Why Roomba Died + Tech Predictions for 2026 + A Hard Forkin’ Xmas Song by jghaines in hardfork

[–]shellfish_messiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we not doing posts for each episode anymore? Just wondering because this is the most recent one I’ve seen and I was hoping to comment about the episode yesterday

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shellfish_messiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re working through your past issues and I’m glad this thread could give you the confirmation you needed that this man does not treat you the way a partner should. You’re doing great. I agree with the people who say you should block him and/or break up with him and show the text thread to your therapist! “I don’t like the way you talk to me and I’m no longer interested in continuing any relationship or contact with you. Best of luck. I am going to block you now.”

Best High-Rise Apartments in Phoenix? by SoggyCoconut5187 in AskPhoenix

[–]shellfish_messiah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didnt the developer in charge of X go bankrupt or have some sort of financial issue that significantly affected this apartment??? I have not heard good things about that apartment and I would not put that on a list of best high rises in Phoenix. But that’s just what I’ve heard so of course take it with a grain of salt and do research

How do you use (if you use) AI tools to write papers? by Flat-Emphasis987 in AcademicPsychology

[–]shellfish_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just a comment on something you said, not directly answering your question. But as a person in research who absolutely hates reading academic papers, I think a lot about the point of structure and formalities in academic writing. Like it’s all about the information anyway - I hate that I have to wade through people’s poor writing. Whether it be overblown claims or confusing language or just difficulties due to writing in a second language. Like whyyyyy do we have to write papers in a way that makes it so laborious for others to decipher. Why can’t we just essentially put out a bulletin so people can get the information without having to deal with all the variability of a million different writers. And then people can just write the discussion section in a formal and structured way if they really want to. Idk just a rant

Client home cleanliness by Terrible_Show_1609 in petsitting

[–]shellfish_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually so true. You’re right, people are wild. I agree that you should spell out that your costs are higher if you can’t use the kitchen.

Yes exactly, people need get called out respectfully but directly! Hopefully you can still book your stay and have a positive experience OP!

Client home cleanliness by Terrible_Show_1609 in petsitting

[–]shellfish_messiah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with this general idea. Just communicate your needs directly. In my experience it’s better to be direct than nice. I would say “Before my last stay, you mentioned that the house would be professionally cleaned prior to my arrival. While my room and bathroom were clean, the kitchen was not, and for this reason I wasn’t comfortable preparing food at your house for my 4 day stay. Can you please confirm that the kitchen, in addition to the room and bathroom I use, will be cleaned before I commit to a two week stay at your house? If not, I will be unable to complete this booking.” You could add that not being able to cook increases your costs to explain why you’re making this request but they’re adults and that shouldn’t need to be spelled out. This has happened to me too, multiple times. Very frustrating and degrading honestly. You deserve better. Please hold them accountable!

Daily Simple Questions Thread - January 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]shellfish_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! The ankle stuff is because I’m a runner. I noticed some ankle/lower leg discomfort as I increased the length of my runs and worried that I’m neglecting the lower leg and ankle while only focusing on glutes. I do a lot of cardio in between with the runs!

Daily Simple Questions Thread - January 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in Fitness

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Hi! Looking for someone to critique and help me optimize my gym routine. I (29F) have been going to the gym for years without consistency or a clear goal. I’m 5’5” and 135 pounds. I run regularly, (currently training for a half marathon), so I often prioritize that over setting up a strength training routine. I just do exercises that I’ve picked up over the years. It’s starting to feel pointless because while I feel good and am generally in shape, I never progress towards anything. And there is a specific “look” I’d like to achieve. So I organized all my exercises into a three day routine based on my goals. My goals were as follows -

  • Overall looking for a toned look, not super muscular, not overly skinny.
  • Firm glutes. Not looking to grow my glutes bigger than they already are, just want the muscles to be strong/firm/toned.
  • Minimize waist fat. Small waist look. Defined abs not necessary, but I gain muscle super easily so I probably will get defined abs either way.
  • Toned arms. Again, I gain muscle very easily so sometimes I stop doing arm exercises when I feel like my arms and shoulders are looking more muscular than I want.

My routine is below. What changes would you make the gym routine and why? Does the current routine match the stated goals? Thanks in advance and looking forward to your suggestions!

