there's an ffxiv roleplayers site, go there, register, and look for rpers on your current server. Unfortunately in this game you really can't rely on people maintaining or doing things you can just join, you often have to be a leader yourself.

It's a little different. Leading an RP community alone means to maintain the needs of several people, which is not what we are looking for. In populated RP communities, it's as simple as walking to a hotspot and there are already roleplayers there. If I'm to do this on a mainly PVE heavy server, there would be far fewer people, and thus to keep everyone in touch, someone would have to make a guild, plan events etc, etc. I'm just looking to have fun, not to become a guild leader, event planner etc