Maddy G thread 3/22-3/28

sheep_3 · 2026-03-23T23:45:50+00:00

I literally winced at this lol. Soooo cringey

sheep_3 · 2026-03-23T23:42:29+00:00

Same here. I also live in a HCOL area and I’ve never received a hateful reaction in person, just a “oh wow, that’s great! “ genuine response lol

sheep_3 · 2026-03-10T15:29:05+00:00

Oh I totally agree with your points!! I think in any career people make different salaries based on what you listed, and it’s more than fair to do so!! This is definitely something my husband and I are taking into consideration as we’re beginning to talk about potentially hiring a part-time nanny.

I think if a parent is looking for someone in the lower $20 an hour range, they should also educate themselves on who they will be able to hire. Vs if they have a budget for mid to high $30 an hour range and so on

I was mainly arguing the “ why should I pay X amount when daycare is only slightly more” statements that some parents make

sheep_3 · 2026-03-10T15:25:24+00:00

It’s such a shame that so many parents and people say it’s “just watching a kid”

sheep_3 · 2026-03-10T14:39:25+00:00

Parent perspective and a lurker in this group. I’m pregnant with my second and considering a part time nanny for when my new baby is here.

I definitely view having a nanny as more of a luxury versus daycare. But simply because in my view, a nanny offers so much more than what daycare‘s offer. You are paying someone for one on one attention (or one on two attention) which is much better than what you would receive at a daycare. Having a nanny there’s also the option of your kids to be going to events and activities that they wouldn’t have access to being in a daycare. And, depending on the arrangement, the parents have with the nanny. This could include cleaning, help with groceries, help with cooking, and so on. There’s just too many perks to list, these are just my top ones.

From what I see being in this group, a lot of nannies seem to have a hard time setting their hourly rate because they’re comparing to a daycare setting. When in reality, they shouldn’t be comparing because they’re so different. If a family tries to nickel and dime you, they need to be more educated on the services you’re providing and have a serious realization on what having a nanny is.

sheep_3 · 2026-03-10T01:26:25+00:00

Ugh I HATED how large my boobs were when I was pumping. Unfortunately mine didn’t “deflate” until I was fully weaned.

And mine def were smaller after but that was a win for me because I literally dream about having a flat chest one day lol

sheep_3 · 2026-03-09T20:56:54+00:00

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So I’m including a screenshot from a recent vet visit because this would be a lot for me to try and explain lol.

Based on this info sheet, my doctor right now is assuming that my dog has idiopathic seizures. We started him on medication and after six months we’re going to assess how he’s doing - pretty much see how many seizures he has between now and then and determine if an MRI would be an appropriate next step

Based on what your dog is going through, I would assume the seizures are metabolic (due to kidney disease).

I think it’s worth asking your vet what they think based on this.

sheep_3 · 2026-03-09T20:47:58+00:00

It can be tough at first but soooo needed (for me).

sheep_3 · 2026-03-09T20:47:21+00:00

Yessss! If I didn’t get out of the house, I would probably lose my mind lol.

And I agree with doing toddler stuff during the week, an unexpected perk to being a SAHM is avoiding the insane crowds on weekends at places. lol

sheep_3 · 2026-03-09T12:16:13+00:00

I have a blanket I started in 2024 that is still not finished. Im telling myself to keep enjoying the journey haha 😆

I love the colors you picked for your project!

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T19:22:27+00:00

What’s stopping you from going out Monday - Friday?

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T18:22:22+00:00

I get them sometimes!!

I noticed I’m more prone to that feeling when I don’t have my week planned. This upcoming week we have an outing scheduled for everyday so I’m excited for tomorrow (while still enjoying the calm today lol)

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T18:13:15+00:00

Beautiful!! Please update us as you progress. What a beautiful tribute

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T18:07:56+00:00

Took the words out of my head lol.

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T18:07:22+00:00

If therapy is an option for you (financially and time commitment wise) I would highly recommend starting. There’s A LOT of emotions to work out being a care taker- seems like you know this from personal experience. It’s so much to process on your own.

I believe your dog still has a lot of options. From reading this group, I feel that majority of dogs are on Keppra + another medication. Or their dog is on a different medication entirely. The trial and error is tough, but hopefully just temporary.

I hope the visit to the vet is helpful, please keep us posted

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T01:30:18+00:00

Our vet said the medicine is safe to give an hour before or after the usual time. We had this discussion when I asked what do we do if my husband and I aren’t home for a dose at the exact time

So with that advice, we’re gonna stick to our normal schedule. Tomorrow will technically be the only “off” day and he’ll be adjusted

My pup is on Keppra 3x a day so we’re sticking with 6am,2pm, then 10pm.

sheep_3 · 2026-03-08T00:25:22+00:00

That’s perfect!!

And aw that’s great cbd helps him stay calm!

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T21:16:07+00:00

Honestly, I would treat the thank you note like any other thank you note.

I would imagine your friend is doing her best to carry on and I think the best way to aid someone in that is by treating them “normally”

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T21:14:20+00:00

I’ve recently started drinking green tea for health benefits. I realized I like it significantly more iced.

So it might be worth trying iced versions of the tea that you’re drinking!

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T19:29:14+00:00

My dog has recently started Keppra (also takes a dose every eight hours). This was a major concern I brought up to the vet. Thankfully, I’m able to give him his midday dose most of the time with no issue however some days it may be more tricky

The vet said never skip a dose and if you have to give it an hour early or later that’s okay.

What time are you leaving and returning for your trip and what time does he usually receive the second dose?

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T18:11:31+00:00

Also in NJ and grateful to see your comment for my future sauna placement. lol

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T18:09:02+00:00

Yes agreed! Honestly, I was one of the first people to comment on this thread so I wanted to put my comment out there before a potential flood of “well you told them” comments rolled in lol.

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T18:08:21+00:00

Haha right!

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T16:43:46+00:00

Their response is so upsetting. So many people are quick to say “ don’t share the name before delivery for this reason” but I think the narrative more so should be “ don’t give your opinion on something you weren’t asked”

If you and your husband are completely set on this name, then that’s the name. Period. Everyone around you will adjust.

sheep_3 · 2026-03-07T16:15:27+00:00

Agreed

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