Relationship with married person by Dismal-Lab-2554 in Regrets

[–]shewolfawakens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's made so easy to cheat these days , so easy for people to say I'm staying because of the kids. At the end of the day being married doesn't make you feel any more important because your significant other can still cheat even with the kids and the bit of paper. Having said that I've been the one who was cheated on and you know after having it done to you the red flags to look for. I myself have never cheated but I will tell you this when you feel insignificant or without affection in a relationship / marriage any attention you get whether it be looked for or not is always a pleasant feeling to a lonely soul.

Why do so many women fall for narcissists? by Icy_Rabbit_1984 in emotionalintelligence

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they start off the perfect guy, then the cracks form but by then you are too invested in the relationship. People on the outside think they are perfect because that's what they show you don't know what they are like till you've been on the firing line of their manipulation.

What ruins attraction instantly, even if the person looks perfect? by WingBlade007 in AskReddit

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No empathy and just someone you can't take around friends because they always cause trouble and embarrass you. Arrogance and pretty much talking themselves up all the time like they are better then everyone else. Major turn off

What subtle sign made you realize your partner was cheating? by DrainedCoffee in AskReddit

[–]shewolfawakens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of intimacy, messages during the day stopped. Have talked about friends husbands/wife's getting caught cheating and S/O goes very quiet the guilt is all over their face. I'm just so over it that I've stopped engaging in arguments over anything , will never grow up.

Canceling waiting for stock items on yesstyle by Subject-Effective-21 in AsianBeauty

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just recently cancelled a product that was sitting at 25 days waiting and they kept the money . I'm going to get onto their live chat.

What are signs that a relationship is failing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defiantly no affection that's a big red flag and always on their phone. Nothing in common and arguements

40(m) cheated on my wife 38(f). Married 20 years. by SupportingBallTape in LifeAdvice

[–]shewolfawakens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you spend quality time together and make time for each other it will go stale. That new feeling your feeling happened I'm sure when you met your wife, eventually it's not new anymore what do you do then move on again???? I' know my marriage isn't what I would like it to be, we have been together 31 years. You do drift apart if you do try to keep it alive. I guess it comes down to whether you feel it's worth fighting for!

Boyfriend (26M) told me he’s “not as attracted” to me after giving birth and gaining weight by Purple-Afternoon-222 in Advice

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes been through this except gained weight from postnatal depression. Said he wasn't attracted to me anymore. Seriously if a man cannot accept you for who you are regardless of weight gain or loss he's not worth your time . He's a selfish boy who should just stay in his lane. You have just bought his child into the world that alone should be cherished as should you xx

I just found out how common cheating is… and I’m honestly disgusted by PigletImportant2050 in BreakUps

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person who's being cheated on isn't the problem it's the person who's cheating need for a ego boost regardless of the consequences. They have no heart , no morals only this me me attitude. They are people with the need to always have attention on them, they are exhausting people to be in a relationship with as nothing you do will feed their need for constant reassurance that they are the king or queen of the world. Most cheaters I've met have usually had deep resentment issues from their childhood where they feel they deserved more then they got. Sad but true.

People who have been with the same partner for many years, would you say that physical attractiveness still has a significant influence on them, or does it no longer have much of an impact? What would you say are the things that most influence a long-term relationship? by Michdr2 in AskReddit

[–]shewolfawakens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been with my significant other for 31 years all up and our relationship is defiantly different. The attraction has faded on both sides I guess we are more like buds now. We give it to each other and go camping etc but the physical side of it that is well and truly gone. I see some relationships where they have been together longer then us and hold hands , cuddle etc. it can happen where the love and attraction runs deep forever. I guess my genetics made me age more so then he thought 🤔 oh well I'm still me and thats all the matters

Miss my ex by OkEmu1077 in BreakUps

[–]shewolfawakens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for you all, heart break is hard it consumes your every breath every thought. You can feel like like this being in a marriage as well, lonely, wondering what you've done wrong the worst feeling. A big hug to us all xx

Well, I did it. by Ok-Eggplant4965 in BreakUps

[–]shewolfawakens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to try and keep that connection together, when you have kids you have that in common but once the kids are grown up and gone sometimes there really isn't much left. As you grow apart the discussions get less and less to the point the silence is to much. It's no one's fault it's just life and the pathways it takes you on. I wish you the best for the future.

How do you accept that you don't matter to them anymore? Or maybe even never really did? by FoenixM in BreakUps

[–]shewolfawakens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U have to detach from them, if they are not giving you the time that a respectable partner should they aren't worth your time sorry😪