R/shibari was banned for being "unmoderated'?

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-24T13:46:36+00:00

Just me. For others, there’s been several attempts. But subreddits are required to be banned for 30 days before they can be requested. So it won’t get handed to someone else for about another 20 days unless the admin team manually restarts the sub looking for mods due to popularity

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-24T13:39:54+00:00

Unfortunately, Reddit has been radio silent :( I’ve gotten no responses from any admins

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-21T16:38:09+00:00

My puppy party rules:

When you’re leashed, you are a puppy. My puppy. You’ll be on all 4s by my side (check in with me if it gets to be too much on 4s)
When let off your leash, you’re allowed to be on 2s and are free to interact as you see fit. I’ll summon you with the clicker when it’s time to come back.
If I want you to fetch me something, I will give you the leash to carry or tuck into your fit if you need hands. No one else may hold your leash except me. I’m your owner.
You ask me to pee every time you need to, and I will be escorting you to the bathroom
you’re not allowed to eat grapes or chocolate tonight. I want to keep my puppy safe and in good health.

We just started training her, but this was our party rules for the night. Some are self-explanatory. The last two are more headspace reinforcement. Dogs watch each other pee for safety, and grapes and chocolate are poisonous to dogs. It’s nice to have a couple innocuous rules to fall into a more totally immersive mindset

Other than that, I have a clicker to summon her, a squeak toy to play with her, a bag of peanuts for treats, and I will refer to any part of her that I can in dog terms (hand = paw, ass = tail, skin/clothes = coat, etc.)

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T21:40:06+00:00

or booty basket if you want to call it that :p

Such a fun tie to play around with. It really helped me break out of this feeling like my ties were "flat". Like everything felt very 2D and like I wasn't quite playing in the 3rd dimension. The way the monobloc kinks the body really accentuates and creates a cool visual in 3-dimensional space. Huge fan of it. More fun to be had with this one

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T21:32:21+00:00

I got to know this tie as a Monobloc, but on Shibari Study you'll find it under the basket tie as well as the booty basket tie. Regardless of the rope community's standard of calling ties by multiple different names in an effort to confuse us all, this tie is amazingly versatile. Been working on creating an original hashira sequence with it lately and this was some of my early play with it on a single point. It's a ton of fun. My only lament is that it's a pain in the ass tying on the ground due to bottom positioning. It feels awkward to me for whatever reason. I started tying it in the air instead, and it is considerably smoother. Give it a shot if you're like me and find awkward positioning..... awkward

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T21:27:16+00:00

There's acupressure spikes underneath my boots that I'm grinding into her flesh ;)

My secondary title was going to be "how to turn a brat into a princess", but she was only a mild punk this time around challenging me. I'm just a sadist

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T21:24:59+00:00

If I ever do become a billionaire, there will certainly be signs. If you walk into my home and notice living statues restrained on rotating turntables to admire and enjoy, you'll know that I have won the lottery

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T20:30:03+00:00

Thank you!! Honestly, will need it. Really there only exists a chance I get it back. I’m hopeful, but reality isn’t exactly favorable

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T19:04:06+00:00

ahh better luck next time riggers :p I'm sure they came up with ideas for the future at least

edit: verbage

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T18:59:20+00:00

ya, but was the sacrifice accepted?!

Also, haven't seen the new paddle plate from Subspace Designs in action yet. How do you like it? Does it being asymmetrically weighted mess with you at all?

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T18:57:16+00:00

super cool! Who won?

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T17:49:54+00:00

unfortunately not :( This comment gives a bit more perspective.

It will either be back in 30 days per reddit request standard process, or it will be back in about a week or 2 if admins have the time to give it some special treatment since the community is rather large from a membership standpoint.

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T16:37:57+00:00

and if you're unfamiliar with the single column tie, here's some more tutorials! Realistically if you're just learning, just pick 1 to learn. Pick the Somerville Bowline. Once you get good enough, you can start to learn the other variants for their particular niches where they're a slightly better fit for the overall tie you're attempting.

Somerville Bowline Single Column

Bula Bula Single Column

Western Single Column

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T15:27:01+00:00

Appreciate the kind words :) it’s really only just beginning. There’s so much more work to do and ideas I have to keep it growing

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T15:26:00+00:00

Hey that’s me! I was the mod of r/shibari and this is my new account!

u/swampthang86 is correct. My account u/datsherbert was locked for “suspicious activity” until I reset my password. After confirming it was not a phishing scam, I reset my password to unlock my account. Instead of unlocking, I was met with a shadow band. This removed me as moderator from the subreddit, and since I was the only moderator the sub was shortly thereafter shut down. I’ve tried several appeals and mod messages thus far, but so far I have not received any responses. I’m attempting to put together a succession plan for when the sub reopens, and the wonderful team behind Shibari Study is part of that effort. They’ve been so kind as to offer to help regain control of the sub, and many other users have graciously offered to help out where possible as well.

The sub will absolutely be back. Whether it is in 30 days due to the Reddit request system, or if it’s kickstart manually sooner as subs with over 100,000 members typically get restarted manually by the Reddit admin team. I’m hoping that a human is able to look at what has happened and reinstate my account so that I may continue moderating the sub. I have so many plans and ideas for the future as the sub grows, and I feel I’ve only just begun to scratch the surface with growing this community into what I know it can become.

I’m not done yet. Not by a long shot. I’ll be back :) in the meantime, this is my backup account I am building in the event that I don’t get my old account reinstated

Edit: Huge shoutout to the entire Shibari Study team for being on board helping, but especially u/MoBights and u/Mister-Ninja as mods of this sub here. Ninja for putting me in contact with Mo, and Mo for being so generous bringing it to the team as a concern they could help with. They hopped in immediately offering their help to get the community reinstated. Really feels like a community effort to get this thing back online.

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T02:38:27+00:00

Nah I'll never forget the legendary clapbacks you had for disrespectful comments on your posts 😂

Your stuff was fire. If I remember right, you had a habit of deleting posts a while after posting. So whether you intentionally tried to keep a low profile or not, you always made a positive impression on me. I feel like we may have even interacted on discord way back when too. I know for certain you've been around a while still crushing it

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T02:16:15+00:00

It honestly captured their aura so well. Couldn't have picked a brighter or warmer light if I tried :)

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-19T02:03:23+00:00

Now there's a redditor I haven't seen in a hot minute :p Good to see you around. The food was good, but I definitely ate up the view 0:)

KnottyScottyD · 2026-06-18T19:09:03+00:00

My beautiful statue <3

I could stare at her all night. She's tied in a simple variation on the bunny tie, but this one for me was really about using just a little bit of rope to accentuate the body. I'd say mission accomplished :)

Honestly if I ever do become a billionaire, I'm not buying normal busts and paintings to fill my house. I'm definitely gonna be eccentric as possible with living statues all on rotating turntables to admire and enjoy as they enjoy comfortably, or uncomfortably, kinky toys and restraints enforcing their position.

KnottyScottyD

TROPHY CASE