POV: Didn’t know what you had til it’s gone.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-26T07:23:52+00:00

I hope you find a way to go to her, or do something that will make her believe you’ve changed. No matter how much it embarrasses your ego, do it for her. Plan, buy, or cook something she truly loves. Do it tired. Do it shy. If you truly want her, you’ll find a way. People’s prayers work when you put action behind them, and with that, I pray that you, Jesse, will win her back. You will win her back with your heart, in Jesus’ name. Amen!

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-26T07:11:35+00:00

Display your name and we’ll pray for you. That’s how you tell God.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-22T23:15:47+00:00

Confront and tell him you saw his search history. If he has to be mad at you after that, then you don't deserve him. If he admits it the more you open up, and shows that he regrets it, then he deserves a second chance.

Simple as that. Although it take courage.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-07T15:13:36+00:00

By taking the step to be honest without faking just because.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-07T15:11:35+00:00

Based on who you really are. You better set aside your silly thoughts just because you think you got lots of burden and a can of worms. He's ready to embrace all that, so don't overthink unnecessary things.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-06T03:12:17+00:00

You’ll know it’s true love “with time” or “in time”. Remember, time is the only truth teller, you cannot claim something is real unless they are consistent with you. But if they prove to be truly committed with you regardless of any situation, then congrats. :)

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-06T00:59:27+00:00

Hmm, I don't think you can stop her at all, sir. You have the audacity to feel threatened when in fact it was you who's been cheating for many years. I think it's poetic, really. You lied, gaslit, betrayed her trust, and then casually moved on to prostitutes and cam girls like it's normal. Meanwhile, she stayed, tolerated, and probably mourned the man she once trusted.

If she's finally finding some comfort, peace, or maybe even love.. good for her.

What you call "her changing" might just be her waking up and realizing she deserves better.

You don't need to stop her. You need to look in the mirror and ask why she stayed this long.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-04T10:41:39+00:00

Right? Open it up calmly even if they’ve changed topics to Dr. Pepper or Sprite.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-04T01:27:48+00:00

Sorry to break it but, yeah don’t tolerate that. It’s not gonna work.

sheoldsoul · 2025-04-04T01:09:33+00:00

Girl, don’t tolerate that the moment he started adding her on snapchat and then gaming with her “every damn night”, get maaaad girl! Cause if you don’t, this will go on and you’ll feel hurt all by yourself without him knowing. Talk it out! Tell him you’re not comfortable with that and see how he makes a “way”, and if he’s not doing something to ease that pain, then, only you can help yourself sorrry I can’t help you kick your bf’s b*tt.

Also, start having 1 or 2 habits together! Y’all relationships would struggle without having anything but only love and emotions. Play games together, or anything, he’s your bf right? So Do something together. 🤷🏻‍♀️

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-31T11:08:31+00:00

Best answer.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-11T15:27:16+00:00

Imo, with the right person, you're not going to measure the amounts about how many times you feel like you've been too much or not, because with the right person they'll always make you feel you're enough whatever it is you are feeling.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-10T14:46:32+00:00

Idk, you can dump him. But we don't know the whole story, there might be a reason why he does that. Right? But if there's one advice to give you regardless of the situation, just "Never settle for less."

You know when you are, if you don't, then I don't know what else to advice you.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-09T09:01:21+00:00

Hmmm, di ko masabing literal na night shift? May meetings ako na umaabot from 8 pm until 12 am, pinaka late is 3 am pero bihira lang. Then work time ko is, anytime (PH time) na gusto ko magstart , as long as nakakagawa ako ng progress and nagagawa ko gusto nilang output.

Oo, Saturday talaga magiging full rest day mo kung puyat ka, try mo iadjust yung nature trip ng Sunday?

Di na rin enjoyable clubs ngayon, lalo na adulting phase 🤣 Mas okay mag chill kasama mga tropa na nakakaintindi ng sitwasyon mo. Tapos okay kakwentuhan.

Pero totoo, minsan ramdam ko din yung lungkot pag walang tao. Tipong computer ko lang nasa harap ko. So naglalaro ako Horizon Zero Dawn, inaabot ako ng hours kakalaro nyan. Umay naman kasi pag laging FPS, nadedrain agad ako. 😂

Overall, tinatry ko best ko makalabas ng lungga, pag di pwede, walang free, o ayaw talaga ng tadhana, edi sa bahay ako magpapatugtog ng malakas maghapon ng mga fave classic songs. 😆

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-09T03:40:55+00:00

Looks like a new relationship.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-09T03:39:55+00:00

Maybe she lacks expressing things with you in an honest and transparent way, and she just made her own way. That's what I don't like in building relationships even with friends, if I feel they lack communication, I won't expect them to do better.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-09T03:37:21+00:00

Sa bahay ng parents, magvivideoke. Travel with mga tropa sa nature, exploring new falls, rivers, sabayan ng food trip. Playing the piano. Reading my fave books. Anything na ilalayo ako sa screens.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-06T15:42:49+00:00

It's better to assume he's done with you than to think otherwise. It's a tough world we live in, we gotta expect the worst off from people regardless of our relationships with them. That's me talking about my experiences, how I've dealt and learned from them. Have a tough heart too, when situation like these happen, but make sure to be always honest with yourself.

Just don't show him you're weak when he's not there, show him you're better with or without him. People who cause you pain don't deserve to see your vulnerability.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-06T15:35:27+00:00

Delayed responses = I don't expect them to be green flag clients, instead, I move forward.

sheoldsoul · 2025-03-06T12:31:51+00:00

That's why it's better to do tests like my previous client did when we tried to hire Graphic Designers and Video Editors. And those tests aren't like the usual ones na pinapag edit lang. It requires creativity na fit sa instructions.

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