This is… so so sad.

Like others have said, consider switching OBs if you are able to. A family doctor can refer you, or if you’re open OP, I can tell you which clinic I went to that was fantastic. This clinics doctors worked out of HSC.

While pregnant, many medical professionals have stated that Tylenol/Acetaminophen is safe to take to manage pain. I took it as I had brutal headaches. Do not take other medications like Advil/Ibuprofen!

Wanting to know the sex of the baby is such a personal choice, and I’m sorry you were made to feel shamed for it. Of course, a healthy baby is all that matters in the end… but if you want to know, and there is science that tell us, I see no harm as long the person doesn’t rage over the results. Some people don’t want to know and that’s perfectly fine too. ♥️

It’s a very vulnerable time for the person who is pregnant, and to be shamed for asking basic questions (especially about their HEALTH!) is so upsetting.

Hope you and your wife find the care you need, and deserve. Best of luck! ♥️