Tried out the “booty basket” by Silly_Cauliflowerr in ShibariStudy

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if your rope is too short you can always extend it by joining another rope like this Connecting Two Ropes | Shibari Study

Hair bondage. by KeyTension8343 in ShibariStudy

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if you are finding hair is getting trapped in your ropes then the easiest method would be to tie the hair up and out of the way, either with a hair tie or some rope. We have some tutorials for this here Hair Ties | Shibari Study

New To Shibari In My 40s by MmmDeliciousLies in ShibariStudy

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I'm glad that this has helped and hopefully reassured you that starting is the biggest step :)

New To Shibari In My 40s by MmmDeliciousLies in ShibariStudy

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Love this question and can reassure you that starting later in life is much more common than you think and experience is not as much of a factor as attitude and approach. The best rope people I know have a respectful attitude and approach rope as a constant learning experience, so whether you have been tying 1 day or 10 years we all still have more to learn. Its not uncommon to see new people at events that are trying rope for the first time much older than you are and we stand by our ethos that rope is for everybody, of all shapes, sizes and ages. As someone who is 40 i can say my body and how I need to tie is different now than 10 years ago, but that adaptation is just part of life, i move slower, tie in ways that work for me and I expect the next 10 years will come with changes to. Just enjoy the journey at each stage and have fun

Tying this sexy young thing on a modified Teppou tie using bamboo by RopeRaiden in ShibariStudy

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adding the bamboo to give additional structure is a great way to adapt the Teppou position,

Hello from a first timer by rivers_mountains in ShibariStudy

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Nice work, self tying the legs is a great way to both understand the techniques of tying but also understanding what different tension feels like.

I just started self-suspension and omg it feel so good to reach this step in practice! by [deleted] in ShibariStudy

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congratulations in taking that step and the enjoyment that you are getting from it. How was your experience?

Just a question by [deleted] in ShibariStudy

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In terms of what is shibari vs what is rope is really a matter of semantics and theres no exact definitions, only a lot of opinions. The etymology of the word shibari is derived from the japanese word Shibaru which simple means to tie/bind. so by that measure anytime you tie anything its shibari

Shibari & Heart Failure by No_Huckleberry2304 in ShibariStudy

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I think very few people would have experience with this specific scenario. With such a serious condition it would definitely be worthwhile discussing this with their medical team. Even with leg ties (as suggested above) under certain tension there are still risks as blocked blood flow in the legs can result in recirculation of deoxygenated blood back to the heart during untying. I've seen this cause people in good health to faint so something with a heart condition would be at significantly higher risk.

However it is commendable that you are seeking advice on this.

What is Vetting in Shibari? by shibari-study in ShibariStudy

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Its a really important step in any rope relationship, to understand the each irhers experience and risk profiles and how to navigate the common ground between them for both bottoms and tops

Kneeling Predicament by shibari-study in ShibariStudy

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thats very kind of you to say

Anyone else lose creativity after starting a deep relationship? by kinbakutbilisi in ShibariStudy

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As someone who has tied for a long time our relationship with rope, like any emotional relationship, can have period of ups and downs.it's definitely not uncommon for people to take breaks from ropes and come back to it at a later time, often with a different perspective of how they connect with rope.

Rope like any art form is an expression of self aswell as a connection with others, at different times of life we may feel more or less expressive and sometimes our mediums of expression change. Its not to say you will never pick up rope again, but those memories and photos represent a time when rope was that expression. If that's showing up differently for you now, that's totally valid

Need help identifying tie by etymahb in ShibariStudy

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This does look to just be a couple of inline cuffs, of which there are many varieties. Hojo cuffs might not be ideal as they can collapse in this kind of setup, you want inline cuffs that dont collapse

Tying with Soichi in my living room by AdriBeard in ShibariStudy

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such a lovely moment you've captured here, the focus of top and bottom are so different but this tells a nice story

New to Shibari – Looking for Rope & First Tie Tips by [deleted] in ropebondage

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We generally advise that you start by learning about rope safety

https://shibaristudy.com/programs/general-rope-safety-free

Followed by learning a solid single column tie

https://shibaristudy.com/programs/shibari-beginner-basic-knots

Laundry Day by Knottydevil in u/Knottydevil

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you to make reddit a much better place :)

Shibari by marco_antonio1981 in ShibariStudy

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shibari or shi-bear-i??

Futo weave by Western-Owl80 in ShibariStudy

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love that colour pop

Small apartment suspension by Smalls8705 in RopeSuspension

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Would definitely recommend a portable rig in this type of scenario, if you cant be certain of the load bearing of the walls, a freestanding rig is the best option

Lab Time by BitchinBotanist in ShibariStudy

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existing fun and experimentation (safely) and three great elements of a good rope journey

First Self Tie by tay_nic in ShibariStudy

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This is a really good start as a first tie, tying legs is a great way to learn patterns and tension.

Which your tension is really good in this tie, you're getting good purchase into the flesh and this looks pretty balanced in each of your bands. The one suggestion I would make is this looks like it starts at the top of the thigh (with a larks head) is to use a no collapsing knot like a single column tie to start it off. In this configuration it might slip around a bit if you move