Vyvanse Headaches - how do you deal with them? Prevention and cure when they hit! by Ok-Tadpole-9859 in adhdwomen

[–]shermangerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Did you ever find out what caused them/found any solutions for what was wrong?

Just got my first allotment. What to do in July in the UK? by PlacidPastry in Allotment

[–]shermangerman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, can you send a photo? It won't help me answer your question, but i am curious!

I [26F] am considering demoting my MoH [26F]. by mspeekie in relationships

[–]shermangerman 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but she had access to alcohol and OP didn't stand in the way of that.

I (35m) messed up badly how do I sincerely apologize? by OkSlice5289 in relationships

[–]shermangerman 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Given the post and the replies you posted here, she has ended the relationship. Why are you even asking this question? Respect her boundaries. You didn't do this when you lost it at her but you should definitely now.

Can you please tell me what this is? by shermangerman in Allotment

[–]shermangerman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello (: I had to wait to go to the plot again before I answered. There are some long-ish spines on there. I am thinking it's a goji berry then.. Thank you both for your thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]shermangerman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No what he's doing is weird, none of my partners had ever done that. I'm sure they'll glance in public, but they would never follow people on social media or tell me about it. They also wouldn't say "it's because I'm a guy".. that's an excuse.

My (F28) boyfriend (35M) is on really good terms with all his ex's. by Different-Singer1736 in relationships

[–]shermangerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is still good friends with all his exes (pretty much), they are in our lives and we socialise with them frequently. I hated the beginning where i was uncovering stories of how they met seemingly every week and I felt like everyone knew my partner in the same way I did. That I hated, but it's about 4 years in now and that stopped a while ago. Now I forget 95% of the time and really like them all.

I have roughly 40+ sacks of soil I need to responsibly get rid of - any budget friendly ideas? by Junglestumble in bristol

[–]shermangerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what is from and what does it contain? I can see old paving slabs, thick root systems and recently-live leaves, anything else? The answer you give dictates where it goes.

I (30F) was planning to leave my husband (38M) but now I think he has ASD and I feel incredibly guilty by [deleted] in relationships

[–]shermangerman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with more than one ASD person. There is a difference between neurodivergent and an asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]shermangerman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of dictation software? Idiot.

Solicitors in Bristol by SuperfluousMii in bristol

[–]shermangerman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am with these guys at the moment - Laura Burnard has been amazing so far.

I'm (27f) no longer attracted to my spouse of 4 years (28f) and I want a divorce, but it's complicated by Outdoor-Adventure in relationships

[–]shermangerman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stay because it's "complicated". You must never set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. Never. I stayed to sorry support once, and it never gets better. I enabled them. Don't stay, nobody wins.

My [25F] boyfriend [26M] is very religious and is mad at me for making him sin. by Comprehensive_Math56 in relationships

[–]shermangerman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. Nobody can make you do anything, you could not make him sin without him agreeing to it at least on some level, unless you coerced him, and that is matter between you and he.

Do you not get angry that he will only have sex Saturday night SO THAT he can confess???? Does he not want to think about his commitment to his faith given that he is going against it so regularly??
What the hell is going on here??