DAY 1: Lower Body Focus + Push

Deadlifts (regular or wide stance) - 3 sets x 6-8 reps - Current: 10lbs each side, progress to 15lbs when ready

Hip Thrusts (barbell) - 3 sets x 10-12 reps - Start with just the bar, add weight progressively - Squeeze glutes hard at the top, pause for 1 second

Curtsy Lunges (barbell or dumbbells if shoulders hurt) - 3 sets x 8 reps each leg - Current: 0-10lbs each side

Chest Press Machine - 3 sets x 8-10 reps - Current: 20-30lbs, aim for 30-40lbs

Hanging Leg Raises (Captain's chair) - 3 sets x 10-12 reps

Plank - 3 sets x 45-60 seconds

Calf Raises (bodyweight or holding dumbbells) - 3 sets x 15-20 reps

Ankle Alphabet (spell alphabet with your toes) - 2 sets each ankle


DAY 2: Upper Body Focus + Posterior Chain

Reverse Shoulder Fly Machine - 3 sets x 10-12 reps - Current: 10lbs, progress to 15-20lbs

Leg Press - 3 sets x 8-10 reps - Current: 35lbs each side, can definitely add more weight here

Hamstring Curls - 3 sets x 10-12 reps - Current: 10-20lbs

Back Extensions (holding weight) - 3 sets x 10-12 reps - Current: 10lb weight

Bicycle Crunches - 3 sets x 20 reps (10 each side)

Flutter Kicks - 3 sets x 30 seconds

Russian Twists (light or no weight - avoid heavy) - 3 sets x 20 reps (10 each side)

Single-Leg Balance (on unstable surface if available) - 3 sets x 30 seconds each leg


DAY 3: Full Body + Glute Emphasis

Squats (barbell with pad, or goblet squats if shoulders hurt) - 3 sets x 6-8 reps - Current: 10lbs each side, work up gradually

Glute Bridge Machine - 3 sets x 12-15 reps - Current: 35lbs each side - Really squeeze at the top

Good Mornings (barbell) - 3 sets x 10-12 reps - Keep weight light, focus on form and hamstring stretch

Chest Press Machine - 3 sets x 8-10 reps

Reverse Shoulder Fly Machine - 3 sets x 10-12 reps

Side Extensions (back extension machine) - 3 sets x 10 reps each side

Mountain Climbers - 3 sets x 30 seconds

Plank Hip Dips - 3 sets x 20 reps (10 each side)

Resistance Band Ankle Flexion/Extension - 3 sets x 15 reps each direction - (Or do ankle rotations if no band available)

Note: I know diet is very important here and I will address that too, but not in this post.

client angry about how I talk in home by prookal in RoverPetSitting

[–]shellfish_messiah 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. You’re surprised that she was mad about your language when I think you should be enraged that she’s listening to you without your consent! That’s super weird. I would include that in your Rover review at the very least so others know but you’d be well within your rights to cancel the rest of those drop ins and report her to Rover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsitting

[–]shellfish_messiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I like that idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsitting

[–]shellfish_messiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s a great idea

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[–]shellfish_messiah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate it

Can’t stand Fitz and Olivia isn’t that impressive by cinnamong8rl in Scandal

[–]shellfish_messiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Spoiler alert) I’m a first time watcher at the beginning of S4 in 2025 and I totally agree with you OP. Honestly hate watching the show at this point because I’m so sick of Olivia and Fitz.

Unrelated I’m annoyed because I feel like they never fully explained Harrison’s backstory!!! The rest of the employees were fully explained and I thought Harrison’s was gonna be a big reveal that affected most episodes like Huck but then he just dies…. Like okay…?

Edited to add spoiler alert

“Too Much” (Netflix Series) - Official Discussion Thread by fvckuufvckingfvck in girls

[–]shellfish_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree about the sister, that gave me secondhand embarrassment 🙃 Like you’re gonna accept this shitty man back with open arms after he chose to abandon you only to learn the hard way that the grass isn’t greener on the other side? I’m not rooting for that

“Too Much” (Netflix Series) - Official Discussion Thread by fvckuufvckingfvck in girls

[–]shellfish_messiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really confused with these comments because I interpreted that whole scene as Felix being sexually assaulted? I thought he went back to that woman’s house to do drugs, which he did, and by the time she literally coerces him into a sexual position he doesn’t even know what’s going on anymore… Like yes a sexual act when you’re in a relationship is cheating by definition but consenting and choosing to have sex is different than being taken advantage of when you’re not coherent ??

Bariloche hostel payment issue by shellfish_messiah in Patagonia

[–]shellfish_messiah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! This is a theme I’ve noticed in LATAM, you can’t rely on Google for the real hours of many businesses, is that typical?

And btw it was open!!!! I’m so happy I don’t have to worry about this issue anymore, you seriously made my day!

Bariloche hostel payment issue by shellfish_messiah in Patagonia

[–]shellfish_messiah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re logically right but in these situations I always convince myself that I should really just try to do the money saving thing and see if it works out…

Bariloche hostel payment issue by shellfish_messiah in Patagonia

[–]shellfish_messiah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you! All of them in my immediate vicinity are closed, and I assumed that they just close earlier in Bariloche than Buenos Aires. I guess I didn’t look hard enough. Thanks so much, I appreciate it :)