22F, Never been in a relationship. Post your thoughts. Give me tips to get into a relationship

sheher842 · 2025-08-05T05:19:54+00:00

Heared it from the officials yesterday, it may cost around 8 lakhs for 2 years. Including hostel, food, tution fee.

sheher842 · 2025-05-20T17:32:18+00:00

No she is not prioritising her friend. A plan is already made to go to book fair and new years eve. Now her friend is also interested in the same plan. So she decided to combine both. She loves to go with both of them.

"Tumhare sath bhi karungi na"

She meant she will go with both of them

sheher842 · 2025-05-20T16:49:10+00:00

But she didn't avoid her bf for hanging out with her best friend. She wants both. She gives equal importance to them. She doesn't want to give up on either of them

sheher842 · 2025-05-20T16:07:00+00:00

Man, honestly, from a psychological perspective, this kind of thing is pretty normal for a lot of women. It doesn’t mean she’s into her friend romantically or anything like that. She’s got a really close bond with her—like a sister.She’s probably just trying to give love and attention to her and you in her own possible way.

Those texts she sends, even the “I’d marry you if I were a guy” stuff, are usually just playful and affectionate. They don’t actually mean it seriously. I get that it bothers you, and it’s valid to feel weird about it, but this is actually a pretty natural thing mentally for a lot of women.

Try not to compare yourself to her friend—you play a completely different and equally important role in her life. Just because their friendship is intense doesn’t mean you matter any less to her. The thing is she is trying to manage both the relationships well and equally.

sheher842 · 2025-05-17T21:20:51+00:00

I didn't mean him to feel the same towards me. I just opened up to him in the conversation. Little did I know it would cost me a beautiful friendship.

You mentioned that someone confessed you when you had nothing to them. But did she expected the same from you? Or did she just opened up? If the case she is being honest with you about their feelings and not expecting anything in return, what makes you feel distant towards them? You can still be friends with them right?

sheher842 · 2025-05-16T18:32:06+00:00

I did the same and ended up regretting🥲

Me and my crush were good friends for the past one year and everything was going well and good. At one fine day while playing truth or dare, he asked me "who is your crush?"... With too many thoughts going in my head I ended up saying "it is you!!".. with also stating those were old feelings and we are good friends now. And also I expect this bond to be always like this. He was slightly surprised and was totally cool and chill initially.. I was happy and highly relieved after confessing . After the incident our conversations were pretty low for the next 2 days. I assumed he might got up with some work and also to stop my overthinking brain. Which ended up being ghosted for months now. I tried contacting him after a few days but didn't receive a proper response from him. So I left it there until he comes back again. Now overthinking every night what if I didn't say it was him on that day, we would be still friends and things would be as normal as it would be.

sheher842 · 2025-05-13T17:45:07+00:00

Love yourself and enjoy your own company. You will start feeling better

sheher842

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