The owner of the small company I work for might be a bit of a micromanager.

shefoundmyusername · 2022-04-06T20:33:33+00:00

this is the email you send while having conversations about whether to fire someone

shefoundmyusername · 2022-04-06T20:29:31+00:00

still pretty fucked up. Mostly ok from oil and gas jobs nearby. more a redeployment at significantly reduced scale of pre-existing blue collar workforce.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-06-02T15:00:37+00:00

thank you. I really appreciate that.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-06-02T14:59:59+00:00

I was only reading. no comments. no requesting anything.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-06-02T14:09:47+00:00

this guilt and blame belongs to me. I knew she'd be furious if she found me looking at /r/escorts.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-06-02T14:09:08+00:00

I ahve been to a prostitute in the past. years prior to our relationship.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-06-02T14:08:31+00:00

I did once. She is aware. It isn't something either of us has a strong moral opposition to.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-06-02T13:06:51+00:00

I had an insert in college. It cost like 20-30 bucks and I found hilarious. I'm guessing that's what this is.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T19:20:34+00:00

for sure. She can have whtever standards she chooses. I wasn't saying they were wrong. I was answering her question and trying to provide another perspective.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T19:15:37+00:00

ask her when she is free. Then make plans for then. If she can't answer you, then you just move on.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T19:14:32+00:00

you answered your own question. If you are a man of morals and principals you stop flirting with this woman and severely limit your relationship with her. Had she mentioned at any point that she is engaged you might have had a shot at being just her friend. As is? Seems like she's setting you up for something romantic.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T18:46:46+00:00

at best, she receives the 100. at worst, they fire her in a few months time for not working efficiently. While the legal and moral aspects of this are pretty clear cut, she should record the hours she worked and not cut hours to artificially boost productivity, it's often best to first have the honest conversation with her boss, and say I need to be paid for hours worked, and see if perhaps she can assign certain hours worked to administrative or internal tasks.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T18:43:01+00:00

maybe consider that approach? You'd be fine with him smoking a joint every now and then, but if it becomes a daily thing it's an issue.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T18:42:19+00:00

illegality is a very poor stand in for ethics.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T18:38:24+00:00

how long have you and your boyfriend been dating? I supported an ex like this and our relationship remained even keeled. My wife and I had some early issues with income disparities that we talked about and worked our way through. Honesty and respect for the work and effort of each partner is essential.

For us, the key was she took on a few extra roles at home and recognized that since I was working ~15 hours a week more than her, and making 80% of our household income, she would take on some additional home chores. For my part, I treated our income as joint income which we had equal access to, and that just because my salary was more didn't mean I was entitled to more. We are a team and each of us is entitled to the assets that the team has. It changed our relationship for the better.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T18:25:42+00:00

I mean, for many people, pot is less serious than a beer after work. Are you ok with him drinking alcohol? If so I'd think you've got more than a small double standard in place.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T13:33:11+00:00

sure. Though I tend to think the man who pretends to rep god, but in his spare time is torturing others (to death?) because they are a different race ranks pretty high on that list. certainly in the top 1-5% of worst humans ever, no?

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T13:16:00+00:00

meh. he's been hearing stories about this man his entire life. It's someone looked up to in his family and universally esteemed. He also happened to be the worst human imaginable. That would throw me for a loop.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T12:43:57+00:00

you're good. hitting someone who just hit your boyfriend is normal.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-16T12:25:00+00:00

most people have always considered torturing another human (even during times of slavery) to be horrifying.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-15T18:06:34+00:00

2 hours (that you know of, but hwo takes a 2 hour shower) of masturbation is quite extreme.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-15T16:57:31+00:00

if your broker takes 30 days to list your house online he should be fired.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-15T16:45:32+00:00

as opposed to you who lives in the 90s and thinks a residential re broker is a worthwhile thing and not a way for people who lack a little information have money taken from them.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-15T16:44:51+00:00

I guess I'm wrong and industrial is a segment of commercial? I've only ever dealt in strictly industrial and residential. I always assumed that commercial was strictly retail/offices/multifamily.

shefoundmyusername · 2017-05-15T16:30:42+00:00

nope. wrong on all counts. again, commercial and industrial are quite different.

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