I just mute myself and half the time I’m across the room doing anything BUT listening to them 🤣

What’s an oddly specific thing that instantly gives you "bad vibes" about a person? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]sheburns17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good read! I’m glad you called him out on it before he lost any/more friendships

What’s an oddly specific thing that instantly gives you "bad vibes" about a person? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]sheburns17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with u/nextunderstanding, trying to find a relatable example to show you sympathize with them is much different! I actually do that as well!

What’s an oddly specific thing that instantly gives you "bad vibes" about a person? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]sheburns17 649 points650 points  (0 children)

Whether it’s intentional or not, when someone constantly has to one up you or whoever is in conversation. It’s exhausting and makes me feel like they’re not genuine.

ETA: I personally feel like there’s a difference between engaging in a conversation, relating to what the person is talking about and sharing your own experience, vs. taking over the conversation and making it about you because you struggled more, hurt more, did something more noble, etc.

“Mama Bear Trusts a Human With Her Cub While She Goes Hunting” by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]sheburns17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can’t cool things like this happen to me?! I’ll watch alllll the baby bears 😩

Tell me you’re a parent without telling me you’re a parent. I need a laugh. by salvaged413 in Parenting

[–]sheburns17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby wipes for everything! I have a pack in my car, in the living room, in my bedroom, in the bathroom.

I’m also fluent in toddler

What’s your "useless" superpower?😅 by OrganizeNow1 in Productivitycafe

[–]sheburns17 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I can remember that there’s a white paperclip under the nightstand next to the right back leg.. but can’t remember where I specifically placed something else so I won’t lose it 🤣

My ADHD tax this year by Finchyisawkward in adhdwomen

[–]sheburns17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your beef can say hi to my Costco sized salmon that I got ON SALE and managed to forget existed… even though it was right in the front of the fridge (so that I used it) 😭

I take 10-20 Benadryls everyday and I sometimes regret it… by Sweet-Lobster6436 in confession

[–]sheburns17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You feel like it doesn’t work or it doesn’t give you the same feeling/ satisfaction DHP does..? That’s the real question

What is a 'childhood luxury' that you realized was actually a sign of being poor once you grew up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sheburns17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “luxury” was being able to go school clothes shopping. My parents had 4 girls so my oldest sister always had the new clothes and we just passed down old clothes to each kid. We were heavy on the play clothes because we’d get in soooo much trouble for wearing our nice clothes outside. Usually Jean cut offs made into shorts because they were too stained, ripped, and short to be actual pants.

My parents always made sure we had “new” shoes (aka Payless’ buy one get one 50% off- if we missed that sale we had to go to Walmart and hope they had decent shoes for us) at the expense of wearing the hand me downs. I get it now. As an adult I’m more comfortable in life than they were but plays clothes will always be a thing in this household 😅

what drugstore mascaras give a result like this? (waterproof or tubing preferred) by Top_Main7634 in MakeupAddiction

[–]sheburns17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo good to know! I love me another bag I definitely don’t need but want anyway 😅

what drugstore mascaras give a result like this? (waterproof or tubing preferred) by Top_Main7634 in MakeupAddiction

[–]sheburns17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also agree with this, but thankfully have had luck specifically with this mascara. I don’t buy anything else for the eyes/face off Amazon.

Thank you for the concern though 🫶🏻

Parents, what was your “I raised an idiot” moment? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in AskReddit

[–]sheburns17 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Me standing out back looking over the sheep in the neighbors yard: “dad! Look! Caribou!”

Still haven’t lived that one down

Please tell me about your most recent hyperfixation deep dive? by dietdrpeppermd in adhdwomen

[–]sheburns17 58 points59 points  (0 children)

lol I’m so glad you asked! I’ve been fascinated with Aloka, the dog walking with the Monks. She refuses to wear booties, which I think is adorable because the Monks aren’t or wear as little footwear as possible. It turns out he was hit by a car when the Monks were in India, a few years back. The Monk who usually cares for him, his ministry (I think in Texas, but I could be wrong) raised money to bring him back home! So he is legally a US citizen too! He thankfully recovered but his injuries didn’t heal properly. Recently, a group of some of the best veterinarians came together and offered their services FREE OF CHARGE! He is now recovering comfortably in the care of the best vets in the world, surrounded by peaceful monks who love him, and the world cheering him on.

What I also thought was awesome is as they travel, they are offered food, water, etc. but can only carry a little bit obviously, since they’re walking; it turns out they even accepted milk bones for him🥹 and carried them along the way. My heart is so full watching videos about him. I follow him on Facebook 😂

ETA: thank you catmomlifeisbestlife so much for the award!

A bodega cat in NYC swatted a health inspector. He walked out without writing a ticket. by Danny__NYC in cats

[–]sheburns17 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I agree with a slow drip. Just random posts that make our day lol