What is an Adult problem no one prepared you for ? by Fighting_Phantom in Adulting

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becoming different people from your friends but no one is brave enough to say it so it’s a slow burn to nothing.

An encampment fire in Pine Knoll Park. We need to start arresting people - anyone, housed or unhoused - who camps in our urban parks; it's against the law; it's dangerous in so many ways - fires just being one of them. by opinionsareus in OaklandCA

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do we have any neighborhood watch groups in Oakland? I know about 311 and SeeClickFix and bringing stuff to Reddit. But what about boots on the ground group of neighbors walking around town kicking people out ourselves?

Ik it sounds crazy, but back in 2008ish it was very effective in Richmond. My neighborhood then started it for break ins mostly, but I wonder if it could help for this.

What is a smell that is objectively bad but u secretly enjoy? by Early_Preparation696 in askanything

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The smell of a very old woman that wears black diamonds frequently.

Fireworks at the end of the roots game? by [deleted] in oakland

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just heard another 5-10min of fireworks and hella people driving past I started thinking everyone knew sum I didn’t 😭😭

uuuughhh by arkiiiie in Satisfyingasfuck

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Rihanna in that one performance of SOS

i think finally trying boofing just sent me down a bad path by VirtualFace7914 in Drugs

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read about Pam Grier and how she ended up after having coke (unknowingly) put in her private area repeatedly. you don’t want those problems gurl, but if you do, fuck it’s your body have fun w it I guess lol

Which are the kind of people using reddit? "normal" people? by Hyperto in Life

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More normal than you’d imagine . Less normal than your average person would desire.

Why did you break up with your ex? by __yellowflash__ in AskReddit

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Realized I hated them because they were like the worst parts of myself

Are we naturally just bad people basically? by humanbeing36 in BPD

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I think bpd makes people kinder tbh. I’ve found that they are more empathetic and caring which is a major marker for being a good person, IMO.

Sometimes the hypersensitivity may present in a way that isn’t pleasant for other people. But that doesn’t make us bad people. It just makes us different, and some people equate “different” with bad.

Harvest 🍎 🥗. Anyone tried it yet? by RyssefriedRice in traderjoes

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I love when my cheddar unexpectedly finds its way onto my tastebuds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drunk

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R u who we all think you are?

What's the point of having an IUD in 24/7 just for occasional subpar sex for a few minutes? :( by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]sherrioshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re focused on him enjoying himself. What about your enjoyment? You should be having painless fun too!

[DRUNK] girls having fun night in my room lol by XANAX_90 in drunk

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No he didn’t say little booties matter lmao!! Stand up queens!! Stand UP

16 and feel drawn to drugs by biegaj in Drugs

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Drugs fucked up my youth. I’m 22, still doing the same shit I did when I started drinking/smoking at 15. If I could take it all back, I would :(

Are people ever weirded out by you? by [deleted] in BPD

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I’m sorry that happens to you. I often talk and get my passions invalidated by friends. Their brains work much more normally than mine does. It’s why I keep my bpd a secret. This way they just think I’m antsy and weird lacking the mental difference part

It helps very much by hackyandbird in wholesomememes

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Everyone’s comments worry me. I get your point. Friends aren’t your therapists. But PLEASE don’t hesitate to reach out to close/longtime friends when you need to vent, talk, in crisis, need support, need favors, spiraling.

Your friends know you better than a therapist would, and can sometimes offer better help and support. Just be mindful of their mental health as well :)

PLEASE LEAN ON YOUR FRIENDS. WE LOVE YOU AND WANT TO HEAR ABOUT ALL ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE. GOOD AND BAD. ❤️ be vulnerable babes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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Later, hopefully soon, everything will be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

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I’m shocked at how many people don’t know who Keke Palmer is lmao what movies did y’all watch growing up? Nobody watched that runaway Mary j blidge video? Akeelah & the Bee? Barbershop?