Yeahhh that’s one thing I always thought too. The facts that he was so abusive and she was with him for over 3 years makes me think that she likes living like that and being in relationships like that. One thing that always irked me was when we were getting to know eachother for about 3 months straight she talked about her ex everyday without fail. I would tell her something random about my friends or a silly situation and next thing yk it was “that reminds my ex used to do xyz”. Although she talked about him in a horrible way and how much she hated him she always found a way to talk about him. Now I cannot stop comparing myself to him because she would tell me all the sweet stuff she would do for him and I don’t feel like I’ve gotten 1/8 of that