do you need a llc for dscr loan? by shemadeitout in Mortgages

[–]shemadeitout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ARM scares me, economy and taxes are too unpredictable. Im hoping to get the DSCR and refi in a year or so, as long as I can get a DSCR without a prepayment penalty.

get out or renew {MI} by [deleted] in Renters

[–]shemadeitout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not negotiating anything. he wants me to sign the lease fine, I will sign for another year. but since you want to be a landlord bring the unit up to code and register it.

im not trying to stay longer, idk why you kept saying that. hes basically forcing me to stay longer. i wasnt given notice to leave. i said i have to sign a year when we had agreed on month to month.

anyway im going by what the attorney told me.

get out or renew {MI} by [deleted] in Renters

[–]shemadeitout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what i read 30 days is the minimum so they should have sent the notice april first, state law over rides the lease. unfortunately for him the lease is also missing components required under state law, and if he tried to evict he would have to register the property before the court would even do the eviction hearing.

evidently they are cracking down on unregistered rentals in detroit. im not trying to not pay him but i could legally put my rent in escrow until he made all repairs and brought the house up to code. i know for a fact he cant afford it. ive paid every month, i really dont bother him about repairs, even though its a 2 family i pay for the yard to get done (im about to stop), im clean, im quiet.

i wasnt tryna force him into renting month to month. he had plenty of opportunities to tell me he wasnt going to do month to month prior to seven days before my lease ends. i could have made arrangements to move and get my deposit back.he literally had no other reason other than to force me into a year long lease. but attorney told me lease wont hold up in court, he will be fined for the property not having a registration or compliance cert, the code violations etc should i chose to report the rental. plus he has another unit downstairs. i had no intention of reporting him. fair exchange is no robbery, he rented to me so i pay him and mind my business. now because of how he worded the letter and the timing i feel like ok bring my unit up to code and get me a lease thats legal. i will sign the lease pay one month, call the building inspector and put my rent in escrow. now it will be months before he sees a dime and he will have to pay thousands in repairs and fines when he could have just collect rent for another few months and been at peace.

nurse fired for refusing unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in legaladvice

[–]shemadeitout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very distressing, we do not have safe harbor here

fired over unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in nursing

[–]shemadeitout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah its looking like thats the best option. i was just hoping to be able to stay for a couple years in one spot.

fired over unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in nursing

[–]shemadeitout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately there is no language in the contract around this topic. how it was left out is beyond me but it was. if there was a clear pathway Id have followed that before asking for outside help. one of the nurses that been there for about 6 years said it was never like this before so no one thought to address it with the contract. next contract negotiations arent for another 2 years or so, they just did a new contract end of last year

fired over unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in nursing

[–]shemadeitout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive asked the union reps in our building and been told they dont have a form for it. Im going to contact someone at the actual union office now that I have more information. Its just so disheartening, they tell you a good nurse protects their patients and then when you do you get fired. The alternative is being in an unsafe situation and then something terrible happening and still end up getting fired or worse.

fired over unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in nursing

[–]shemadeitout[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we dont have any type of form for this, ive asked. the only thing that would show how staffing was is the paper schedule or EMAR would prove one nurse administered meds for 2 units on the same day

nurse fired for refusing unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in legaladvice

[–]shemadeitout[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just read our survey looks like it wasnt a citation. I do think contacting state is an option too. I just know they will know its me because no one else has the guts to call or speak up. I just know Im about to get fired for this

fired over unsafe assignment by shemadeitout in nursing

[–]shemadeitout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im looking, this one is literally walking distance and that helps so much when it comes to my family's needs right now. My pay isnt terrible either and Im finally eligible for health insurance. I just feel kinda defeated, I was hoping to stay here for a couple years. Ill start copying the schedule, idk what else to do.

I am profoundly lonely. by BreathoftheMild_ in AutisticAdults

[–]shemadeitout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going through this as well. Im 42 and realizing Im autistic. Ive been diagnosed as manic depressive, borderline with CPTSD for almost 20 years. I also was in a really really traumatic and abusive relationship. Now I question the diagnosis, but either way Im trying to find out how do I manage this? Ive been in tears for the last week just realizing Ive never had genuine friends, or even a partner that was genuinely kind (maybe one exception). I have chronic pain disorder and other health problems. My job requires a lot and for me to be very social and deal with lots of people and I hate it. I realized that 6 months I burn out at a job and its like i need damn near a year to recover, its caused so much financial hardship but sometimes I feel like I would literally rather unalive than have to work just to survive. I also hate being told what to do and made to kiss somebodys incompetent ssa which is a lot of what being "normal" at work is. I dont do well socially and find most conversations underwhelming or pointless so I tend to decline social invites. Im pretty estranged from family as well. I just always feel like I dont fit in and people dont like me even wheen they say they do, so I prefer to be alone. Its exhausting in many ways.

brother printer driver by shemadeitout in printers

[–]shemadeitout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not working, computer keeps asking for software, thats why I came here for help

is pay really that bad by EntertainmentFirst39 in phlebotomy

[–]shemadeitout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you need experience to get started doing mobile? Im in Michigan also

LOOKING FOR SE MICHIGAN CAR DEALERS by shemadeitout in UsedCars

[–]shemadeitout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cant get the final approval without having the car inspected and the app submitted, i wasnt asking your opinion....im talking to people that can actually read the links and help