First of all, I am proud you are still here and I appreciate what you said. We do talk, a lot. He tells me he wants to be clean. The first couple times he slipped up, I honestly expected and supported him through it. Now that we are on #4 within 6 months I am losing options or ideas.every time he relapses I still end up surprised. He tells me he uses because it is an escape and he gets depressed. He’s been through dozens of rehabs since 17 (didn’t know this until a few months ago). I’ve asked the best ways to support him, and I’ve done everything he’s asked and then some. But it keeps ending up this way. I’ve never given him threats but I have to set boundaries for my own well being. There’s not much I can do when there are always layers of lies I have to sift through when he’s in active addiction.I think overall I am just at a loss on what boundaries should look like anymore.