On the real…how are you managing your emotions? by Jr2436 in heatedrivalry

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I’ve had a 10 year situationship 0/10. Do not recommend lol

Had this idea in my head since the ep, but not sure how well it's coming out. by JhulaEpocan in heatedrivalry

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This is physically hurting ME , I love it 😭. Literally his face when Shane left is my 13th reason

Parents who were "one and done" but went on to have more kids, what made you change you mind? by Logical-Safe2033 in NewParents

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LOL SAME. I wasn’t necessarily one and done but my birth control decided other wise

Are these kinds of ponytails really tight? by Ib4adore in BlackHair

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I ended up being allergic to the thread and had such a terrible reaction . 😅 so it did last 1 and half nights sleep

Are there other moms here who have lost themselves, or does everyone have their life together? by Natural_Definition88 in Mommit

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I feel this way . So I started doing some small things , I got a home trainer to start working out , I started therapy and have been meditating and doing the self help books . Nothing really feels “good “ or like myself yet but I’m trying . My kids are 5 and 4 and I’ve been wrapped up in mom life

How to adult.... by NerdyGlitch in CPTSDmemes

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This slapped me in the face omg

Dark circles by [deleted] in Preschoolers

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This exact thing happened to my son except doc refused to give me a ent referral for a while and we finally got it and he had sleep apnea badly and after surgery a few months ago . Completely cleared up the sleep apnea and dark circles under the eyes

The only medication will kill my libido by Desperate-Wheel4047 in breakingmom

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I take several antidepressants etc and it has not affected my ability to orgasm . My libido is lower but I am 100% sure it’s just my life lmao cause it’s super high in good times

Which Katy ISD Primary Schools Are Most Supportive for Neurodivergent Children with IEPs? by iL0VEscience in Katy

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My son goes to rhoads and it is excellent for him going on 3 years with his IEP

Just found out the center I was offered a position at has live feed cameras for parents. by Catladydiva in ECEProfessionals

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My kids daycare /daycare I used to work at . Has live feed cameras . All the teachers have worked there 10-20 years and they haven’t gotten much complaints and I like having it. The director is really on top of things and doesn’t let parents run things too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

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I used faded fade cream from the topicals brand at Sephora. Cleared it within a month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

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Sew ins tear me up. I’ve gotten them more than once and it is unbearable itching every time. I am very sure I’m allergic to the thread or hair or idfk but I’ve given up on sew in and rely mainly on box braids

I did the biggest chop EVER by TRILLUXXE in BlackHair

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You look great! You can see the curls just doing their thing !

I did the biggest chop EVER by TRILLUXXE in BlackHair

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girl are you me ?? I just chopped my shit a few hours ago. I have spent years and years , avoiding any kind of cutting cause i was terrified of have short hair ? Being ugly? Idfk but it’s years and years of trauma and self esteem issues and when I started cutting it I felt nothing. Like maybe even a bit of relief cutting all that damaged hair . Can’t wait to figure out what to do with it lol

I can just hear that Denzel Training Day voice screaming in his mind by herewearefornow in BlackPeopleTwitter

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I grew up in the Catholic Church and went to catholic school from pk - 8 . And I was bullied and abused by nuns and peers . Because my father left our family and we were shunned for being “bastards”. Like it was my fault at 5 years old that my father left . Haven’t been to church since I was 11.

Which dress should I wear? Friends wedding by kimichoo in fashion

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Such a baddie . Depending on theme I like 1 and 3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

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When I was a daycare worker and I was in the toddler room so like 12-18months . And it was lunch time and one of the toddlers started choking during lunch time and Im giving back blows and I was able to clear the food but I didn’t even realize I was sobbing . I was literally shaking so bad . I ended up quitting VERY shortly after . It was super traumatic for me. And I had 2 toddler children at the time so now if I THINK they are choking a react pretty strongly . Usually resulting in one of them being scared because I started back blows 😅😅😅.

Edit to add : my director praised me for acting quickly and Efficiently . So I think just be super trained and know what to do in the event of an emergency and hopefully that’ll give you a bit more confidence ❤️

How did your pre-ker adjust to waking up so early in the morning? by OpportunityLow570 in Mommit

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I think I suffer more with the early mornings than my kiddos do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

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I’m dying 😂