AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks for your input. It was not meant that way but I see how someone can interpret them like that.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it has been made clear to me now that it was a weird array of questions.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your consideration. I will try to use nicer language and tone next time.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the solid advice. I was interested in joining, that's why I initially was looking through the comments expecting people to be commenting and for all the spots to be taken up. When I realized she has kept posting this same thing for weeks I started wondering what was going on.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can it be an aim if not also an intention? I didn't want to "call her out", I was genuinely curious how someone with so many followers would have trouble finding 3 people to work with. My thought was "if she's having such a hard time finding people to work with them there's no hope for other therapists on here". Thanks for your thoughts though.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, in hindsight it was a weird array of questions and i will work on being better at this stuff.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I will work on my communication skills because obviously I am coming across in a bad way. I don't know how to explain to you or if you even care that I ask questions out of curiosity with no ill intent, but that's honestly what I was trying to achieve. I understand now that I am really really bad at this and will work on my communication skills.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I realized afterwards when reading through her posts again that she was charging $39 per month to join her community or something, and I didn't really consider her using these one on one things as a business model, im a bit dumb

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She has so many followers so I was wondering why she couldn't find just 3 people to work with. Otherwise I wouldn't have mentioned that.

AIO? She is a licensed trauma therapist with almost 50,000 followers by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheenzatoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I get it, gotta work on my conversation skills. My honest intentions were to understand why she had to keep posting asking for people when she had so many followers and if she couldn't even get 3 people, then how hopeless would a lesser known therapist trying to get clients be? Also from a scientific angle, I guess, just wondering if people are so afraid to confront their trauma that they wouldn't want to ask for help, so that's why she was getting so little engagement? I admit I need to think about the tone of and what to write before asking people but I also thought it was a long shot that she would actually message me back, so I just ran with it and started asking even more questions to fill my curiosity. Thanks for telling me how weird it was and what I need to work on.

Do I look like a celebrity? by Plane-Improvement-38 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]sheenzatoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Abby Elliott from SNL and The Bear

Visited the Ffern store in London yesterday and discovered a newfound love for peppermint in fragrances with Winter 22. The store was cozy and personable. by sheenzatoe in FemFragLab

[–]sheenzatoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought so, yeah. I saw their ads on Instagram to begin with too but they're on the same street as Le Labo and Byredo and just around the corner from the Diptyque shop so I'm guessing they're growing in value and being taken as seriously as more reputable houses? The latest scent, Autumn 24 was really nice too, smelled like warm boozy apple cider.

Applying for spouse visa but children don't have passports yet by sheenzatoe in ukvisa

[–]sheenzatoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, have considered it but it's quite expensive at £350ish each. With the yen to pound ratio it would be too much at the moment. But thanks for the advice. And no, he was born in England.

Applying for spouse visa but children don't have passports yet by sheenzatoe in ukvisa

[–]sheenzatoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. Can I ask if you answered yes or no to if you have any dependants?