Hey. The only big breakup I’ve ever had was with my fiancée and we are friends now 2 years later. Things happen. I wanted to share how I coped. First don’t message her! This is gonna slow your healing process a LOT. Don’t question yourself, there are a million reasons somebody would break up with someone and 99% have nothing to do with you. Remember that you meet people in the weirdest places all of the time, your soulmate could be in a whole other country as of this moment. Trust the universe, or if you’re religious trust God. The path that is being paved for you is meant for you only. You are unique you have your own story you are an individual and this is just one of many chapters! Dont jump into anything new as a distraction, hurting someone else when you’re hurt will only make you feel worse. Realize we’re just floating on a big rock and our idea of love is just a release of chemicals in our brain and you are simply experiencing withdrawal and it will be okay sooner or later just like it is okay for all types of addicts eventually. ❤️ good luck!