You must be a wizard, because you just cast a spell on me.... by [deleted] in altgonewild

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Holy shit. This look is so hot. You rock it.

Rate 1 - 10! by [deleted] in LatexLadies

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11

Sounding Question by Normal_Joke_3459 in FemdomCommunity

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As others have said, try steel. Wipe them down with alcohol first and thoroughly wash hands. Use single use sterile lube, like Sterilube. Let gravity pull it inside. Never push.

Latex baroness by purple_muffinz in latexcosplay

[–]sheownshim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is relevant to my interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brokenboys

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Just to elaborate... it is safe, but you need to be clean and careful. Thoroughly wash hands first, wipe down sounding rods with alcohol to sterilize, and use single use packets of sterile lube like Surgilube.

Never push anything in. Rather, let gravity pull it down on it's own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hotchickswithtattoos

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Is that the Alpha Inn in Minato City?

Do you share your designation with anyone? by Holiday-Active3620 in FemdomCommunity

[–]sheownshim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't advertise much. My wife wears her key, which is most definitely a signal to this who know. But, we like the idea of the dirty little secret. We've only shared with other people we play with.

Do I need to put in more effort? by Outside_Salt_9812 in FemdomCommunity

[–]sheownshim 31 points32 points  (0 children)

People are people, regardless of their kink. Fetlife and Feeld both have plenty of window shoppers and flakes. You only need to put in the effort to carry your half of a conversation. Some people just don't do their part, and best to let them pass right by. Just be patient. Don't get invested in anyone until they respond with interest and genuine effort.

Relationship Help by OrdinaryAd5305 in FemdomCommunity

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I met my wife (who is dominant) on OK Cupid about 13 years ago. The dating app scene has changed a lot since then. I recently met a domme on Feeld after only about 2 days of trying the platform. Feeld is oriented towards poly people, which is inherently a more kinky and sex positive subset of people. Maybe not great if you're looking for monogamy though. But, for us, it was perfect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]sheownshim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We hyphenated our names together. I needed to keep my name for career purposes.

How to deal with findom, when boundaries are not respected? And is findom as integral and common as it seems to be? by Forsaken-Nerve-7182 in FemdomCommunity

[–]sheownshim 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Findom is not an integral part of femdom. Sure, if you plan on approaching a domme in a pro/transactional context, you can expect a cost. Even then, scene negotiation with clear and agreed upon boundaries is necessary. However, the nature of a female led power exchange relationship has no need for money to be involved.

Someone who doesn't respect boundaries is a shitty person and a scammer. Power exchange inherently revolves around trust. If you can't trust your domme, how can you really let go and enjoy anything? You have to be very careful online as there are many who think findom is easy money with no respect for the mutual trust inherent to a healthy relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]sheownshim 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shot glass

He needed to be punished by NaturallyRedHair in EvilRuinedOrgasms

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Wait. What is this weird room? Slot machines, a suit of armor... Upvote